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Archived questions from: 4 November, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't see my boyfriend and I moving in together should I walk away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

4 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't think my boyfriend and I will move in together, should I walk away ?. He has bipolar disorder. He recently moved into a new place. He doesn't seem to want to move in with me, and it could be difficult to live with him, as he has so many mood changes. We have been ... (196 words)

The man of my dreams but not the place of my dreams

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

4 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in such a bind, it has gotten me pretty depressed. I have an amazing boyfriend who thinks the world of me, and I wanted him as well since the first time I laid eyes on him. My wish came true, he became mine, and we get along amazingly. One of the best I've ever had hands ... (161 words)

Why would my ex come back to mind now that he's moving on??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

4 November 2014 (F)

- I found out over the weekend that an ex boyfriend has moved to Australia with his new girlfriend. I went out with him about 10 years ago we were quite young but I loved him deeply and he broke my heart. We then had little flings on and off throughout the years but we never got ... (236 words)

The trip with my ex would ease my physical pain, but I don't want him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3668 days ago

4 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex bf and I were together for about 3yrs. During that time I pretty much did every single thing for the guy and supported him in every way. Eventually, he had an opportunity to go abroad to a beautiful tropical place for work, which I sorted out and supported him with. But ... (538 words)

Are silences a problem on a second date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3668 days ago

4 November 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So went on a date with a nice girl. We went out siteseeing for the most part of a day (2nd date) for about 7 hours. We spent a nice time talking, but there were a lot of silences. Is there a problem do you think? I guess you can't expect to talk the whole time. Things ... (110 words)

Should I support my husband in reviving a friendship with his ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3666 days ago

4 November 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Married a year and this is both our second marriages. I don't have a relationship with my ex other than child related conversations over the phone. My husbands ex is one of his oldest friends. During our courtship she was rude,intrusive and very disrespectful to me. She ... (178 words)

I've got the hots for my flatmates who might be gay too

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3669 days ago

4 November 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm m a 20 year old male currently sharing a house with two other guys. we're all in college. So I am gay but the guys don't know about this as I have only ever told a few people. One the guys is HOT and the other is also quite attractive, I often catch the two of them making ... (321 words)

Should I try to become a paratrooper or join the Navy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3669 days ago

4 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm joining the military, but I'm torn on what to do. Please, if you have time, help me out. I made a short version if you don't want to read a lot: There are two jobs I'm considering. - The first one is becoming an officer at the army paratroopers devision (red berets). I... (563 words)

My gut is telling me he's not faithful!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3665 days ago

4 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately, I've been rather doubtful of my fiancé's loyalty. I caught him liking other girls photo on facebook. And suddenly I get all jealous. He wasn't normally like this. For weeks My gut has been telling me that he's not faithful. He gets all angry when I ask him about it. He ... (117 words)

Is this a real doubt? Or a lack of self confidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

4 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am currently in a relationship of about 3-4 years. It is going strong at the moment, and next year we are looking to buy a place together. We have been living together for a few months. We broke up about 2 years ago for 3-4 months as a result of trust and commitment... (689 words)

What does the word 'cute' mean to guys? To me, it means 'ugly but acceptable'!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3669 days ago

4 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Auntz Me and my new boyfriend started dating a week ago and he keeps saying that im cute! I have always told myself that i will never date any guy that thinks i am cute, but here i am. I wish he would use the word beautiful instead but he doesnt seem to ever going to... (103 words)

I want to talk about things with my ex but this could jeopardize my current relationship, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3669 days ago

4 November 2014 (M)

age - My wife left me over 20 years ago and took my children with her. This all happened while I was out at work one day and I've never really come to terms with it. I think I understand why she did it, but her actions were too drastic and I feel we could have worked the problem ... (175 words)

I'm falling for a wrong guy again, am I stupid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3669 days ago

4 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - hello there. my name is Anna. I have a good guy friend. I never thought of falling for him. But i think now i do. Recently he graduated for his bachelor degree. A week before, he asked me to come to his graduation ceremony even for minutes and also asking me to bring a ... (244 words)

Boyfriend has went MIA, do I contact him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

4 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, everyone! my boyfriend and i have been in a relationship for 2-3 months now (dating 2 months prior). He first initiated and confessed his feelings, he first said i love you, and he made sure he held hands with me in public even to this day. i mean, he does get jealous ... (391 words)

Is it acceptable when my girlfriend invites over her male friend for a movie night alone at her place?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

4 November 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - My 2 1\2 years long distance girlfriend told me today a male friend from college is going to watch a movie tomorrow night at her place so she can not see me on skype (we do it every night) she says that the time is not convinient to her (10 pm not convenient??) They will be ... (312 words)

I didn't tell my b/f about my past and he found out from someone else. Now he wants me out of his life!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3667 days ago

4 November 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I wanted to tell my new boyfriend about my past but did not know if i should tell him or that he would not want to know about my past or when was the best time to tell him and had thought about telling him as i know a guy that works for him that knows about my past and to put ... (236 words)

How do you know when a man likes you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3669 days ago

4 November 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I would appreciAte any opinions. How do you know when a guy likes you? I know this should be pretty strAight forward but m a little bit confused. I was married for more then 20 years, now divorced and guys send mixed signals. Im not sure if their trying to see if they ... (224 words)