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writes:Hello friends, I am in a new relationship. ...I have been in a relationship before but this this time I am in a serious relationship. .We are this time in a distant relationship I want to know how often should I talk no about sex with her as she is not much interested in these talks but I do like it but sometimes I feel like may be it seems offended to her ...plz leme know Is it normal of I talk about it daily or three should be any limit say some days or a dayThanks in Advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes we have decided to get married in future and we are in a relationship since 6months now I have moved to outstation for some months that's y
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (29 June 2015):
 ASK her.
You shouldn't talk about SEX if she isn't ready or willing to TALK about it.
You two are long distance, you say it's serious. Serious how? Is this the girl you are going to marry, are you two planning of moving closer to each other?
How long have you known her?
And why is talking sex so important to you? Shouldn't "getting" to know her be MORE important? It's a new relationship - GET to know THIS girl instead of focusing on sex. She isn't your personal internet porn provider.
You know, I was in a LDR for 1 1/2 year with my now husband and we DIDN'T talk about sex when we got to chat online. We talked about that IN PERSON.
It seems to me that you aren't respecting her boundaries at all. YOU know she doesn't want to talk sex, yet you keep doing it, DAILY or 3 times a day.
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