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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does she want a serious relationship or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

16 November 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a girl for almost a month now and I don't know if she wants us to have a serious relationship or not, she is giving me mixed signals. One minute she's dropping hints about me possibly moving in and living with her, the next minute she seems happy to not see me ... (95 words)

I saw him more as a father figure, how do I give him the message I am not interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

16 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am friends with a man who I learnt just today that he is 10 years my senior. I had from time to time, confined in him on some rather private matters; like dating and choosing the right chap etc. I had always thought he was at least 20 years older than me so excluded the ... (158 words)

I walked on egg shells around his wife and my relationship with my son have changed from good to bad! How can I show my son that I love his wife and children?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

16 November 2014 (F)

age - My son and I have a close relationship until he got married. He's 33 years old and a wonderful son but now I felt like I walked on egg shells around his wife and my relationship with my son have changed from good to bad. I called him one day and I was very angry when he said to ... (500 words)

My crush is a player!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3687 days ago

16 November 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Last year, I fancied this guy for ages, he knew, but didn’t do anything and now when I finally got over him, he started sending all these flirty texts and saying how he likes me and stuff and I kind of went back to liking him but I know hes a player and he probably does it to ... (88 words)

I think I like my best friend's brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

16 November 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Me and my best friend have known each other since before we started school and I've know her twin brother for the same time. Recently, though, whenever it see him I get butterflies in my stomach and when I told my other friend this she said I probably liked him, but I've never ... (85 words)

My girlfriend doesn't return call or texts and is quick argue

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

16 November 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - I wonder if the aforementioned signs or traits are a harbinger that a break up or something else is about to unfold. I don't expect her to pick up the phone or return my texts immediately, but lately it seems as if I'm becoming more of a chore or nuisance to her. She has alw... (162 words)

I've had enough of my crazy mother in law

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

16 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I are in our first year of marriage and we had the opportunity to move hundreds of miles away from his family and his meddling mother. Yet she visits us almost every week-end! Now she's talking about moving to our city and I am at my wits end. My husband ... (298 words)

My boyfriend has only read about 50 of the 200 posts in my blog. What does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

16 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a writer who has a blog. It's a travel blog. I met this guy online about 6 months ago while I was travelling and we wrote to each other back and forth. Back then, he would read all of my posts, and write back with his take on them, what he liked, etc. Well, 6 months later I ... (161 words)

Stability vs. Excitment

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

16 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I find that we, humans, seem to have a nature of wanting things that we don't have sometimes to a point where we are hurting people along the way just to get it, because we don't know how to appreciate them when it is already in front of us. But then, there are those who choose ... (222 words)

I never get asked out on a date

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3688 days ago

16 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 23 and have never been asked out. I'm smart, go to uni and actively participate in student organisations as well as take part in social work. I love having good discussions and always take genuine interest in listening to the person I'm talking to. I'm petite and I consta... (396 words)

My boyfriend goes to the pub after he visits me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

16 November 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there everyone Just looking for some advice as to know I am over reacting or not. I have been in a relationship for 2 years with a lovely man. We see each other 2-3 times a week but he'll stay one night a week, midweek. The other times, and this is what I find difficul... (148 words)

Why has my male friend become distant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3687 days ago

16 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - i have this male friend and we texted all the time about anything. we did go on a date when we first met but he wasnt ready for anything. its been a couple of months since then, now hes suddenly gone distant on me. before that he would text stuff like he was texting a girlfrie... (113 words)

I need to end this affair

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

16 November 2014 (F)

age - I need the big push to end my 9yr affair with a single man. I'm wed. A bad scene to be sure. If I cared that much I would have left my marriage and If my lover cared that much he would have asked me to! no sex with husband great sex with lover! Help me to walk away!!!!! Thanks.... (60 words)

He texts another female everyday, and she sends him selfies .... I told him it makes me uncomfortable but he doesn't seem to care.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

16 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal to be texting the opposite sex everyday if you are attached? My bf has been texting a female friend everyday for the past month and she sends him her selfies a few times a week. Although the photos are not sexual, I do feel uncomfortable at how many selfies she ... (100 words)

I am heatbroken there was no compromise or compassion!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

16 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 weeks. Things were going so well until yesterday evening. He invited me to a wedding and I gladly accepted the invitation (the bride and groom wanted to meet me too) The wedding was a sunrise one so it finished around 2pm. The wedd... (354 words)

He emailed a joke including pictures of naked women, and says I am over reacting!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

16 November 2014 (F)

age - Hi All, I am a mature woman in her 60's i am in a relationship with a man and have been so for the last 7yrs. Well yesterday he sent me an e-mail containing a joke which i found quite funny, but along with it was 3 full frontal photo's of women,the joke was in referance to nud... (224 words)

Is it common for women to lose interest in anal play after childbirth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3686 days ago

16 November 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok for the ladies out there that have had a baby, how has this affected your enjoyment or preferences to anal sex? I'm just asking because my wife does not see in to anal sex at all since the birth of our first. She would ask for it at times and would quite often be my "three ... (210 words)

I told him its me or the weed ...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

16 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend stopped smoking weed and recently he talked about starting back. but me on the other hand hate it and don't want to be around it. What should I do? I told him to pick me or weed and he says its up to me.. help!... (47 words)

Should I report this, I don't want to create problems or trouble?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

16 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, can I ask a question please? I am currently working as a housing Assistant, my superior is a married man 2x my age, he comes across flirty sometimes and stares at me all the time, like really it has been noticed by others. The other day he slapped my backside and though I ... (136 words)

We have broken up but I know he still loves me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

16 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend are getting back from break up and now he's passive aggressive towards me. I know he still loves me. We've been in serious relationship and he's ready for commitment before but now things changed. He loss his patience, passion, and doesn't try to be the best ... (568 words)

If there's another woman she doesn't deserve this either

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

16 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with the same guy for six years. In this entire time we have gone out two times as a couple. Most of the time it's just the mattress mambo and nothing else. I have spoken to him about building a more solid relationship together over the years. Nothing happens, I ... (307 words)

Was he ever interested in me or was he just being nice and not wanting to reject me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

16 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. I work at a retail job which is just temporary until I get into my career field. There's a guy at my job who I have a big crush on (let's call him V). Usually I do nothing about situations where I have a crush on someone. But I kept reading how some men in my age grou... (867 words)

I'm worried he thinks I rejected him. How do I fix this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3685 days ago

16 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a male friend. We've been friends for a couple of years but recently I've developed feelings for him. We've been flirty and I think he likes me too. He's not a shy guy but he's not very forward with women. We were out with her friends the other day and he offered ... (99 words)