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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can swingers so easily have sex with someone they don't love?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

30 June 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - I hope this doesn't sound silly. I'm just curious. I know there are people that enjoy sex without love and those that can enjoy sex ONLY with love...or at least feelings for their partner. I'm just curious about swingers. Do you think they can have sex with their SO and tu... (91 words)

How can I resolve this problem? My trust in him has gone as I have a suspicion that my husband may have taken nude pictures of me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3391 days ago

30 June 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - In the past my husband has snapped pictures of me in the shower and changing. I told him to delete the pictures each time. I have told him he can't take nude pictures of me without my consent. This all started after we got married. Recently, I think he got sneaky an... (317 words)

Am I nitpicking or are these various issues, such as her very bad breath, deal breakers in our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

30 June 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hiya Agony Aunts. There are a few things that nag at me about this girl I just started dating, and I'm not sure why. As y'all are likely older and more experienced than I am, I'd like your perspective. We started dating about 3 or 4 weeks ago. She's fit and active, pret... (446 words)

Is there a chance that I can convince my ex Bf that I've changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3430 days ago

30 June 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - My ex boyfriend broke up with me just under 2 years ago. I had liked him for a year before we went out and when we finally got together i was the happiest person around. Around 7 months after the very awkward breakup, we started talking again just normally as friends, the same... (299 words)

Was this breakup just a rash decision? Might he change his mind about breaking up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3431 days ago

30 June 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Last night my boyfriend of 4 years and I had an argument and he broke up with me. Then he texted and said he loves me, etc. But i haven't heard from him today. We have a great relationship 95% of them time and when we argue he sometimes makes rash statements and decisions like... (77 words)

Have I read it wrong in her interest in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

30 June 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. I'll try and make this as short as possible. I went on a date with a girl I met on tinder the other night. It was my first ever date so I don't really have anything to compare it to, but it seemed to go reasonably well. It was a bit odd because she was late and the... (462 words)

Could he be interested on me? Does he have a like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3431 days ago

30 June 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, a few months ago, I met a guy at a party. And he's in my uni and 1 year younger than me. Then after a few days, he added me on Facebook and talked to me and kept asking me questions. He was really nice. Then a while later, he talked to me again, and he kind of flirted and ... (176 words)

Should I quit my job...and look elsewhere for a relationship with a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

30 June 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - Well this may sound pathetic and funny but after breaking up with my last girlfriend 4 years ago...its been very hard for me to find love... It sounds cheazy when a guy says it ...but i really do feel that i need help. I was nt that bad with girls before and dont find any tr... (237 words)

My boyfriend speaks English but uses his language most of the time. I don't like it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

30 June 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been dating a guy over 2 years and in the first year we communicated in English and then after a year I noticed he started talking in his native language to everyone his friends,his parents(which he always did)his sister,his best friend with his colleagues at work!... (197 words)

Don't know where to start. Any ideas or suggestions on how to start dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3431 days ago

30 June 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - So I am 20 years old and I feel like it's time to start dating. But i am completely lost on how to even start. I have female friends but they don't have male friends plus I'm scared to even ask. I don't want to seem desperate. Any ideas or suggestions on how to start dating... (66 words)

Should I reach out to my crush or let things be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3431 days ago

30 June 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - So I've had a crush or more like a platonic friendship with a guy I've know for years. We've had a flirty type of friendship for about 5 years. We've talked off and on and just when I think I'm over him he comes back. He's known I've always had a thing for him but always makes ... (108 words)

Is there a way to only be interested in straight women, or am I cursed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

30 June 2015 (M)

age 22-25 - So, I seem to have bad luck with women. I personally don't get along with the beliefs of someone who is LGBT, just because of my upbringing. Because of this, my friends and love interests are extremely limited. I have a single lesbian friend, who decided to become le... (210 words)

I don't understand how a person can have more than one significant other and not feel guilty?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3431 days ago

30 June 2015 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello all! I have a question that I brought up because of my ex girlfriend. When we were dating, we had gotten together and broken up several times, because she was cheating on me, but she says it is okay that she's with others and all that. I disagreed until I was fed up... (181 words)

Should I wait for the "one"??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3431 days ago

30 June 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts I want and need advice. A little background about me, I'm soon to be a 24 year old college student who works like crazy. Who's nice,funny and loves to shop. I got my 1st real boyfriend a couple months ago and wow is all I can say. He was so nice, attractive and semi... (684 words)

He's kind of a jerk but the man I think I deserve at this stage in my life. Is it wrong to think that way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

30 June 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - For five months I've known him and we've argued more than I have through any previous relationship! He's stubborn and selfish with anger issues-he knows this. I'm secretive, vindictive and have issues I haven't yet dealt with...my first boyfriend was wonderful and I didn't feel ... (119 words)

Will it be leading this girl on if I text her? I know she likes me but I don't want to date her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

29 June 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I used to work with this girl at work and she has a very strong crush on me(workmates all know and she expressed her feelings of love many times). Quite awhile ago she left for another workplace, making sure I got her number to chat with her. I did for a few weeks, but then I s... (149 words)

Am I wasting my time even though he claims he wants me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

29 June 2015 (F)

age - I've been with my partner for 7 years. We are both divorced, have families, baggage if you like. It hasn't been easy but we have some good times in our social life. The problem is he doesn't want sex, not with me anyway. I have caught him 3 times over the last few years ... (153 words)

I am obsessed with my colleague, do you think she will be receptive to my attempts to be her friend again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

29 June 2015 (M)

age - I'm not really writing this to find a solution to a problem. I don't really think there is a solution. I just needed to express something. I'm a married male father of four and I would consider myself happily married. About five years ago, there was a new lady who came to work ... (396 words)

I'm probably in love with my co-worker, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3432 days ago

29 June 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Long story short, I might be in love with my coworker. He's cute, fun, nice, very tall, well-spoken, well-read, intelligent (this is, of course, my unbiased totally clinical assessment). We don't really work together but we have a fun (completely non-flirtatious)... (199 words)

I cheated and I don't feel it eating away at me, so should I keep this to myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

29 June 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - To bluntly put it, I cheated on my hubby last night. It was a quick one night stand, no one knows about it, all evidence is gone and it was a few cities away from home.. I dont feel it eating away at me so.. Should i keep this to myself? We have an alright relationship, we ... (75 words)

How do I let my husband know that he doesn't need to hide things from me? I'll always be there

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

29 June 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of 15 years has been having some health issues lately. It all started suddenly. He was feeling tired and his energy levels were low. He went to see our GP and got home disappointed. Apparently she only gave him some basic blood tests and didn't want to do a whole ... (403 words)

I didn't care for g/f getting heavier but suddenly our sex life has become awesome. Have I conditioned myself to like her body?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

29 June 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I'm in a bit of a strange place with my love life and wondered what people thought. I've been with my girlfriend for coming up to six years now, 3 of which we have lived together. I used to absolutely love her slim, toned figure but after we moved in she began putting on ... (308 words)

How do I end things gently after 3 dates?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

29 June 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - First date - coffee and dancing. Second date - drinks, dancing, and kissing. Third date - (impressive) dinner at her place, and couch make out session. How do I end things gently as soon as possible? I'm 32 and she's 33. While I had fun on our first date, I really didn... (306 words)

Is it best to distance myself even though I love my family? I can't stand all the bickering

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

29 June 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I stop resenting my family. I love them but can't get on with them? It has got worse as I have grown up. Too many clashing, strong personalities, every wants to be right. There's too much to go into but I can't breath around them anymore, there's constant strife, ... (141 words)

I'm afraid my fetish for watching my lady with other men will ruin our relationship. She doesn't want to do this!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

29 June 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Got a difficult question. I have been with my girlfriend for about 4 years but we have different mentalities. She is set on monogamy and I have a bad fetish of watching her be intimate with other males. I don't mean different males every time, I just like watching her with ... (302 words)

How to deal with sexually abusive wife?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

29 June 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife of a decade will not respond to me sexually at all. She used to be very fit but now she has gained a lot of weight (from 100lbs to maybe 150 lbs). I still think she is sexy, but she says she hates her body. I can understand why she feels that way since her clothes ... (424 words)

I thought an older guy would know what he wants but he's sending missed signals

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

29 June 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Is he interested or just playing games! I recently decided to join a online dating site! I met a older guy, he is 51 and I am 40. We first met for coffee, we chatted for a few hours and all went well! He was consistent in his persist with regular texts and phone calls! ... (331 words)

How often should I talk about sex with my long distance girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

29 June 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello friends, I am in a new relationship. ...I have been in a relationship before but this this time I am in a serious relationship. .We are this time in a distant relationship I want to know how often should I talk no about sex with her as she is not much interested in these ... (101 words)

My friend is heart broken and I don't know how to help her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3430 days ago

29 June 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi , Its been one year since my best buddy has fallen love with her colleague.Beside that her colleague has a girlfriend with whom he wants to get married. She knows it but can't help getting depressed about it.Beside that her colleague tells that he also loves her but ca... (199 words)

I'm so nervous about dating that I can't show this guy the real me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

29 June 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am really into this guy, you'll know this if you have read my previous questions. He used to work next door to me and would come to visit me everyday at work and would make it very clear that he liked me. We kissed last week but we're not together because we don't... (217 words)

Long distance lover suddenly acts weirdly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

29 June 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I love a woman in a long distance relationship. we met once in my country. everything was ok for last three years, until from recent times she started to behave weirdly. ok so the basic problem is, i cannot have sex with her while we met for just some hours. then she asks me ... (181 words)

I love my boyfriend but its mentally draining to be with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

29 June 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, Thank you in advance for taking the time to read my question. I am having some trouble with my relationship and would really appreciate some help in figuring out the problem. I met my boyfriend 7 months ago at my new job. If I’m honest I never looked at him in ... (707 words)

Ex boyfriend treats me as his girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

28 June 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I have been broken up for almost 5mos now. We didn't see each other for the first 3mos but within the last 2mos we have been hanging it out. We were together for a year. We did have sex a few times here and there but I don't feel bad about it. He's the only person I'm ... (317 words)

Is it worth remaining in a relationship if you don't trust a person?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

28 June 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it worth being in a relationship if you do not trust someone? I love my boyfriend, very very much. Yet, I think he does things that are a little shady. Lately too, I've been wondering if he is cheating. He didn't want me to see his phone some time ago. He swears he is n... (167 words)

Was it wrong that I wanted to share a dance with him? He's unhappy with me. My friends say I should leave him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

28 June 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi all, so lately my friends have been telling me I should leave my boyfriend.. We've been together for a year and a half.. So this is what happened. We graduated and we had a grad ball for us to celebrate and have a good time. So a day before the ball, he was a bit upset ... (444 words)

Does his comment mean he isn't thinking into a future with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

28 June 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question about something my boyfriend said, but here's some background first: I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. We're both the type who are marriage minded, and he has said he is dating me with the end goal of marriage. There's only a rough timeline, ... (209 words)

We have an amazing connection but he says we'll meet up and then never contacts me till its too late!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

28 June 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone,here is my problem So this guy I have been seeing we have been on 5 dates to now and it's been very on and off there is no spontaneity,no flow..he disappears then comes right back and ask if we could meet up!last date I told him I find it odd that he disappears and ... (493 words)

20 never had a boyfriend..am I that ugly? invisible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3422 days ago

28 June 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - What's so bad about me? Am I that ugly? Am I that invisible. It's so frustrating that I'm almost 21 and have never had a boyfriend and never had the opportunity to experience love. I feel like guys don't even see me or they just don't care. I get it, I'm not the most ... (251 words)

Ladies: How much pain do you feel during first time sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

28 June 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone Hope you all are fine. I am gonna marry next month.I had never sex in my life. I just watched some porn videos. I wamted to know especially from female how much pain you feel during wedding night sex!!! my gf told me that she scared from pain and other sex thing on ... (76 words)

How can someone be so casually intimate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

28 June 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm seeing a girl at the moment on a casual basis, whenever were together she's very touchy feely, loves kissing and hugging me and falling asleep on me and all that kind of thing, but insists she doesn't want anythjng serious. I'm a little confused as to what I want. I'm... (110 words)

Is it stupid to be in a FWB knowing its not going to lead to anything serious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

28 June 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - So im fwb with a girl I know, been around 9 months now. We get along really well, have a great sex life but I have a few questions I hope you guys can help me with. 1. Do you think it's stupid to be fwb knowing that it's not leading to anything serious? 2. I hate her g... (156 words)

Two ex's back in my life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3434 days ago

28 June 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend "Joe" broke up with me cause he felt I had too much stress in my life already. I felt it coming but it didn't hurt as bad cause we admitted that we still loved each other and would be friends. My previous ex "matt" jumped at my being single and without realizing ... (187 words)

Should I wait while he works on his mental health?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

28 June 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! I split up with my long term boyfriend 2 months ago. Things started to go really wrong about 4 months before that and it all came to a head when I found texts from another girl on his phone. He has had terrible money problems 6 months before and lost his job which ... (478 words)

I'm legally changing my full name by law for the health of my mind...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3433 days ago

28 June 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid Readers Have you got any advice or guidance for a legal name change? My past has been painful and life experience has been full of regrets. Certain events have felt so crucifying to the heart that I've decided to change my name in hopes of a fresh start. Re... (182 words)

Sick of ex's older wife

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

28 June 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a son who is 6 years old and my ex currently has more custody than I do, I get him every other weekend. My problem is I'm so sick of my ex's wife and really don't want her around my son. For starters she's 46 years old, 10 years older than my ex who's 36 and I feel ... (284 words)

Am I Too Fussy For Not Wanting To Date Guys Who Are Much More Successful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

28 June 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in my early 20s, and now that I'm not in uni and have different social circles a lot of older (not massively, in their 30s) guys seem pretty interested in me. I like some of them for who they are/looks, but I always get turned off by the fact they're more successful. I ha... (226 words)

How can I handle everyone asking me if I like this boy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

27 June 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - One of my friends found out I like this boy in my year she then told other people and now everyone in my year know that I like him. I've known this guy since I was around like 6/7 years old. Now everywhere I go people keep asking me "Do you like...?" Now its become really a... (120 words)

I know he's my ex. So should I be wanting to know all about his current life and what he's up to? How can I move on and not obsess like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

27 June 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I stop being suspicious about what this girl is doing with my ex? My ex left me after a year, for another woman, 2 or 3 months back. It hurt me terrible and my ex stopped speaking to me over it. The thing is - I can't stop obsessing over what they are doing or if the... (176 words)

Are my reactions to his actions enough to call me clingy and obsessive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

27 June 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I being paranoid and clingy? My bf of over a year and I recently got into a long-distance situation. Getting used to the distance has put considerable strain on our relationship as he is more extroverted than I am. He's always been a bit of a bad boy. He loves going out an... (356 words)

Does it seem like he's flirting? So why are my affections wandering?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3434 days ago

27 June 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, So, I've got a bit of an internal dilemma going on. I've vented to people in my life about this but it gets me no where so I'm hoping maybe strangers will give me the straightforward answers I'm looking for. I'm in a committed relationship, have been for three years... (291 words)