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Long distance lover suddenly acts weirdly

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Question - (29 June 2015) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 July 2015)
A male Pakistan age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I love a woman in a long distance relationship. we met once in my country. everything was ok for last three years, until from recent times she started to behave weirdly. ok so the basic problem is, i cannot have sex with her while we met for just some hours. then she asks me she should come again? and i am not ready, because that requires all things to be done, so that her stay is safe... she is married, i am not. she will come single to my country. she also has kids.

now basically the problem is i love her. and she loves me too, but she has started behaving very weirdly. she would say "ok so we wont meet, then what to talk about"?

looks like she is very very selfish woman. she wants just to meet, but out long friendship? thats nothing for her.

what should i do?

btw i was the one who actually gave her the cheers of life, she knows that pretty well.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (2 July 2015):

So_Very_Confused agony auntshe is married. that alone makes it not a relationship worth pursuing.

you should tell her to contact you after she divorces her spouse.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2015):

Hi- this doesn't sound like,a relationship at all I'm afraid....i wonder why you are perusing it? You have met once, in three years? What are you expecting out of this?

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