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Archived questions from: 8 May, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I don't even know if I can trust guys anymore..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - Why do guys change their minds so quickly???? I had a very serious 7 month relationship (albeit long distance but incredibly intense) with the most wonderful and reliable guy. Even though we had been together for such a short period of time, ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to make out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - my boyfriend isnt interested in making out. i feel like im pulling teeth. he always has some excuse. we dont even kiss unless i steal one from him. hes interested in other stuff, it makes me mad but he has stated that he isnt a affectionate nor ...

How do I attract her when I have only one or two weeks to do it?

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8 May 2008 (M) - Every Christmas my mom and I visit this women's family in the states(They grew up together) . There’s this cute girl that I like but I rarely ever talked to her on any of my visits. How do I attract her without her consciously knowing? I really like ...

I'm scared the boy I like might have said something unpleasant about me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6047 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - there is this boy who i really like and he is freinds with this boy who is in my i.t class. he knows i like his freind and he said(to the boy i like) "oh yeah,i told him you really fancie him and he said Never" and then after that he got dist...

We have agreed to take it easy but it's hard when we are together so much. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I have been single for 3 years now and up until now, I had no desire to change that. For the past 4 months I have been hanging out with this guy that I dated 15 years ago, we haven't kissed or even held hands but, have discussed somewhat...

Anybody give me any tips on how to back off with the flirting etc without seeming like I'm going cold?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6047 days ago

8 May 2008 (M) - Hi, I started a new job about six months ago and its great. I get on really well with everybody but there is one girl in particular who I've got close to really quickly. We flirt quite a lot at work, and we text each other quite often outside of ...

Young and not sure I want to commit yet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - I have dated only one guy for my entire high school career. I love him so much. There isn't really as much of a spark anymore, but we still think of each other in a romantic way and we know each other better than anyone else in the world. It's a ...

Two years...and he still hasn't introduced me to his family!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - Hi! I have a relationship problem. My boyfriend is 12 years older than me. He is currently working and i am still in Varsity. The problem is, he was married and has a child from a previous relationship. He doesn't call or give me any attentio...

Should I tell my husband about a fling I had?

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8 May 2008 (F) - Hi all, well my situation is, i was wondering should i tell my husband about a fling i had. (Sorry this is a bit long) We hit a very rough patch in our marriage at the time. My husband left me for three months, no reason given, i was devastated...

Will he feel hurt if I don't tell my parents about our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - Do most teenagers tell their parents about their love life? I've never felt the need to tell mine, partly because they never ask and partly because it's just not the kinda thing we all talk about. The main reason though is that they would act weir...

I understand he is upset that I up and left, but I was going through some things that he should understand.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of seven years were living together, once again finally, he got clean and sober and I was having difficulties, I moved in with him and got clean for two months. I was having nightmares, trouble sleeping, and one morning I just...

She's uncomfortable being affectionate in public, she says. What can I do to make her feel comfortable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

8 May 2008 (M) - I just started seeing this girl who is kinda shy and on our first date i was her first kiss. At school however, she is strongly against p.d.a.(which i agree) and told me she's uncomfortable being affectionate in public. She says she doesn't like ...

How to make our parents trust us, as I feel we are really responsible and play safe?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

8 May 2008 (?) - Hello, I have a big problem and this seems the right place to get some advice. Well my boyfriend's brother has got his girlfriend pregnant and now his mum is trying to keep my boyfriend from staying around mine. I respect her views because being pr...

She dumps her boyfriends because she gets bored. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

8 May 2008 (M) - Since i said before that i like her a lot, i told her about my feelings and she replied to me that she doesn't have any feelings for me and she takes me as her best friend. If she had any feeling for me it would have been in the start of our real...

Should I stop seeing him or take him as a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6048 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - i have known this guys for over 6years, work in the same place and we make love anytime we meet i cant resist him. When i have a problem or stress he is always ready to help me and give me suport. My problem is that he has never told me that he love...

I am very pale and want a new foundation, so my boyfriend can notice how nice my make up is... any ideas?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - Im not sure if this is the place for this question.... It starts off a bit weird but then i explain myself. I am very pale and want a new foundation. I can't find one anywhere, that dosnt have an orange tint. i dont want to look gothicy i just w...

My girlfriend is overwhelmed by life and is unsure of my love for her! What's best here, space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

8 May 2008 (M) - My g/f seems unsure of my love for her. Shes overwhelmed by life overall and me, and needs space(but not breaking up). What would be my best bet here? I don't want to give her too much time, I'm afraid that may lead her to think I really don't love ...

Is my boyfriend just using an "upgraded excuse" by saying he has a low sexual libido?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6048 days ago

8 May 2008 (M) - After a few years together and quite a while of sexual frustration my boyfriend tells me he just isn't much of a sexual person. Is this a cop out? If this is true why didn't he just say this before instead of saying he ddn't know why or that it w...

How do I approach him about getting a relationship started?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - Okay, so there is this guy and i really like him and we have dated before and we were so perfect together and then just one day it all fell apart i really dont know what went wrong to make our relationship come to an end. We were like best friends ...

He's only been in a relationship for a month and we are flirting. Should I express my feelings now?

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8 May 2008 (M) - Okay so I'm a bit lost with this situation I'm in so maybe someone might be able to enlighten me a bit. I've been flirting with this guy for a couple of weeks now and the flirting has occured back and forth from both sides, we've been recently ...

He wants to "cut back" on seeing me, any ideas on how I can cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - ive been with my bf 19 months now and things have been great but all of a sudden afta spending about 4 days a week together it dropped to once because of his uni work load, so we talked about it and decided that once a week is good if thats all he ...

Now he has a girlfriend and wants to be with me and I have a boyfriend and want to be with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - Ok i need desperate help, i dont know what to do.. i am in love with boy we've dated 3 years on and off. The problem is last month i broke up with him because i needed time i think, i was so confused i didn't know if i really loved him. So i went on ...

How am I going to last 6 months without him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We see eachother every weekend and only on the weekends because it's somewhat long distance (he lives in NY and I'm in NJ). I love every minute with him, but I miss him so much during the week. I ...

I've fallen in love with him, how do I tell him without destroying our friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - I have been in a sexual relationship with a friend for about a year and a half. About six months into the relationship i fell in love with him. He makes me so happy and i really think that he could be the one for me. How do i tell him this with...

He's fighting for his kids..but then again - is he just keeping me on the side while he sees if it is going to really work with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - Well i wrote about a week ago with the problem i had with my boyfriend not being honest.. well it just got a little more complicated!! I started seeing my boyfriend about a month after he had filed for divorce.. but him and his wife had been se...

I feel his response shows his lack of interest in me. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - There's this guy who is in one of my classes at university and I kind of like him. He always sits next to me in class and we talk about stuff other then class work. He doesnt talk to any other girls in our class. He asked me to work on a project ...

Is it bad that we both found people to get over each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6048 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - My ex boyfriend of two years have just broken up 4 months ago. two months after we broke up he found a new girlfriend and two weeks later he was saying that he loves her. I ended up finding a boyfriend a month after breaking up. Is it bad that we b...

Some of the do's and dont's for relationships...

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8 May 2008 (F) - We've all have in been relationships and dates, some of which have ended in good terms and some of which have ended badly. And honestly, a relationship takes more than saying the three words, 'I love you.' Mostly the reasons for relationships last ...