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Archived questions from: 8 November, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why did he rent a room instead of taking me to his place?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3664 days ago

8 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - turkish men i was in turkey in july this year and met a really nice gye who told me i was beutiful and asked me what i was doing tommorw the next day after he met me in his shop i said nothing so he asked could i come meet him for lunch i said i would i agreed to be at ... (450 words)

I lied about a past relationship and he'll end it if he finds out

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3664 days ago

8 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So.. My boyfriend and I are great together. We get along, and are very much attached. One problem.. He asked me if I've ever been intimate with a black man. I lied and said no. (we are both white). I ask him what's the difference even if I had? He said he wouldn't be able to be ... (119 words)

My ex is now saying what I wanted to hear when we were together, but I've met somone new

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3644 days ago

8 November 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I was with my ex for over two years. It was very unhealthy. She struggled with emotional issues, depression and anxiety. I tried everything to be her rock and stand by her side. I fought so hard just to love her and be with her. And I had never loved another person like I loved ... (417 words)

Marriage isn't turning out like the fairytale and I'm so unhappy and unsure what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

8 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Looking for some advice.... I got married in May to my partner who I have been with for the past 5 years. Before we got married we did have some issues due to my insecurities and also what I feel to be a lack of care on his side. The last month it feels like we have been... (275 words)

Am I paranoid or is this a good gut feeling that he's cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

8 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my bf over a month now met over the internet. i'm 24 , hes 25. Everything is going, treats me like a queen. We've been on two weekends away (already i know) and met up in between. Thing is he normally msgs me every morning, will call or he calls me whn wal... (294 words)

Why would my mother say that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3665 days ago

8 November 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - My mother was casually complaining about my older brother's bad behaviour while sweeping in the living room. Suddenly, she said. "That's why I can't love my children more than I love myself." in an annoyed tone. Without giving any details about my family, what do you thin... (77 words)

I'm tidy, she's messy, I know we will find a compromise but how do I bring up the topic without upsetting her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3665 days ago

8 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Need some relationship advice. I'm a lesbian in a relationship for the last 7 months and everything is going really well. The woman I'm with is honestly the kindest, most caring, and nurturing woman I have ever met. I am madly in love with her and she with me. Everything ... (467 words)

Is it because I'm in a stable relationship with a good man that she doesn't want to see me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3654 days ago

8 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this friend who I have been friends with since I was literally 4 years old. We were both the naughty twosome and our parents did not like us hanging out together at school as we would sit and giggle in all our classes. We stayed friends until about 11 when I went to a ... (961 words)

Wishing and waiting but he never comes home.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3665 days ago

8 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am going absolutely crazy. My husband and I have 2 kids (1yr old and 3yr old), They have alot of emotional issues and are really hard to keep under control so I need his help more then the average mother and woman. My husband is ALWAYS gone out with his friends...and I mesn ... (332 words)

I've liked him for 7 years! I feel hopeless! Do I move on? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3664 days ago

8 November 2014 (F) age 26-29 - The first time I liked a guy was when I was 12 years old and i thought, well it's just a normal puberty thing or something. It will go away in time. I didn't even know him at first and when I did, I hated him. For some weird reason, every single time he saw me, he ran. My ... (693 words)

I found my wife cheated for 10 years, but I'm staying for the kids. Any advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

8 November 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I dated 4 years and were married 10 years and 2 months when I found out she was having an affair with the same man the entire time. We have two daughters, now 4 and 7. Turns out the other guy was married and his wife found out. Turns out they slept together... (370 words)

Should I send my husband money? I think his family takes advantage of us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3665 days ago

8 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - 3 years ago My husband sent alot of money to his family in a muslim country. His family said they were investing this money into a company where it would make profit. Some of this money was also mine. Now a month ago he has gone to see his family and asked for the money. T... (393 words)

Should I be worried about my boyfriend hanging out with girls of low morals?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3665 days ago

8 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend used to talk about his female friends and other girls a lot and I asked him to tone it down please. Now he doesn't mention them much and often doesn't tell me when he's hanging out with his female friends. His two closest female friends have repeatedly cheated on ... (111 words)