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Archived questions from: 9 November, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I tell him that it's OK he got an erection

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

9 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey I'm 16 and today I spent the day with J (also 16) while his parents and mine went out. We've known each other for a year but we aren't really friends. Anyway we both sat on my horse on the way back to the house after a long walk (my horse is fine with this and it doesn't ... (124 words)

How far should dating go at 14?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

9 November 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - Basically im a 14 year old male ive been with my girlfriend for 9-10 months and me and her are really close we've not had sex or anything that serious , I just don't know how far I should go at this age I would never force my girlfriend into anything she doesn't want to do ... (56 words)

I feel he is almost trying to control me and keep me on a leash while he makes up his mind if I'm "worthy" enough for him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

9 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - So my ex and I broke up about 4 months ago. We're long distance, had disagreements on a lot of things that we couldn't compromise on and decided to end it. Since then we've kept in contact and at times it feels like we're still together. The idea of us getting back together if ... (597 words)

I'm in love with my married lover

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

9 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with an older married man for a year. In the last year, my feelings have grown for him, and I am in love. I know it's selfish, but I want more of his time to be spent with me. He insists that it will get better, but I'm not sure what he means. S... (105 words)

My boyfriend keeps talking about other girls

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

9 November 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend always talks about other girls I try to explain but then I just forgive him and let him do it again I try to get him back but it never works. What should I do to get him back?... (41 words)

I've never had a boyfriend because I fear commitment

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3664 days ago

9 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 18 and have never had a boyfriend. Its not that this is the problem, its just that in the past year i have probably been asked out by about 15 different men. Some of them I have been attracted to and some of them i knew quite well and really liked them. I don't know wha... (162 words)

I don't have strong feelings for him. Should I just let him go once and for all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

9 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. Well, I have been seeing a guy casually for the last three months, and it has been a very on off situation. Having just come out of a relationship when I met him (only a month after two years together), I wanted to take things slow but got caught up with the ... (514 words)

My alcoholic boyfriend has become a born again Christian and insists we marry

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3657 days ago

9 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone - I'm confused with the direction of my life. My alcoholic boyfriend of 5 years (and it has been a roller coaster ride of binge drinking destruction) has finally quit drinking after a 10 day binge which ended up with him in hospital. He stopped after being... (366 words)

How does one go about securing a friend with benefits?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

9 November 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - I am recently divorced. I'm not ready to get into a relationship, I still have anger over my wife's decision to divorce me. So I've been looking for something that seems somewhat popular these days, a friend with benefits. I've been looking and asking single females I know, po... (203 words)

My friend's girlfriend has cost me the friendship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

9 November 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a friend for many years. He's never had a girlfriend, just a few flings with women. He's a nice guy by all accounts and recently found a really nice girlfriend. After hearing about her for a few weeks we finally met at his fathers birthday party. She is lovely, I'm j... (531 words)

He's seemed awkward since our first date. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3664 days ago

9 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I met a guy through a friend as he is her uni housemate. We met at a party and hit it off straight away. Since then I returned home after visiting her and we texted a lot - he was quite flirty and invited me on a date when I next visited my friend. I have now been over for the ... (144 words)

I can't leave him until December. How do I stay strong until then?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

9 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am coming here because I need advice on how to stay strong. I feel like writing this all out may help as well as receiving advice from others. I have been with a guy for seven years and he is leaving me for the same woman he has left me for a number of times I can't ev... (780 words)

My parents don't like my boyfriend and I feel bad going against their wishes

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

9 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this boy for about 5 months now. I am 22 and while I've gone out with a few guys, I've never been in a serious relationship before as my parents are mega strict on these matters. The boy I am dating lives in Manchester (I am in Leeds), but we see each other ... (373 words)

He accuses me, he yells and shouts and pushes me, and he leaves!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3664 days ago

9 November 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel like I am going mad, no matter what I do I am wrong...am I wrong? I really hope you can help me as I feel I am going mad :( My husband and I have been through such a tough life together and it has certainly taken it's toll on me, him and my three children and the yo... (1207 words)

Did I over react? What should I have done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

9 November 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - So i've been dating this girl for about 8 months, in a relationship for the last 4 mo. A few days ago we were hanging out at her place. She was on her laptop and checked her facebook and saw that her "friend" who was the singer in a band that she liked was doing a show the ... (566 words)

It's the end of our friendship ..........

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3664 days ago

9 November 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been friends with a man for 7 years and we are both married. We get along really well, but only get to chat a couple of times a month. I will shortly be leaving the school where we usually catch up and although nothing has ever gone on between us, I am really going ... (182 words)

My butt is not big enough for my boyfriend.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) age 36-40 - The thing is, I have some insecurities about the size of my butt. I've been together with my bf for around 3 years and from the beginning he has wished my bottom was bigger. I have gained some weight (around 9 kg)and done exercise and as a result my butt is (in my opinion at ... (168 words)

My girlfriend is irresposible with finances!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

9 November 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf has serious personal finance problems. Even though she makes more than enough to pay her expenses and save, she consistently spends her entire paycheck and sometimes overspends it. She's open to discussion and is often willing to cutback on things we talk about (e.g. di... (173 words)

How can I let a friend down without hurting his feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

9 November 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid,I have question well I dated this guy for awhile but our relationship never went no where the sex was a no go I mean as person he was awesome but his manhood was smaller than his eyes could see.Just last week I spoke to him over the phone and he wanted to come ... (104 words)

How can this situation be addressed? He still lives with his family and we get no privacy when we visit his home.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3664 days ago

9 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and half and love him to bits but there is just one thing getting me down. He is still living at home with his parents and siblings and when I go to his house we have no alone time and have to do everything with the whole fa... (227 words)

Is there such a thing as a guy who lasts too long?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3664 days ago

9 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Everyone hates that guy that only lasts about 5 minutes in bed, well I seem to have found the complete opposite! The guy I recently started seeing is absolutely perfect, and when we slept together it went on quite a while which I really enjoyed at first, but now we've been ... (134 words)

He ended it over smoking so I quit. Can I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

9 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I was seeing a guy for a few weeks and all was going really well, we got on brilliantly and talked all day everyday even txting at work. I hadn't gotten on so well with anyone so quickly and things were fantastic. Unfortunately a few weeks in he realised I smoke. I had never ... (287 words)