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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What kind of dirty talk do guys want to hear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

11 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend has asked me to talk dirty during sex, I'm very up For it but I'm quite an awkward person, if any guys are reading this what kind of things would you wanna hear?... (36 words)

Am I over reacting or overpossessive? Should I give him some time or just move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3661 days ago

11 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupids. I love a guy.We met online he is from pakistan nd am an indian. Initially we were friends then one day he proposed me that he wants to marry me , the other day he said that he will think about me but hes not doing any promise as hes not so sure about his own life ... (276 words)

My man won't put out but wants me to please him only!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3661 days ago

11 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - In need of some advice please! So I've been in a relationship and living with my bf for over 2 yrs. and we just had a baby (he did not want to have the baby) we didn't have much sex at the end of my pregnancy cause he said it's weird...it drove me nuts lol but respecte... (189 words)

Who do I leave my money to?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3660 days ago

11 November 2014 (M)

age - I'm going to make a will.I'm quite comfortable financially, with a property paid for and money in the bank.I'm only 55, but you never know... Thing is, my only son (from a divorce) is 27 and has basically never worked. He occasionally works as a DJ a few times a year. He lives... (158 words)

I can't get over wasting my younger years!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

11 November 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I seem to have given up hope on life for a while now, as in goals. Ambition and actually thinking I have a future. But I don't want to feel like this any more. I know little changes can make a difference ie going the gym, eating healthy and other things. But no matter wh... (204 words)

My boyfriend wants to join the forces and I don't know how I'll cope!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3662 days ago

11 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 6 months, and next year March we are planning on moving to London together to give our acting careers a real good go before we decide on settling. We are very much in love and very serious about one another. Despite this being a ... (374 words)

Naked pictures in a long distance relationship, she wants to see mine but won't show me hers!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3661 days ago

11 November 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a long distance relationship for over a year, yet we have not seen each other in person, but we communicated daily in web cam, phone, facebook, etc. I love her and she says she loves me very much. We have plans to meet soon and we want to make kids after we live ... (194 words)

Subtle signs of male jealousy or tension between two guys over a girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3662 days ago

11 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - From body language to speech, what are subtle signs that a male feels competition with another male over a girl? Especially in the case where the girl is already taken by one male...what kind of subtle tension in body language and words do you see from the male who is jealous ... (151 words)

I'm angry on the way he thinks about single mothers, what shall I do? Is is possible to change his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3661 days ago

11 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, There is a guy whom I meet on training and at the end of the training we have a party and we meet there suddenly we separate with out exchanging address I was just thinking about him and rely upset for not having his address. Next day after the party I found a friend r... (541 words)

How can he take a chance on love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3659 days ago

11 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - ok my head is starting to be blagged , theres this guy i met and we are friends he likes me as a friend id like it to be more hes called me special and sends really flirty texts to me and even said thats what he would say to a girlfriend and not a friend so said sorry,i said ... (212 words)

Did he just hit the ball back into my court? 30 all perhaps?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

11 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, any help would be greatly appreciated. Apparently, I’m clueless when it comes to men. I’ve spent my life building my career, that I have failed to learn how to read situations such as this: This past weekend, whilst attending a conference, I met a guy who used to work... (378 words)

My friend tells me she's in love with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

11 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've met this woman and we have became really close friends and she says she loves me like her husband.but not in a sexual way but now I've fallen in love with her and I told her she said it's ok I decided to end our friendship she broke down in tears saying she couldn't live ... (96 words)

He said he was single, then she said he wasn't !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

11 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, There is a new guy in town we met and immediately got into dating. I gues we really like(d) eachother. When we met he told me that he was single. We have been seeing eachother for the past two weeks in public holding hands and stuff. Now suddenly a certain girl app... (114 words)

Was my boyfriend jealous of this other guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3660 days ago

11 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I was at a cooking class with my boyfriend tonight. It is weird but he seems to have an issue with me talking to other men, even when innocent. I was talking to this guy in the class tonight. My boyfriend was talking with another group of people and I was talking with th... (195 words)

I am not sure if this body language things are right, but I was wondering if maybe he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3658 days ago

11 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy in three of my classes. I have met him in summer and then we ended up being in the same classes. He is pretty smart and pretty knowledgeable about a lot of things. We had lunch at the beginning of the classes. He asked for my number to study together. ... (581 words)

My boyfriend says I am obsessed with another guy and that he is second best!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3662 days ago

11 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 33 and my live-in bf is 38. We've been dating for almost 18 months – completely in love…plans to marry, buy a house, have a serious future together. About five months ago, he was using my Facebook account and discovered that I had been looking at the profile for a guy ... (1105 words)

I've got a boyfriend, and kids, but this woman gives me butterflies in the stomach!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3637 days ago

11 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I have been with my boyfriend almost 10 years an we have two kids together. Well I think I'm gay...this girl at my work really makes me feel some type of way! I also wonder if she is like me an is gay an feels te way about me like I do her! I am a manager at a restaurant ... (288 words)

I do love my boyfriend but I'm tempted by the other guy

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3661 days ago

11 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi - any help would be appreciated. I am on a total mess. My best girl friend and I went away last year and met a couple of guys. Both of us are in long term relationships but nothing happened with them. We spent a couple of nights out getting drunk with them but it was ... (415 words)

Lost his boner when I got on top... reasonable excuse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3661 days ago

11 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have been together for 4 years, yesterday was our anniversary, actually. Anyway, our sex life has been generally pretty good except for me riding him. I've NEVER had problems with it in past relationships but for some reason our bodies just doesn't mesh wel... (751 words)

I found incriminating evidence against boyfriend about cheating but he denies it all. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

11 November 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been in a two and a half year relationship which began when we were 15/16. We have a wonderful relationship and he treats me incredibly well, we are both respectful and incredibly loving. Faithful and genuine. In the early stages of our relationship, I found that he had b... (761 words)

My boyfriend spends more time with his friends than he does with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

11 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend spends more time with his friends than me! I'm not saying that we should see each other everyday. Perhaps just once a week. He has made a lot of plans with them but whenever I bring up sth to do, he either says he is busy or already has appointments with his ... (67 words)