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writes:My husband of 15yrs has never said anything to horrible to me.. But for the past for weeks he has not held back.. Last night was pretty hurtful.. He said he hated my guts, I was fat and sloppy, he couldn't stand to touch me, my kids hate me, he is going to find someone else, hr has all kids of ppl that want him, I'm a whore, I have nothin hrs givin me everything.. He tells me sry, that he jus got angry and lost it.. But I don believe him.. Do u think hrs been hifin these feelings for 15yrs and hoe could he be sorry if he keeps sayin it over and over.. I'm crushed and don't even want to be in the same room
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2014): Did something happen recently? Did he lose his job, did someone close to him pass away, etc.?
If his behaviour all of a sudden changed drastically for no apparent reason, it could be a physical condition such as a tumor. He needs to see a doctor to be sure he's healthy.
If he is healthy, then you need to see a counselor. Go by yourself if he won't go with you. And try not to let his awful words affect your sense of self. (Easier said than done--that's why you need to go to counseling, with or without him.) There may be an agency in your town that will provide counseling services on a sliding scale if cost is an issue.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (29 November 2014):
You guys need counseling, not advice.
Sometimes people say mean things that they don't totally mean, but there's usually some truth to it. So he probably has some of those feelings. But seriously, your marriage is broken and you need to fix it.
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