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Dating: Help and advice

Is there any free software for Mac computers that you would recommend I use to block my access to porn websites?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I get very turned on by porn (but wish I didn't). I will go for a long time without viewing it, but then go through a period where I will view a lot. On the one hand, I like to view it for ideas. I have seen some techniques that I hope to use with...

I'm in love with a guy that's about to get married, I don't want to see him anymore, but it's hard to let go.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I'm in love with a guy that's about to get married in 3 months. We've been kicking it for 5 years. He tells me that he is getting married because of his 11 year old son. I don't want to see him anymore, but it's hard to let go, what should i do?...

He has a girlfriend, but he is still wanting to meet up and fool around with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I'm heading into my senior year. There is this guy and he is turning 21 in September. I'll be 17 soon. But age is not the problem. He has this girlfriend who he has been with for like 5 years now. I think he wants to break up with her, but I also t...

What are the tell tale signs of pregnancy after the first few weeks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I've been sleeping with a boy without a condom for a few weeks now, stupid i know but he did tell me he's infertile. He only knows this because he's never got anyone pregnant before, including past girlfriends. He's never used a condom and his girl...

How much longer do I have to wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I met my b/f when I was 22 (after I finished university). He's my first boyfriend. We have been dating for 3 years now. We started having sex during our first year of dating. It's now bothering me that maybe if I didn't have sex with him, he will...

I'm running a family business and he's running his own business, but we live 2 hours drive from eachother.

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21 May 2008 (F) - I don't know what I want. I might sound a bit greedy. I love my boyfriend dearly, and I really want to start living with him. He lives 2 hrs drive away from me. We both have a career where we live; I'm running a family business and he's running...

Should I let go of all the feeling I have for her? It's very difficult and I don't think I can.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (M) - Hello im 16 years old and i am in love with this girl. i cannot stop thinking about her and she literally means everything to me. we are good close friends, and i want to go out with her. however there is one problem; she is 18! a two year gap...is...

Should I try again with my ex or should I give the new guy a chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend for a little over two years in a semi long distance relationship (he lives about a four hour trip away from me). During that time, we broke up once for several months because of several reasons we constantly struggled with ...

I can't get over my ex-boyfriend but I don't want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Hey guys, I officially broke up with my boyfriend in December. Reasons: i didnt feel like i loved him anymore. I never felt like doing anything with him and was completely disinterested. i dreaded him touching me for some reason...

It's bugging me that he never listens!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this guy since last October and I really like him, but he never listens to me! I'm expected to listen to him talking about silly random facts. But whenever I tell him anything in a few days, he doesn't seem to remember or gets it w...

At what point do you stop 'just seeing someone' and become officially a couple?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Hi just wondering, at what point do you stop 'just seeing someone' and become officially girlfriend and boyfriend? ...

I met him on holiday and miss him so much. Any advice out there for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Hi i met this guy on holiday about 4 years ago, only for a week and really liked him, he made me feel special and i have never felt more myself and confident and alive. He was about 3-4 years younger. I was kind of in a relationship, and i knew he l...

I want so much to be more than just friends with her! Help me out please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

21 May 2008 (M) - Hi all i'm back again thanks all for the help on my last Q but that is not why im here i have a new problem. I have known a girl just over 2 years now, she is younger than me and we met through a friend, we get on a like a house on fire. She cou...

I'm finding it extremely hard fullfilling his pissing fetishes!!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I told my b/f I'd do every single one of his fantasies at least once, but it's hard. He has a urine fetish, and I'm finding it really hard to go through with! He wanted me to drink it, to pee myself, to let him pee inside me...basically lots of stuf...

It isn't until now that I've pieced all of this together.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I needed some advice on how to respond to the message that this guy who's interested in me sent me recently. (sorry so long) A little background: I met him about a year ago and he was sooo into me. He called everyday (which I told him was ...

Is he being honest and true about me, and the possibility of a relationship between us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Hello there! I've been seeing this guy by now 4 times in three months and talking on the phone many times. The last time we spent together was last saturday from 9:30am till 11:30pm. He wanted me to go to his place and meet his cats, after he showed ...

Do you think he will ever marry me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I just found out I am pregnant and me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. One month shy of a year. I want some kind of committment from him or else, I am moving at the end of our lease term in December of this year. He said he ...

I was married, but now I'm alone in this world, and I've done nothing wrong.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (M) - I have tried in many ways to find love but can't seem to find it anywhere. Is it because I'm 48? Is it because I have a heart problem? Is it because I'm not that good looking? (don't get me wrong I'm not that bad) Or is that I don't have much mo...

Is he confused and don't know what to say because he feels that he made a mistake, or does he not know what he wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend started having problems. I asked for some closure because he told me that the relationship has been damaged and it can't work. It's been three months since we been together. So why does he continue to stare at me when we are in c...

Sex tips please for a first timer.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

21 May 2008 (?) - I want to give my boyfriend the best bj anyone has ever had. May I have some tips please. We are also going have sex for the first time, so can have some tips for that too. Thanks xxx...

Can a relationship without affection last?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (M) - I'm asking this because my girlfriend told me she's not a very affectionate person and maybe never will be. Is this a cause for concern? I give her plenty of affection and I know she likes me but it's hard to tell sometimes. Please help...

All I did was ask her if she cheated on me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (M) - Why would my girlfriend brake up with me?! All I did was ask her a question to see if she had cheated on me....

I've been swinging for the past 2 years...should I take it further even though I'm married??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5971 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - hi i am nat i have been swinging for the last 2 years really in joy it looking to go a bit further in to orgys looking to have sex with 20 guys or more do u think this is a wise move as i am married??????...

I'm not in love with him anymore, but I can't bring myself to break up with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I'm going out with this boy but I don't know what to do, I don't love him anymore I love this other boy. Ever since me and my boyfriend met people have said that we should date so I gave it a go. He says that he loves me but lately I've met a boy wh...

He's pretty possessive or controlling, I'm just wondering if I should worry about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I'm almost 18 years old and my boyfriend is almost 19. My boyfriend and I started dating online about a year ago, and we finally met this month and it was great. He's an amazing person and we're very very much alike, and very very much in love. ...

He's still in love with his ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Hi. just needing a little bit of advice. I've been getting close to this guy who is two years younger than me. We get on brilliantly and we've both told each other we like each other loads etc. we've had sex a few times. which i am fine with. ...

He's bashful! How do I get him to open up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Hi, does anyone have any tips to make a bashful guy open up? Ive known him since high school, and he's so sweet, and funny when he actually says something, but he is so quiet and bashful. Ive been hanging around with him a lot, and a little flirty ...

Anoher man fancies me and I can't keep away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I really need advice, a few years ago I met a man that was a good friend of my partner's family and I really liked him, and my partner jokingly(although he meant it) said this guy fancied me. I thought nothing of it, but I found everytime there was ...

I'm having dreams of other guys, what does it mean?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Hi everyone! I am having some strange dreams lately, I have a boyfriend whom I am very happy with, but I keep having dreams that I am with other men. They are not sexual, but I have dreamt of being with my ex (I was sitting on his lap and he had h...

How can I get over my hang-ups and be friendly with new guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I've been single for about six months, and am having a really hard time getting over my ex. I'm finally to the point where I'd like to meet and date new guys, but I have some mental blocks to this. Some of them are post-break-up and some of them ...

She is in canada and I'm from UK I plan to one day visit any help from people who have experience of long distance love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (M) - Ok well i met a girl a short tiem ago and to make it short we fell in love at first we though it was just puppy love but after we spoke more and more we found that it was the real deal i am only 15 and some may say im much to young to think of love ...

Should I give a try or should I move on? What if it is meant to be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Ok. Here we go. I worked with this guy for more than a year. Nothing ever happened. We used to flirt but just as a joke. I always knew he was married and never thought he could feel something for me. After a party we kissed and it was really ...

Every time we pass a girl he has slept with he makes disturbing comments - should I take it as a sign of his own insecurities? Should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I am going to be a sophomore in college, and i am currently dating a guy who is going to be a senior. Although our relationship is pretty new, i can honestly see myself with him for a really long time, if not forever. Things are going great, but ...

Did my calling him have any effect on him? Does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - My crush send me a message that he's going deployed next thursday to Asia. So, I called him on the phone to wish him good luck. He was very surprised mainly cuz he's stationed in NC and I'm in Fla. so we keep contact by email. In his message ...

Should we go on break because she doesn't trust me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

21 May 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have known each other many years, as friends for the most part. I recently decided to be open with her, about something I kept from her 3 years ago, when we were just friends. Naturally, this made her lose trust in me, as if I ...

I want to marry him but we don't have a plan! Should I move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I am getting married this fall but my fiancee lives in another city 5 hours away. It doesn't seem like he can find a job in the city I'm living in. I am planning to move to his city, but I don't want to stay there long term, especially if we have ...

Should I pretend our kiss never happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (M) - A couple of weeks ago, i was catching up with my ex girlfriend sally about her life. Apparently she needed me as a friend so i gave her a hug...just to comfort her. She began telling me "you shouldn't bother with me, i'm not worth it, look y...

I am obsessed and jealous of his ex! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - i hate my boyfriend's ex's and not for a serious reason! i think im obsessily jealouse or something. you see, what happens with me is that we live both in france but we come from different countries. i come from greece and he comes from argentina. ...

My boyfriend's female friend walked around in a towel in front of him and thinks I over-reacted, what do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - While visiting one of my boyfriend’s long time female friends, she decided to take a shower and began walking around in nothing but a towel. At the time, I did not say anything to her but I was very upset and later spoke to him and banned him from...

I moved in with my boyfriend and now my parents hate me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for three years. He seriously means everything, and this past year we both moved away to college. The good thing is that our colleges are only 15 minutes away from each other, however we still drive to see each other ...

He's acting different, what is going on?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...

Am I being unreasonable to expect more from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6035 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - We had been going out for 13 months. During that time he has gained about 40 pounds and I know his self-esteem was low. He was invited to a friend's 40th birthday. He constrantly aske if I was going, I declined because I thought it was a boy's night ...

I'm not attracted to him anymore, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have dated for almost two years now. He is still very attracted to me, but I am not very attracted to him anymore. I feel awful, and it has affected our sex life. I love him, but getting to know him well, I find his lack of ...

Please help me ask this girl out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (M) - i have knowen this girl since 2005 we was good m8s in may-2007 i think she liked me and i like her but was to shy to ask her out then i left my school in the summer holidays(august). and saw her stil but not as much but as time whent on i saw less ...

Was I right to break if off with my fiance because of his maunipulative family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I recently ended my engagement to a most wonderful man for one reason: his family was rude and manipulative, and he would not stand up for me. It was such a painful process; everything else about our relationship seemed so perfect. The family was ...

Which of the two girls should I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (M) - I'm 12 and turning 13 in june, i need 2 choose between 2 girls 1 turns me on the other i am good friends with, which 1 do i chose...

My boyfriend wants me to go on top but I don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - i'm 16 and my boyfriend is turning 18 in less than a month. we've been having sex for about a year, and i'm always on the bottom. he's getting mad that i'm scared to go on top, but i don't know what to do! can someone explain to me what a girl is ...

Is my boyfriend lying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Ok, I will try to make this as short as possible. I've been with my boyfriend for just under a year now and he is my first love. He has been engaged before me, and says that he didn't have sex with his ex; and I believed him. Until I found a ...

Will he give me another chance or not? What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6035 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Hi, it's me again. I'm a girl who's been posting about how I lied to my ex about my past, repeatedly, and how he got fed up and dumped me. I'm in a very confusing place now... he's contacted me throughout these days. We broke up on Thursday. Wel...