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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My husband and his family didn't know that I never been in highschool and I cannot find job here.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3641 days ago

30 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - please Help me!!! i have a secret! My name is Sunset. I have a secret and i hide it for my own sake, I dont want people judge me. I believe I deserve equal treatment, love and respect. I'm going insane every night to think what happened if they find out my secret. I cried ... (1602 words)

Should I Care About My Lack of Title With Special Guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3642 days ago

30 November 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a single mom who is on disability due to my advanced rheumatoid arthritis. After some bad experiences dating several years ago, I decided to focus on my kids since dating was a hassle. Despite my R.A., I am quite attractive, and am able to excercise on the elliptical at ... (1165 words)

I sexted another girl ....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3642 days ago

30 November 2014 (M) age 26-29 - I have been with my girlfriend 5 months now and i have really strong feelings for her but a while back i did something i'm not proud of...i sexted another girl.This is my first relationship so I don't know how things work or what could possibly ruin your relationship...but i ... (147 words)

I've become that "once a week" girl and don't know what to do? I've tried cutting ties before. Do I express what I feel?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3639 days ago

30 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known this man for a year. In the first 5 months he would contact daily, see me as often as he could, do huge romantic gestures. He even told me once I gave him "too much space". 6 months pass and we had a falling out that left him embarrassed and he would easily go ... (283 words)

He shows a lot of interest in me but he has a g/f

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3643 days ago

30 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - So..there is this guy i know for almost 4 years.( he has a gr for 2 years)..the thing is that we get along very well and i mean we are very good friends. we had a trip together( with some friends) and his gf wasn't there. the thing is that it was my birthday the same day. he ... (238 words)

I'd really like more affection in my marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3642 days ago

30 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 8 yrs now. My husband is a great guy. But he isn't very affectionate. Sex is very good not as often as i would like but he is getting older. I have tried to talk to him time and time again about how important kissing is to me and that i need it from ... (175 words)

Stay single or pursue a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3635 days ago

30 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I need some love advice. I am a 17 year old girl who has been in one relationship and recently one of my guy friends from school has started to show signs of attraction to me; again. We have been friends for maybe about a year or two, and we met through one of my friends which ... (245 words)

I'm too scared to ask her her boundaries. Should I be so hesitant to ask?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3643 days ago

30 November 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay, so my girlfriend and I have been dating for a while, and me and her both really love each other. She's chosen abstinence, and we've made out a couple times, and she's given me a handjob, and I've fondled her breasts, and that's as far as we've gone, and I'm wondering, if ... (84 words)

Why do some people "forget" to contact you back? Is my friend being selfish ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3642 days ago

30 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice, why do some people take so long to respond to your contact efforts? surely it becomes rude at some point? obviously there is something wrong or they no longer wish to see you..or be in contact, it happens, we lose fships.. sorry this is long, I need to expla... (847 words)

What did she break-up with me out of the blue? Ex bf, new dude or was she not done playing the field yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3643 days ago

30 November 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 44 yr old man, got dumped over a month ago, by my gf of 13 months. she was the love of my life. we were in-separable, did everything together, intimacy was awesome, I felt it was for her also. hours upon hours of conversation about anything and everything, did all kinds ... (436 words)

My mother has been telling me that my husband is using me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3640 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I need a second opinion. My husband and I married almost 3 yrs ago. He is from a foreign country. Because we married, he received his green card. We lived with my mother, but moved across the street because he didn't want us to have children and not have our own place. He has a ... (344 words)

Even after five years I don't have the nerve to discuss the future with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3644 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this is going to sound terrible, and it is, but I'm still nervous about bringing up the future with my boyfriend after 5 years together. I used to try to bring it up, but he always said 'maybe one day' and other such non-committal things and would basically stop the ... (215 words)

How can I end this or what could I do to help him see that he is moving too fast?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3644 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) age 51-59 - Hi everyone. Need some advice. I'm a 45 year old woman from Britain. Divorced mum of 2. Recently things in my life have been a bit upside down for me. It started about a year ago, met a lovely man, we was friends and then we started dating, when I first met him he had just ... (254 words)

Why am I so mismatched with men sexually?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3636 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm looking for some sexual advice cupids, from both men and women if possible. I am a 29 year old woman and I've had six sexual partners, but I've always had the same problem - I don't really like the feeling of sexual intercourse. However, this isn't for the reasons many... (477 words)

We rushed in too soon but is he backing out now? Was he ever serious? How should I approach this issue?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3643 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have less than 16 days to do something about this relationship. Please help. I met a guy on a double date five months ago. We hit it off and we talked everyday even though he moved back to the UK the day after we met. I did caution him that he was moving too fast but he ... (690 words)

I want sex as a Christmas present and I want her to fulfill my sexual fantasies! How do I say this to my wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3642 days ago

29 November 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife keeps asking me what I want for Christmas, but I'm a bit nervous about asking for what I really want - sex. I want to have sex more often - I think she does too. The issue is last Christmas - after copious research - I bought her lingerie (right size and everything - ... (141 words)

Has he used the "love" word too soon? Am I reading too much into his message? We've been casually dating for three months.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3637 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - A guy I've been casually dating for the past 3 months told me that he is thankful to have me in his life...and he has "nothing but love for me." This was in response to me messaging him on Thanksgiving letting him know that I'm grateful to have met him. I am wondering what o... (91 words)

How can I be more gentle with my boyfriend in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3644 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am mostly a calm, gentle person, except in bed. I always assumed that being wild, perhaps even a bit rough and aggressive is what guys like and my previous partners have been very happy with that. Today I'm in a relationship with a guy for 6 months and we're still expl... (178 words)

Would pride stop him from giving a second chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3644 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, a question for the men:- Is a man who is into casual sex with a girl, always interested in having it with that person? If I turned a man down for sex for whatever reason - whether it was because the time wasn't right, or I wasn't sure he was the right person etc etc, wo... (94 words)

What should I do to stop his passive-aggressive behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3644 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I need some opinion and advice me please on what should I do? My boyfriend and me been together for 5 years and things went rocky lately, he broke up with me 3 days ago, before he break up with me, he'd told me several times about his uncertainty of our compatibilit... (594 words)

Is my dentist being professional? Am I expecting too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3644 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I was hoping someone could help me shed some light on this situation as it's completely baffling me! Last year I started a teeth straightening treatment and I was reccomended the same orthodontist by a work colleague and an old school friend who both within the last few yea... (541 words)

What can I do? My boyfriend is addicted to fantasy sports online?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3644 days ago

29 November 2014 (?) age 36-40 - I know this isn't as serious as an addiction to drugs or alcohol, but I truly believe my boyfriend is addicted to fantasy sports. It's affecting our relationship. It started off earlier this Fall with fantasy football and has expanded to other sports. At first it was minor, but ... (278 words)

How can we make our relationship work while he's forever playing his games or on his phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3643 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and its been the worst two years! At first our relationship was great, we did everything together, he did small things for me, he was caring and romantic. And its went to hell. We don't do anything together i never go around his ... (342 words)

Is my boyfriend bisexual?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3643 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this super amazing guy for almost a year now. We both want to get married and were both looking for stable relationships. I ask every man I date if they've ever had any homosexual experiences. I usually ask in the beginning. He told me no. A little while la... (407 words)

How do I handle these girls when they treat me badly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3629 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to ask for a friendly advice. Ever since I was a child, my older sister ( I have only one older sister and she is 8 years older than me) has always been very mean towards me. Picking on me, saying mean words and she has never treated me kind as a child infront ... (1537 words)

Has he been hiding these feelings all these years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3644 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of 15yrs has never said anything to horrible to me.. But for the past for weeks he has not held back.. Last night was pretty hurtful.. He said he hated my guts, I was fat and sloppy, he couldn't stand to touch me, my kids hate me, he is going to find someone else, hr ... (128 words)

Is this an emotional affair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3644 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I having an emotional text affair? I recently got into contact with an old friend and what started out as brief text exchanges had become a daily texting affair for almost 2 months. I enjoy texting him and look forward to his texts. He tells me good morning and night ... (195 words)

Is this a sign he likes me or am I hoping too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

28 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey I'm 16 and there's a boy I like. We've been talking for a while now (texts and face to face) and recently things have been flirty (?) This is new to me! I said "f*** me" when I messed something up and his reply was "I will if you want" I just laughed it off.I was talking to ... (88 words)

I want her to know I love her but I don't want to pressure her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3644 days ago

28 November 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - i have been with my girlfriend for just about a year now. she is 21 and i am 29. everything has been going very well. i love her and she says she loves me. we have a lot in common and always have fun. never fight. her family likes me and my family likes her. about a week ago i ... (236 words)

How do I heal after all his emotional abuse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3644 days ago

28 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently broke up with my husband. He manipulated me for years, but it was so cleverly done I didn't realise. It's only since we split up that I realised. He spent 12 years making me feel bad about myself, and in the end I couldn't answer the door or the phone. I hated myself ... (184 words)

How can we help my Bf's brother to take control of his eating and drinking habits that are affecting his health?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3641 days ago

28 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. My boyfriend and I are great. His brother is our problem. He has severe health issues and my boyfriend and I want him to take better care of himself. We just don't know how to go about it. The guy drinks 4 x 2 liters of Diet Coke a day. He drinks it when he'... (515 words)

Good sex versus Bad sex. Why is she so unwilling to try to oral?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3644 days ago

28 November 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm writing this for guidance. I've been dating my girlfriend for just 4.5 months now. We are in love and talk about how we're definitely going to marry each other all the time. She asked me if I wanted the relationship originally. my girlfriend has had 3 times the amount... (472 words)

Why? Why is she not into me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3642 days ago

28 November 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - So I have been with this girl for almost a year and at first she seemed so interested then she went on a little vacation sort of speak and while there I would talk to her on the phone and write each other letters. She told me that her old behavior was not going to happen a... (329 words)

How can I make this a success?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

28 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Quick story short: I moved to another country in northern Europe to study and live with my boyfriend. It's been a rough start and hard adjusting and settling in. I am in a program with few other students who are also foreigners (or at least the majority). They all see... (170 words)

He lied - should I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

28 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - theres a guy i like n he likes me or so i thought we were supposed to be seeing each other and going out tomorrow , he said for a joke about going on a dating website he knew i wasnt happy about that and he said he wasnt really , ive just discovered hes on there and i feel like ... (117 words)

How do I sort this out if he's not talking to me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3644 days ago

28 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf of four yrs, last novemeber he moved away to work since then ive only seen him about 5 times this year, ive asked him many times if he was with somebody else and his reply was No.... anyway we have have always spoke on the phone or via text everyday, altho there was a ... (269 words)

I don't know how to flirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

28 November 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - OK, so let me give you a bit of background. 25 year old male, was very shy and socially awkward as a teenager but I've improved so much over the last year. My way of getting over being socially awkward was just to be very friendly and polite to everyone I met. I used to get ... (145 words)

It felt like he was trying too hard and I didn't enjoy it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

28 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Sex life has beeen a bit up and down with my boyfriend lately for a variety of reasons - stress, tired, diet, living at home with his parents, masturbation lol. So we had a talk about putting more effort in (mostly from his part). last night we had sex and I just felt like he ... (182 words)

Problems climaxing? Any possible causes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3644 days ago

28 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey all! Just a quick question I need some guidance on: my long-time girlfriend and I find ourselves in the sac a lot, and while there's a lot of passion and love going on all around (and, to be brief, some real magic work going on from her! W O W!), I am having trouble ... (125 words)

Just as I'd started to move on my ex pops back up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

28 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated my ex for a couple of years. I thought she was the absolute love of my life. But the relationship had many problems, and she wound up breaking my heart. I was devastated by the breakup and never thought I'd get through it. I felt completely crushed. Then as time passed, ... (396 words)

I told him I was a virgin, but left out lots of details

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

28 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Thanks in advance for your advice. 4 months ago I met an incredible man and we have been dating since. He is 23 and I'm 22. We have a great relationship and I can feel that he truly loves me. Both of us know we share something special and I don't think either of us has felt ... (250 words)

I know that my boyfriend didn't do anything wrong but just running into his ex ruined our night and his behavior didn't make things any better

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

28 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years. 2 girls before me, he dated a girl for around 3 or 4 years. They've been broken up for over 5 years now. They had an awful relationship where they fought, physically and verbally. She pretty much ruined his life and to ... (519 words)

Does my girlfriend have PMS?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

28 November 2014 (M)

age - I asked my girlfriend to move in with me and my 2 children and wonder what on earth has hits us, i think she suffers from PMT and have tried to talk to her very gently about this but this only ended in her throwing a pan at me which nearly did hit me. while i was at work and... (203 words)

My boyfriend hasn't responded since our argument 2 weeks ago

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

28 November 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is a widower and we had a few words during a row after i complained to him that he does not repond to my calls for days and up to a week at a time and 2 weeks ago i said to him that i could be dead and he would not care and have not heard from him and am not sure ... (81 words)

Do guys really give up on women that easily?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

27 November 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Have I missed the boat now? I was chatted up on line by a guy who was gorgeous in his youth - judging by his photos, but older now. He wanted to meet for a 1 night stand but I turned him down as I wasn't sure. He is now chasing my friend instead and is a lot cooler with me n... (137 words)

I don't know if I like him or like the idea of being in a relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

27 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am finally dating a guy I liked for so long. I feel great being around him but lately I've been doubting if I'm attracted to him. He's gorgeous and am attracted to him but I'm just doubting little things like I didn't like the way he puckered his lips, it looked girly ... (291 words)

I'm tired of being blindsided by being told stuff I've done wrong

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

27 November 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I have no clue how to respond or handle my girlfriend. She has this habit of blindsiding me when I least expect it. We will spend a few days in a row together and I will think everything is great and amazing. Next thing I know, I'm waking up to a 10 page novel, highlighting all ... (681 words)

Sometimes I wonder if a long-term relationship means I'm missing out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

27 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! My boyfriend and I have been together for a little more than 1 and half years, and even though we've had some small issues it's been really good. He was my best friend before and is such a great guy. The problem is that I'm starting to freak out a little.. I'm afraid that ... (180 words)

I know he isn't God's gift to women like he says, but I can't seem to get away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3646 days ago

27 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I am in a very emotionally abusive relationship. I knew its abusive cause 1. He often threatens to break up when i get angry or talk back or irritate him by calling him even once a day 2. Ignores me for days and then talks as if nothing happened and gets an... (371 words)

Shouldn't I be dreaming about my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3644 days ago

27 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am unable to have sex with my boyfriend of 6 years for the time being due to medical problems being looked at. As a result, I also came off the contraceptive pill because it was giving me migraines and it seemed like the best time to come off it. Since these two events, I ... (121 words)