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Archived questions from: 19 November, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Didn't expect the father's reaction when I told him about the baby

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3653 days ago

19 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a baby in September. i had gone through my entire pregnancy without telling anyone i was pregnant. in retrospect, it was kind of a bad idea but in my defense, i was terribly confused and overwhelmed. once i had the baby, my family became incredibly supportive and i am... (311 words)

Fear and lack of experience keep me from getting to know girls

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3653 days ago

19 November 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - At age12, I began having trouble with girls and over the next couple of years I feel like I lost every female friend I had, including one who I'd known from age 5. That is a very long story but I attribute what happened there with my first fascination of girls never being ... (362 words)

Is he scared to get close or not interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3653 days ago

19 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Seeing someone I can't read. It's frustrating. He got jealous when he heard a guy was interested in me and kept bringing it up. Then all of sudden he started to mention a girl that he saw was hot. He acts like he doesn't like me other times then tries to kiss me the next ... (179 words)

Is a guy reacting to a girl ignoring him a sign of interest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3651 days ago

19 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - When a guy pays more attention to a girl when she ignores him, or doesn't give him as much attention or leaves the area, does that mean he likes her? If the guy seems to be aware of how she feels and seems to react if she's sad, mad or happy, is that a big sign of a crush/... (140 words)

My current boyfriend can't seem to stop looking at dirty magazines despite knowing how it makes me feel!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

19 November 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear cupid, I have been in my relationship for 16 years. I have 2 kids with this man and 2 from my marriage. My current boyfriend can't seem to stop looking at dirty magazines despite knowing how it makes me feel. I have explained my feelings to him and he promised me he would ... (185 words)

My boyfriend is not speaking to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3653 days ago

19 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year, it has been a relatively good relationship until we hit a speed bump about two months ago when we started fighting a lot about the same thing over and over again. He apologised for his part and for ... (184 words)

My husband and his family are pressuring me to visit them in Kurdistan!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3653 days ago

19 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is currently in kurdistan, iraq. We are supposed to be meeting up in turkey in a couple of weeks. Now he is pestering me to go to kurdistan as his family want to meet me. I dont wish to go there because of the situation in iraq. Kurdistan is relatively safe to go and ... (220 words)

Images of him sleeping with her are driving me mad! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

19 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years has gone to Europe for a seminar. He is there for past 1 week, will be back next week end. He went along with his coworker/boss with whom he has a crush on. She is married with kids. My bf is kind of lean towards selfish person, he is verbally a... (274 words)

Would telling him I'm going on a date with someone get his attention?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

19 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - theres a guy i like and would love it if he asked me out but i need to get his attention first. we are friends he said he liked me before but didnt do anything about it we do fun friend flirting that doesnt mean anything asfar as i know ,im too chicken to make the first move ... (154 words)

How do I put my foot down so he knows his behavior won't be tolerated anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years (except a 4 month break) and I'm to the point that I'm not happy. I feel lonely and neglected. I broke up with him 5 months ago because he'd started neglecting me, wouldn't contact me and made no effort to see me. This ... (816 words)

Am I wrong for always thinking of him? even though he's hurt me so bad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

19 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So me and my boyfriend just broke up AGAIN for good, he was the first guy I've ever loved and it hurts like hell. But theres a story behind it all..the first time we broke up was around March after spring break where he started talking to some female and denied it when I ... (435 words)

Why hasn't she told her guy friend she has a boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3653 days ago

19 November 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend has a guy friend that she has known for two years and they used to like each other she has not told him that she has a boyfriend and she wants to hang out with him alone and won't introduce me or tell him that she has a boyfriend. I don't know if I should think ... (201 words)

My ex is ill so I haven't told him I'm in a new relationship yet!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

19 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, cutting a long story short, a few months ago my ex who still has feelings for me became very ill (we're still friends and have contact at his request). Around the same time I met someone else who's ex treated him terribly and left him/cheated on him with her ex (not that ... (165 words)

Is this normal in sex? I'm new to it and have no confidence in what I'm doing!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3653 days ago

19 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have a question for the guys! If you have sex with someone and use the pull out method (i know not entirely sensible but sometimes it happens) is it normal to finish yourself off as it were?? This happened on a recent conquest of mine and being that i have only ever had ... (85 words)

I wish that life would give me a break!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3647 days ago

19 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help, a friendly advice.. I have lost so much faith and strenght in life. I have been through a lot the past 15 years in my life. less than ten years ago, I started my dream education together with my ex boyfriend. But we broke up ( I decided to break up with him... (740 words)