New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in May, 2008, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (19), 2 (32), 3 (28), 4 (26), 5 (35), 6 (34), 7 (34), 8 (28), 9 (34), 10 (23),
11 (36), 12 (49), 13 (27), 14 (36), 15 (26), 16 (19), 17 (16), 18 (15), 19 (24), 20 (32),
21 (49), 22 (21), 23 (17), 24 (27), 25 (10), 26 (28), 27 (39), 28 (34), 29 (36), 30 (19),
31 (17),

Archived questions from: 4 May, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

(More questions from May, 2008)

Dating: Help and advice

I had a sex-only relationship but now I want more. I'm lost. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I have a sex only relationship wit this guy. I got the idea he didn't wanna be all serious so I told him we can just call each other for those reasons. Before I didn't wanna go to the movies or dinner wit him cause I just go out an relationship now ...

How can I impress my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (M) - Im 13 and i have a really nice gf she hasnt really opened up yet and her friends really annoy me how can i impress her???...

Do you think he wants a relationship with me or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I've been in a relationship with this man for 10 months. We have similar marital histories so there was a lot of understanding between us. He has never said he loved me though I believe he has strong feelings for me. He would mention our old age. we ...

I've always gone for "bad boys" so should I give this "nice guy" a chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I'm a single woman in my fifties. I would really like to have a partner, and have had various relationships over the last few years. The problem is that the guys I usually go for are the ones who have a spark of danger about them. And I have got ...

Does he fancy me or does he fancy no-one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - theres this lad.. i really like him, everyne says he likes me to (all of our friends)except when he is asked who he fancies he says nobody. everyone says all the signs are their that he likes me. He is always sitting next to me or walks by me, ...

He was so caring, and now I'm scared in case I get it wrong next time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - heya, i was going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, we both lost our viginitys to each other, we were in love and had so much trust in our relationship, so it felt right. he was amazing, in the way that he cared for me and always made sure...

I didn't have sex and now he ignores me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I had a go with a boy in my course but did't have sex as I told him I only have it on a relationship basis and would prefer to know him better and so on, he told me to phone him and we agreed to date a week later but to muy surprise he look the ...

I think I am picking up her rich habits. Am I changing? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - well to begin with i am a hard working teenager,because of my excellent grades i got into this prestigious university meant only for rich kids..when i first came to class i felt really lonely because i wasnt like any of the rich kids..but later on i ...

She has a boyfriend back in her home town. Should I still ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (M) - okay, so theres dis gurl i really like, and im not sure but i think she likes me too, the problem is that when she moved to my town she left h boyfriend back over there in miami, my question is if i should ask her out? i mean sh acts like if she ...

He made excuses for not seeing me and got angry when I asked. Please help me understand.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this boy for 2 months. He told me on the phone that he couldn't see me this weekend, so I asked him when we could meet, and he flew off the handle... and then told me that he'd met someone else the last couple of days. I didn't ...

We had cybersex, but now I don't understand what he is really trying to tell me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - This guy and I started chatting a few months ago.... and had cybersex. We met a month later and got on really well. That was 2 months ago and I haven't seen him for a month. When I last saw him we got intimate, and then I went on holiday for two ...

Whenever I like someone it goes wrong. What is wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - Whenever i like someone it always goes wrong. When I start a relationship with someone i really like them a lot in the beginning, but then i just feel bored and the feelings just go away.. this happens every time i like someone. And every time i ...

Why does he ignore me? The signs are all there. Is it his friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - asked him out 9 months ago. He’s shy and is in the popular group but is really focused on his studies.He said 2 days later that it was too close to exams but maybe after them thanx for asking. After summer he was showing loads of signs that he was ...

He is going to tell me he loves me, but I'm confused and nervous

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - okay so ive been dating this guy for about three months and really like him a lot. we both have had our hearts broken in the past. he handled his break by sleeping around and what not, for him its been a year and a half, im the first girl hes wanted ...

He says he doesn't want to go further, but his actions say different

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - hi my question is i have a friend that i have grown closer to and now have feelings for. i asked him to be honest about were he wants to take our friendship. we are both with other people. he told me he wants to go further but has to much to loose...

She has backed off. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

4 May 2008 (M) - A girl i like was all over me a week ago and now is just treatin me as her mate. We were all over each other but since her mate spoke to her she has backed off me and dont wana see me. Also a close relative died so she would be upset what do i do?...

I don't want to hurt him again-but what do yo think my feelings are?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - okay so basically i am very confused as of what to do. i have so much problems right now and it's so hard to deal with. there's this guy that i kind of like.. i don't know if i like him really. like when i first met him i kinda teased him i guess ...

Is what he's saying normal or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I have met a guy through some friends and we were just friendly to begin with. I was interested but I thought he wasn't. Then as I had planned a trip to Greece, I went out the night before my flight and he happened to be there. We just acted ...

Should I tell him that my friend he fancies is only 14?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I went to a show with a friend and my other friend *D was there, and I also ran into some other friends. He was checking out my friend *C who turns out to only be 14 while *D is 17. I noticed he was checking her out but I didn't really think much ...

Help, I feel alone in my own house!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6052 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - So ive been in a serious relationship going on 6 years, and we have a 2 yr old together, it seems lately that he never wants to spend just me and him time anymore, we used to watch movies after we put or daughter to sleep, now we just do our own ...

Does anyone else just not get that turned on when they are intimate with their partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - Can somebody please help me! Does anybody else just not get that turned on when they're being intimate with their partner? But finds it pretty easy on their own? I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and I thought maybe at the beginning...

I don't think he went all the way, but he said he did cum. Now I don't know what to do. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time yesteday, i don't think he went all the way but he said he did cum. I'm so worried i don't know what to do! I can't tell my parents, and i don't know if i can go doctor's without them? HELP!...

Please help me to help my friend. His girlfriend is really nasty and abusive toward him, I think he's scaredof her!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - One of my good male friends has a problem with his girlfriend. Well, they have been together for about two years and his girlfriend tells him what to do all of the time and won't allow him any freedom! If he wants to go partying with his frie...

How do I get out of this cycle and find someone real?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I'm going to be 20 in 2 months time and I'm still a virgin and have never had a boyfriend I'm starting to think I'm going to be alone forever. I dont think it's a problem with my physical appearance, but more with my personality, I'm intensly shy ...

I need to contact him before we leave for different Uni's. Please can you help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - Well i may sound like a loser to you guys but i have to make a confession....i liked a guy for almost 8 months secretly without anyone knowing. I used to catch him looking at me many times, but it lead nowhere..and now i have 15 days left, and both ...

Is it possible to reverse his image of the "needy" girl, as I think I may have scared him off!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I met this guy about 4 months ago. He lives 2000 miles away, but was in town for the weekend and we met, but did not hook up. We exchanged numbers and began to get to know each other. I flew to see him twice already, and the last time(about 2 week...