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Archived questions from: 15 May, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm trying to date a girl who says it's too soon after her last relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

15 May 2008 (M) - ok, ive been trying to date this girl, she wants to date me too but she said she isnt ready cause she got out of a 2 year relationship in Feb. understandable i am not pressuring her but my friend also likes her and wants to date her and he has ...

I really like a boy a little older than me. I need some advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - i really like a guy in the year above he's EXTEMELY hot and i mean ohmygod but i have no idea how to get him, i am soo inexperienced... my friend told me to forget about him, but i don't want to at all, he is a really nice person and i don'...

He makes fun of me and my mates don't like him. I do like him, but I'm not sure what I should do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6040 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - theres this lad i really like loads and i think he likes me too but im not sure cos he always takes the mick out of me but it is in a fun way. also all my mates dont like him. what should i do?...

I asked if she wanted me to go to Spain with her. She hasn't replied. Was it too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

15 May 2008 (M) - Ok i met this girl in march that i really like, im 33 and she is 26. She is a really nice girl, kind, considerate, caring, and is into the same sort of things i like. We have been out on 3 dates, the first two were just a drink, and the third was ...

Is he serious about a relationship, or should I just enjoy the sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - I had a fling with a cool guy about 6 years ago. We were never bf/gf but we really liked eachother and enjoyed hangin out. (Sex, Sex and more SEX) I returned home and we text the next few days. He hasn't called on the phone and has only left me...

Why can't I ever get a boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - why cant i ever get a boyfriend am i not doing somthing right? i wear gasses i have blonde hair i have paley skin ...

Does the intensity of butterflies and rapid heartbeat equate to the intensity of your love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

15 May 2008 (M) - 10 years ago I met a woman that gave made my heart race and gave me butterflies in my belly. We began dating on and off for several months but just as things were about to get serious she had to move away to grad school. The two of us had ...

Please help, I'm in love with someone that doesn't love me and not with the one that does!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6040 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - hi i was dumped :( i was truly in love but he thought differently i guess its been around 2 months and i just really wont to get back at him so i asked out his enemy and i know this was such a stupid spit full thing to do but i was crazy in love i ...

I'm not ready to kiss him yet, how can I explain without hurting his feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend keeps trying to kiss me, but we haven't even been dating a week and I'm not ready for him to kiss me yet, but I don't know how to tell him this without him feeling rejected. He's never kissed a girl before so maybe he's just hasty ...

I lied to him, so now I'm coming clean. I know this time, I'll lose him for good. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for almost two years. In the beginning it seemed as if we were perfect for each other; I could be myself around him, I let him be, and everything went great. From the beginning I knew he was jealous (asked me not to ...

My boyfriend wants a break but I want to be with him so badly...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - my boyfriend of 4 years decided he wants a break. i respect the fact that he wants it because i hear when other people take them the relationship is so much stronger in the end if they stay together. but its easier said then done. all i do is think ...

I hate my boyfriend's smoking habit!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - bit of an awkward one this. has anyone got any ideas how to make someone sort out there appearance? for me its my fellas teeth. its embarassing but he has smoked since he was 14,hes now 41. his teeth are going brown and i cant bear the thought of ...

Just a crush? Surely at 32 I'm too old to have a crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and I have what I thought was a crush on one of his friends, now Im not so sure. They arent really close friends, they just drink in the same group of lads. I just dont know what to do, I know I would ne...

He says he does not want a girlfriend but I don't believe him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6040 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - Hi Everyone I met my Boyfriend this year january and we hit it off, he told me he does not have a girlfriend and i did not believe him, he wanted me to movein with him i wanted to coz every second without him was unbearable,i then moved to another...

How fast is too fast? I don't want him to think I am a slut.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I was wondering - how fast is too fast? I'm 16 and I met a guy my age the other day and we really hit it off, we got on really well. We ended up making out pretty intensly in a park. He did start undoing my jeans but stopped when I stopped him ...

How can we stop arguing over silly things when we love each other so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - I am coming up to a year now with the most wonderful guy and I have honestly never felt so in love or so loved before but sadly we seem to keep arguing over the silliest things and we have now both noticed it has been getting more frequent. I think ...

I quite often dream of my boyfriend cheating on me, and I wake up crying

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - I think I'm being way too insecure, but I don't know how to handle it. It's not that I'm insecure about myself. I'm insecure about my relationship with my boyfriend. I quite often dream of my boyfriend cheating on me, and I wake up crying. When ...

My sisters don't like my boyfriend should I discuss it with them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - When my family first met my boyfriend, they all thought he was funny and great, but after a while, my sisters started to dislike him. One of my sisters secretly told me that they all felt that he wasn't treating me good enough. I actually kind of ...

What should I do to let her know I want to be with her, even though she's still in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

15 May 2008 (M) - okay, i'm 16 and there's this girl that i really, really like alot. At the moment she's in a relationship, but i can't really see it going anywhere because she's constantly being broken hearted by this guy, being let down by him and lately it's ...

Should I tell my best mate I'm in love with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - Hi, Ive known this guy since i was about 6 -7 years old, I'd visit his town every christmas and we'd see each other for the fornight that i was there. We had always had a little bit of a crush on each other, and our parents thought it was cute. ...

I'm 16 and dealing with an abusive boyfriend, I don't want to leave him, any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 3 years now. He's 17, and I'm 16. Things were really great for the first couple of months into the relationship, and after that, they just kind of spiraled down hill from there. First, it star...

Should I marry him, he doesn't seem to care anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - Does he even care anymore? So I have had a boyfriend for 4 years now...and we have been engaged for 6 months. It seems like ever since we got engaged, he doesnt care anymore. We made a huge mistake in getting engaged so young (21) and we put my...

I keep finding naked pictures of his ex, what should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - Last year, I accidentally found my boyfriend's porn on his external hard drive. In that collection, I found naked pictures of his ex-girlfriend after he told me that he didn't have them anymore. I got very angry and deleted all of them. When I ...

All we do is argue, but we can't seem to be able to let go!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - I have been dating my bf for about 3 years off and on now. We had an amazing relationship at first, but then things broke down. We always argue as least once a week and it gets bad. I feel all we do is argue these days. I cant seem to let go and ...

I'm waiting to hear him tell me he loves me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. We talked about the word 'love' early on, and we felt it was best not to use it so soon. As of now, I feel like it's been long enough. I want him to tell me that he loves me, but I don't think ...

Was I wrong to call this guy before he leaves for Africa?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6041 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - I finally decided to call a guy I have such a big crush on. After a year of not seeing him or talking on the phone, just email. Well, I did it cuz he´s leaving on a trip shortly to Africa and is going to be away for 6 months. We live apart from each ...