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writes:My boyfriend is a widower and we had a few words during a row after i complained to him that he does not repond to my calls for days and up to a week at a time and 2 weeks ago i said to him that i could be dead and he would not care and have not heard from him and am not sure if i will and wonder what is the best way to sort this out between us. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2014): I wouldn't try to sort it out. If he was your boyfriend, it shouldn't take him days or a week to respond to you. You should be able to argue and express your feelings without someone going silent for weeks. I dated a man who did the same thing, and it was horrible. Save yourself the heartache.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2014): Anyone who would ignore me for two weeks, I'd consider them not that into me. If you have to beg him to care, he's not worth your time.
I think he's weaning you off. Maybe he's attempting a non-confrontational breakup. I think he's passive-aggressively dumping you.
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reader, mystiquek  +, writes (28 November 2014):
 I don't know what there could be to sort out after 2 weeks have gone by. It appears he ended things and took the coward's way out. Its best to accept that he no longer wishes to communicate with you and move on. Its sad that he he has chosen this way to end things but do you really want someone in your life that you can't even talk to when there's a rough patch??
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