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Archived questions from: 13 May, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Am I falling for him or clinging to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - I was with my ex for 2 and a half years, and he left me last week. However there was this guy who was there for me and helped me alot.. I think im falling for him, is that possible? or am I just being clingy? ...

How much longer should I wait for him to ask me out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - I have been working with this company for 2 years. The man I am extremely interested in is a manager of a different department. He is extremely low key and shares most of my interests. He is funny, smart, quirky and very nerdy. I love that about ...

Ready for a change - I want him to trust me when he's not there.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6042 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. About 9 months ago I kissed a guy and we have talked about that. He likes to go on Internet chat rooms and talk to guys and mess around with them through chat. He has never cheated on me. However, ...

Does my ex still have feelings for me? Or am I imagining it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - I have posted on here before and got some good advice. My ex bf of 3 years broke up with 1 month ago and started dating a new woman a day after we broke up. He met her while we we were out clubbing together and they had known each other on and off...

I think he is head over heels in love with me, what about u?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - Iam dating this guy he really likes me,infact I think he is head over heels in love with me.Iam starting to think he is obsessed with me.At night when Iam sleeping he sleeps really close to me and rubs against me and rubs my back or couresses me in ...

What do men like? I feel I am socially awkward.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - im a 20 year old woman and have never been on a date before. i wouldnt say that i am unattractive physically however i am very socially awkward and can come across as 'standoffish'. so any tips on how i can come across more likeable, confident...

I fell for him, he's married - she's pregnant, now I'm heart broken

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - Hi.....iam 21 years and iam in a heartbreaking dilema...i started seing this guy ( @ the time 32) when i was 19.... The thing is that it all started so sudden @ work...you know the passing by the office..the eye contact...then one day he took me ...

I asked him out. He said no. What should I do next?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - i like this guy and i asked him out and he said no what should i do ...

She is pregnant and has a fiance but I am so in love with her! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6042 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - I am so in love with this pregnant girl im 18 and the girl i have fallen in love with is 19. She was in the year above until she left n i am now in my last sixth form year. She is 6-7 month pregnant and has a fiance. Everyone talks of her n ...

Should men pay on the first 'date'?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - Question #1 I met a woman on an online dating service. She suggested we should meet up for coffee and I agreed and suggested a time and place. When we finished she said she would go to the restroom while I took care of the bill. She didn’t offe...

My long distance partner is confusing me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - Hi all! I have posted a question here a few months ago about my long distance relationship. It has gotten better, still no flowers, but he calls a couple of times per week, we txt each other frequently as well as email. He is comming over again - ...

Getting closure from the person you thought was your ultimate soul-mate...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - Sorry, the story below is a bit long but needed to explain my situation. Hopefully wont bore you too much! About 6 years ago (When I was 27) I had a long distance relationship with someone who I was crazy about. At the time I couldn't believe ...

I'm hiding something from him, because it'll make him angry. I'm confused, advice please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - Sorry, this is long... My boyfriend doesn't trust me. I am to blame of this, in part. He has trust issues because of previous girlfriends and being abused as a child (I didn't know about this until it was too late). But the thing is, he's always ...

I'm afraid to fall in love with this woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - I've been dating this girl for a little over a month. We have this amazing connection, not just physical but intellectually. She's perfect, except for one thing; I can't seem to be able to allow myself to feel more profound feelings for her. I ...

Men, please help me understand my boyfriend's jealousy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend gets jealous when he sees me training another guy on my job. It's still dark out (5:00a.m.) so I understand men think weird things when it's dark, especially when my BF can't see us during this training, but why should he call this guy ...

I'm scared I'm going to get hurt again, in this weird situation we're in...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - Hi all, I wanted to share my weird situation with you and to maybe get some good advice.. The deal is, me and this girl broke up some months ago, we've been together for almost a year. She couldn't continue seeing me the way it used to be cause...

How do I deal with my two-faced boyfriend? I've just been dumped...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has just dumped me, for a girl who he said he's hated forever. How do I sort this problem?...

I need gift ideas for my boyfriend who is starting a new job!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a couple of months now. He has just got a wonderful new job that he will be starting in 2 weeks time. He will get a company car, will have to wear a suit + tie, be clean shaven etc which is a change for him b...

What are your thoughts or experiences about relationships between people of different nationalities?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - My question is about relationships with people of differing nationalities. I am Australian of english/irish heritage and my boyfriend is Greek but was born/raised in Australia. his brother is married to a women who is half greek and half anglo. ...

My fingers are deformed and I'm scared it's putting the girls off me

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - Hey, well Im 18 years old and as of yet had not had a girlfriend. I was born with a birth defect to my hands in which my fingers are deformed.The only relationship i've had has been an online one and she knew about my situation. I'm not anti-social. ...

When a girl says she's falling for you, does she mean 'falling in love'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - Hey everybody. I don't really know how to interpret this, but what exactly does a girl mean when she says she's falling for you? Does it mean falling in love or basically crushing? I would think it means falling in love am i right?...

I am a victim of trust because of her ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - Hello all, thank you for taking the time to read and give your opinion about my situation.. i met my GF on the Internet, she lives in Japan and i live in Canada.. to make it short, her last relationship went sour when she open the door to a room to ...

If he does these things does it mean he likes you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - -Stands near you, almost touching -If a part of your body is touching and he doesn't move -His pupils get big when you talk -Supports your ideas -Finds little excuses to touch you (appropriately) -Tease each other -Voice changes sometimes whe...

Why did he give himself a handjob when he has me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - i sleep with my defacto and thought i satisfied him sexually but the other morning very early he i think handjobed himself twice and now i feel i dont make him happy what does it mean when a guy gives himself a handjob when he has a live in ...

How do I do break up without hurting her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - Does it seem like I'm thinking this through rationally, am I being an asshole, or both? My girlfriend of a year says she loves me, and is always good to me. We have fun together, but she never hangs out with my friends, and when she does, she do...

How do you cope with long-distance relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - Im in a relationship with my boyfreind and it is long distance..I see him every weekedn and it is fine and we are happy..But has anyone got any advise on what some things i can do to make it a bit easier when you miss them like crazy? we have been ...

Is it a bad thing to ingest ones own sperm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - Is it a bad thing to ingest ones own "product"? My fiance has expressed interest in wanting to share a kiss with me after giving me a blow job. Just curious as to if there are any negative side effects....