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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I've been supportive about my husband's cross dressing. So why has he resorted to tells lies to me now about his activities?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3652 days ago

14 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I have known that my husband was a cross-dresser since before we got married. When he first told me about it, he started making craigslist posts to meet up with others to experiment... He never told me about it but I found the posts... He still doesn't know that I know ... (432 words)

Why might a guy give out mixed signals?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3658 days ago

14 November 2014 (F) age 26-29 - Why the mixed signals? I like a guy who is shy but with a very hyper masculine persona. He isn't much of a conversationalist and is quite to the point as a person. What I've perceived to be him maybe liking me: Looks at me a lot, gets a bit too close, does me little favours t... (188 words)

Two weeks ago my husband joined a gym, and now he has no energy left for intimacy. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

14 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a quick one really... My husband and I have been together for a good 4-5 years and we have always had a good sex life (3-5 times a week) up till about two weeks ago when he joined a gym. I'm all up for him going and getting fit feeling better about him self but since h... (251 words)

He has a Gf and I have no intention nor wish to steal him away. So why has he continually flirted with me, on an off, for ten months?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3659 days ago

14 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My co-worker (head-chef of a cafe I work for part-time) seems to be flirting with me on and off. There's periods where he'll act really stroppy, and will ignore me completely. But at other times he'll be the one remembering minor details about me, where I'll catch him staring, ... (181 words)

A (small) betrayal or much ado about nothing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3634 days ago

14 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I told my husband in confidence that his best friend was getting a divorce. Before telling him I made him promise not to tell anyone until his best friend tells him himself. A few weeks later, he blurted it out. Now, as usual, he’s angry AT ME for telling him that I do mind ... (393 words)

Why did this guy act so nervous and tense around me at this particular time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3658 days ago

14 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - It was supposed to be one of the dorm parties they usually have and he (let's call him K) invited me and also my friend. K has tried to organize one specifically for us so we can go, since K found out I had never drunk and he wants me to try alcohol. He wants to be the first ... (908 words)

How can I get rid of this constant fear that I've done something (unintentional) that could make him mad at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

14 November 2014 (?) age 22-25 - Hi there! So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 10 months now.. And he has this I don't know what's the proper word, attitude? Where like if he's mad at me, he doesn't tell me why or he'll just treat me really coldly.. The thing is I try to like make him tell me what's u... (270 words)

I'm hung up on a girl who hates me. Should I date anyone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3658 days ago

14 November 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey. So I love this other girl in my class, S. We used to be great friends but now she hates my guts and wont tell me why. I just cant get over her. I realy dont know what to do. So anyways, yesterday my freind, Y, said would i go out with HER friend, M (bi or gay, cant rem... (175 words)

I found out my husband has been cheating and won't talk about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3658 days ago

14 November 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and my husband has been together for 16years.ive reacantly found out what my gutt has been telling me all this time to be true hes cheated on me for sometime now hes not denying it however he claims hes not doing it any longer and hes sorry but im still finding the girls #s ... (165 words)

2 guys..neither situation is right. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3659 days ago

14 November 2014 (F) age 26-29 - Dear Dr. Cupid i have a problem i like this guy i think hes cute, but theres some one else who i love truly we used to date the cute one asked me out but i didnt think we were right for each other. The one i love still likes me but just wants to be friends what should i... (74 words)

How long should no contact continue for her to make up her mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

14 November 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Please, please help! Im going thru so much pain right now. Insecurity grew in me, i read her private messages, we ended up in a fight. I called her a lier and broke up. Please read, this why i read her private messages http://www.dea... (263 words)

My boyfriend's mom wants to be my best friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

14 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I know this sounds like a good problem to have but my boyfriend's mother (my eventual MIL) wants to literally be my best friend. She comments on ALL of my photos, shared posts, statuses, EVERYTHING on Facebook. She even will comment on my friends' posts saying things like ... (152 words)