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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hey all! Just a quick question I need some guidance on: my long-time girlfriend and I find ourselves in the sac a lot, and while there's a lot of passion and love going on all around (and, to be brief, some real magic work going on from her! W O W!), I am having trouble orgasming. I can easily finish her, I can give her a /lot/ of those actually. However, I can only seem to finish once or twice. Any ideas on how to get my sex drive back up/ideas of what might be causing this? I feel like sleep's got something to do with it-- I don't get a lot of that. I'm usually asleep around 3 am...that's probably not a good thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2014): This sounds cliché but the best thing you can do is to relax and take your time when she's stimulating you. When it does happen take note of how she was stimulating you to make it happen.
The good news is if you've climaxed before you can definitely climax again so don't put too much stress on yourself.
I found it easier to climax when she was on top when we were scissoring than if I was on top. I also found it easier to climax when she only focused on clitoral stimulation without fingering me at the same time. It's really little details like this that help you reach that point. Ofcourse we are not the same but really pay attention to changes in angle and pace and friction as they make all the difference.
Also, it helps to start the foreplay even before you've hit the bedroom. Send saucy texts, a cheeky grope here and there, and french kiss during the day. It helps to be wet even before you finally start making love.
I hope that helps!
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