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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend and upgrading of porn. Should I be concerned?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

2 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I have been with my boyfriend for three years as of two days ago. I know he watches porn, even though he's been hesitant to admit it. I am not comfortable with porn, but our agreement is that as long as he clears his search history and I don't see it it's fine, cause... (443 words)

Telling my lover about an old sexual experience with someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3669 days ago

2 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I tell my partner my sexual experiences from the past? I know normally it's reallt up to the person to decide to do what they feel is right and comfortable. Normally I'm pretty open about my experiences and wouldn't mind sharing but the circumstances are a bit different ... (158 words)

Does my ex miss me or is he just trying to be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

2 November 2014 (F) age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up in march. he jumped straight into a relationship with a new girl a few weeks later and not long later she moved in with him, everything happened so quickly it destroyed me as we have been through a lot in the 6 years we have been together but broke up due ... (159 words)

My marriage is crumbling and I don't know how to fix it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

2 November 2014 (?) age 36-40 - About six years ago, I moved 500 miles from home to be closer to family after a breakup from a really insecure relationship. I knew I was not ready for a relationship again, and I swore I was going to work on my insecurities. A few months later I met my now husband. I told him ... (695 words)

Girlfriend trust issues on the case.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3671 days ago

2 November 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys wow I missed this site, glad to be back again I happen to have a relationship issue with my girlfriend, thing is she doesn't trust me at all, always pick a fight and gets angry for no reason to, I give her permission for going through my phone and still look for ways to ... (107 words)

Does she regret the break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3671 days ago

2 November 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - We were together for 7 months then broke up (about 3 weeks ago), I've gone no contact with her. Within a week after a break up she got into rebound relationship with complete opposite guy who was always been there for her.... She has just texted me this message: "I just... (298 words)

How do you know if it is just for sex or is it more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

2 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Very brief, i am 24 he is 25. We have been speaking for a month. Met online, he was previously speaking to another girl when i was speaking to him off the internet but then after we met he says just me and him . We are a couple, we have spent two weekends away together. F... (378 words)

My crush is leaving in a week. Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3671 days ago

2 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all spoke about him for a long time- older male colleague at work is now leaving. i do believe he feels the same it just i had denied my feelings previously. I now know he is leaving maybe in a week or so. should i confess my feelings to him or always think what if a... (71 words)

Should I go off the pill now or wait and make an announcement?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

2 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner and I both want kids, he is of the mind set that he doesn't want to TRY and conceive, he would like it to just ... Happen . Without too much stress. He would be happy if I turned around tomorrow and told him I was pregnant. A little bit freaked about responsibility ... (179 words)

I want to get married at Disney World but he doesn't

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

2 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I got engaged a few month ago and need some help. Since I was 10 I said I was going to get married at Disneyworld and I've never changed my mind. My fiance wants a big wedding here. I don't!! All we do I argue over it because I want to go to Disney and invite around 10 rel... (177 words)

He won't make a move beyond staring, Does he fancy me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

2 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have known this man for over three years, for over two years we would talk to each other all the time, mainly by text and email, in the last year it has stopped. This is where it gets confusing, we work together and whenever we are in the same place he will watch me the whol... (539 words)

Is oral sex harmful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3665 days ago

2 November 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend gives me blowjobs. Does it is harmful or bad for her???... (14 words)

I didn't get the same feeling on the second date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

2 November 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So, met a nice girl and went out for dinner on a first date. I definitely felt a wow after the first date - really put a huge smile on my face, knew I wanted to see her again, think we'd get along etc. So after a couple of weeks we went out on said second date. But I'm sat here ... (248 words)

What's going on with my B/f? Is he gay? What was he setting up the video camera for?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

2 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Over the 10 years or so I've been with my boyfriend he has continuously used porn. Until recently I thought only straight porn. He now confesses to occasionally watching gay porn. Also sending videos and naked pictures on a gay site. He only confessed to this as I found a video ... (338 words)

When I'm back at the end of january, if he is no longer talking to this girl, do I have any chance of getting him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3671 days ago

2 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been seeing a guy for almost 3 months now. he contacts me every single day and we always have so much fun together. We're in college so i live at my dorm while he lives at home. my hometown is 10hrs away and we have our christmas break coming up so he knows i'll be ... (555 words)

Does my coworker like me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

2 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy I work with and I don't know if he likes me or not. I see him on the weekends sometimes. He always comes and talks to me at work and I catch him staring at me sometimes. He even looks up at me when I walk passed him. But he hasn't asked me for my number yet ... (155 words)