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Archived questions from: 29 November, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My mother has been telling me that my husband is using me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I need a second opinion. My husband and I married almost 3 yrs ago. He is from a foreign country. Because we married, he received his green card. We lived with my mother, but moved across the street because he didn't want us to have children and not have our own place. He has a ... (344 words)

Even after five years I don't have the nerve to discuss the future with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this is going to sound terrible, and it is, but I'm still nervous about bringing up the future with my boyfriend after 5 years together. I used to try to bring it up, but he always said 'maybe one day' and other such non-committal things and would basically stop the ... (215 words)

How can I end this or what could I do to help him see that he is moving too fast?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) age 51-59 - Hi everyone. Need some advice. I'm a 45 year old woman from Britain. Divorced mum of 2. Recently things in my life have been a bit upside down for me. It started about a year ago, met a lovely man, we was friends and then we started dating, when I first met him he had just ... (254 words)

Why am I so mismatched with men sexually?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3667 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm looking for some sexual advice cupids, from both men and women if possible. I am a 29 year old woman and I've had six sexual partners, but I've always had the same problem - I don't really like the feeling of sexual intercourse. However, this isn't for the reasons many... (477 words)

We rushed in too soon but is he backing out now? Was he ever serious? How should I approach this issue?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have less than 16 days to do something about this relationship. Please help. I met a guy on a double date five months ago. We hit it off and we talked everyday even though he moved back to the UK the day after we met. I did caution him that he was moving too fast but he ... (690 words)

I want sex as a Christmas present and I want her to fulfill my sexual fantasies! How do I say this to my wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

29 November 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife keeps asking me what I want for Christmas, but I'm a bit nervous about asking for what I really want - sex. I want to have sex more often - I think she does too. The issue is last Christmas - after copious research - I bought her lingerie (right size and everything - ... (141 words)

Has he used the "love" word too soon? Am I reading too much into his message? We've been casually dating for three months.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - A guy I've been casually dating for the past 3 months told me that he is thankful to have me in his life...and he has "nothing but love for me." This was in response to me messaging him on Thanksgiving letting him know that I'm grateful to have met him. I am wondering what o... (91 words)

How can I be more gentle with my boyfriend in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am mostly a calm, gentle person, except in bed. I always assumed that being wild, perhaps even a bit rough and aggressive is what guys like and my previous partners have been very happy with that. Today I'm in a relationship with a guy for 6 months and we're still expl... (178 words)

Would pride stop him from giving a second chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, a question for the men:- Is a man who is into casual sex with a girl, always interested in having it with that person? If I turned a man down for sex for whatever reason - whether it was because the time wasn't right, or I wasn't sure he was the right person etc etc, wo... (94 words)

What should I do to stop his passive-aggressive behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I need some opinion and advice me please on what should I do? My boyfriend and me been together for 5 years and things went rocky lately, he broke up with me 3 days ago, before he break up with me, he'd told me several times about his uncertainty of our compatibilit... (594 words)

Is my dentist being professional? Am I expecting too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I was hoping someone could help me shed some light on this situation as it's completely baffling me! Last year I started a teeth straightening treatment and I was reccomended the same orthodontist by a work colleague and an old school friend who both within the last few yea... (541 words)

What can I do? My boyfriend is addicted to fantasy sports online?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 November 2014 (?) age 36-40 - I know this isn't as serious as an addiction to drugs or alcohol, but I truly believe my boyfriend is addicted to fantasy sports. It's affecting our relationship. It started off earlier this Fall with fantasy football and has expanded to other sports. At first it was minor, but ... (278 words)

How can we make our relationship work while he's forever playing his games or on his phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and its been the worst two years! At first our relationship was great, we did everything together, he did small things for me, he was caring and romantic. And its went to hell. We don't do anything together i never go around his ... (342 words)

Is my boyfriend bisexual?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this super amazing guy for almost a year now. We both want to get married and were both looking for stable relationships. I ask every man I date if they've ever had any homosexual experiences. I usually ask in the beginning. He told me no. A little while la... (407 words)

How do I handle these girls when they treat me badly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3660 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to ask for a friendly advice. Ever since I was a child, my older sister ( I have only one older sister and she is 8 years older than me) has always been very mean towards me. Picking on me, saying mean words and she has never treated me kind as a child infront ... (1537 words)

Has he been hiding these feelings all these years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of 15yrs has never said anything to horrible to me.. But for the past for weeks he has not held back.. Last night was pretty hurtful.. He said he hated my guts, I was fat and sloppy, he couldn't stand to touch me, my kids hate me, he is going to find someone else, hr ... (128 words)

Is this an emotional affair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I having an emotional text affair? I recently got into contact with an old friend and what started out as brief text exchanges had become a daily texting affair for almost 2 months. I enjoy texting him and look forward to his texts. He tells me good morning and night ... (195 words)