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Archived questions from: 12 November, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't feel the same since he admitted to a threesome

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3660 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - What would you do/feel if you had a friend for whom you had feelings. You had started to get close physically and emotionally. Plans were made to meet up (we're living far apart now). But he tells you he got drunk and had a 3some with his friend and his girlfriend. Now we had ... (164 words)

How to separate emotional issues so I can be more productive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3465 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a personal major problem that I am trying to resolve but it is now affecting my daily life and is worse than the last emotional stress I've been dealing with. I don't want to ruin my chances of keeping a good job or lose any self-respect because I am NOT getting ... (180 words)

He did something I wouldn't have expected and now I don't feel the same

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3659 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, well my boyfriend and I broke up 3 days ago. And we were barley talking but then last night he texts me and tells me he still loves me its just we can date anymore right now because something bad might happen go him or me. Obviously I was curious and wanted to know w... (514 words)

Men, would you see her as girlfriend material if she doesn't have a connection to family or friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3660 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - To the men of dear cupid. What would you think of a woman who doesn't have much support in life? Say if most of her blood family were no longer emotionally invested in her and some of the members treated her poorly. Would you take her seriously, or see her as girlfriend ... (153 words)

Tips for my coworker to admit he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3659 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I have this guy that I work with and I am pretty sure that there's a good chance that he likes me. I see him on some weekends and I'm seeing him this weekend too at work but I want him to admit that he likes me. I don't know if this is possible because he is pretty shy but he ... (143 words)

In a marriage, would you be happier with the person you love or the person that loves you?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - This is an age old question but I would like to poll a question. In a marriage, would you be happier with the person you love or the person that loves you? (Note that it's a one-sided love. You may care for the other person but I am referring to someone who don't feel as ... (77 words)

How can I get close to my co worker? I have a crush on him. Do I risk it and make a move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3661 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a crush on a co-worker. I flirt just enough to not make it awkward. I want to ask him out but I can't seem to read him. My office is small, so if I put myself out there everyone will know and it will be uncomfortable if he turns me down. Do I risk it? What can I do to g... (65 words)

Could I get him back or is there any way to help me move on ?? I still have a crush for my ex and now he has a Gf too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3661 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help I think I am still in love with my ex bf. But I can seem to stop emailing him and meeting him I have tried blocking him and it lasts for about a couple of weeks then my heart flutters when he emails me asking to meet. I know it's wrong because he has a gf and hav... (117 words)

What are the chances? Is it really possible for a man to be addicted to a woman sexually?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3661 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I have a question. Maybe everybody can give their view point. Is it possible for a man to be sexually addicted to a woman? For example, your boyfriend says he loves you but is having sex with another woman on the side because he is addicted to the se... (106 words)

Divorced women: Given another chance with your ex, would you still choose to leave your man and get divorced? Should I have to give up on my dreams?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3613 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - To all who divorced their husbands during their 30s and has grown old enough to look back on your life, do you regret your decision and wished you had tried harder (not the ones who were in an abusive relationship, just the ones who had a rough/shaky one to begin with)? What ... (933 words)

Little contact for 2 days... are men really like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3660 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it normal for a man to go like 2 days without any real contact with his girlfriend? We've been together for over 4 years, not currently living together, but doing so after the new year. We had an amazing weekend and I know, in person, that he loves and cares about me (i ca... (570 words)

We're getting married in 5 months. Am I asking too much to want fire and passion in our relationship? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3660 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I need your advice. I have been with the same man for over three years. We have lived together and shared money for two and a half of those. I am 24 and he is 28. "Joe" is the "perfect" man. He is chivalrous, hardworking, selfless, and makes a very good liv... (386 words)

Should I go and see him after nearly 2 years apart?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3656 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age - Hello aunts and uncles I had a friendship with a man for just over 5 years. We were both in our late 40s (now early 50s) and divorced, so free and single. We slept together in the early months, but he stopped it because he wanted us to be friends only. I fell in love with ... (334 words)

How do I handle the insecurity I feel when my boyfriend flirts with our female friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3661 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I'm stuck in between being mature in a relationship and still that little girl who is a bit insecure. I need advice on how to handle a relationship in a mature adult way and be comfortable with it. I've been with my boyfriend for about 10 months now. We have our usua... (288 words)

Do guys need to see women naked?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3661 days ago

12 November 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I find I can do without porn and don't want to support any porn sites. But if I go a long time without atleast seeing naked women, I start feeling bummed out, hollow, empty or dead inside. Is that normal? Could it have something to do with being single for like forever? I ke... (153 words)

My widowed mother is sleeping with a married man.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a seventeen year old Indian girl. My father passed away in December 2013. Since February this year my father's best friend, Max, who is a married white man has been visiting us at least twice a week and sleeps over. He is a salesman for a large company from another town. ... (206 words)

I fear my ex is going to die of his drug use!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3661 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone I just ended a relationship with a guy who was going through a really dark time - he was on drugs, getting involved with lots of shady people, and he became verbally aggressive with me. That was the final nail in the coffin, making me say goodbye. But... (196 words)

Is it possible to go back to getting to know someone slowly after being intimate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3660 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for 3-4 weeks, and we've had 6 or 7 dates. I met him online, things went a bit wrong before we even met because of big differences in life style that I pointed out. For example he is very well off and I earn a moderate salary but not enough to keep up ... (684 words)

In love with my friend, do I lay it on the line and ask where I stand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3661 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so straight to the point , i have developed feelings for my friend he knows i like him but he hasnt done anything about it(the ball is in his court so to speak) hes been flirty but then reminds the moment we r friends and he shouldnt be as flirty i enjoy his time and talking ... (119 words)

Why is his ex suddenly calling so much and telling him this news?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3648 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like your views on this, Aunties and Uncles. My current boyfriend has broken up with his girlfriend for a year now. They have had no contact for about six months now. They were together for three years. About three weeks ago, his ex started calling him again.. to c... (243 words)

What can I do to stop the push and pull from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3661 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi.. I've been with my bf for almost 5 years. Our relationship was great before. But I've made mistakes by taking him for granted and not appreciating what hed done before also rejecting his marriage proposal. I also been controlling so that he hides several things from me to ... (523 words)

Do I keep this online LDR going or ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3661 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So there's this boy.. And it's probably funny to people how we met, but it was unexpected to happen the way things did. We actually, met over Xbox! and it started w/ us just Playing a game together and we added each other then always played together. Once I got a mic, we ... (308 words)

Did I misinterpret her message?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3661 days ago

12 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - What would you do if you found a message from a female friend who sent "you would be lucky if you were my bf. I don't make you buy me things" to your bf? Fyi I happened to be with him when she texted and saw what she texted, and he allowed me to see what he was replying her... (172 words)