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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He tells me nothing has changed but I'm not convinced. What could have made him change his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3666 days ago

1 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy 3 weeks ago...random but he got out of his car and passed me his number...I texted him and added him on facebook and we chatted constantly about how much we liked each other...seems mad I know but we just seemed to click. Anyway I have been to see him twice now,... (173 words)

Was my cousin flirting with me? Why deny it? Then he called me delusional

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

1 November 2014 (?) age 41-50 - I would really appreciate your help. I met some cousins of mine I didn't know I had for the first time a year ago. I got on best with the youngest , lets call him M , being the more sociable of the bunch, and we had a bbq and played outdoor games, it was a lovely day. M an... (1756 words)

I want so badly to move past our past, but I don't know how to forgive and forget.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

1 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a bit long, but I need help.. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly two years; I am 25 and he is 24. We went through long-distance for eight months and then he moved away from friends, family, a job he loved, and his home town to be with me in a state acros... (1530 words)

I can't forget a guy I met online 4 years ago...........

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

1 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - So I met a man online who lives maybe 20-30 minutes from me in 2010. The first time we chatted we chatted for 6 hours. We chatted everyday for 4 months but it was in the 5th month things went sour. I wanted to meet him badly but I had lied to him about the pictures I sent him ... (417 words)

Boyfriend got drunk and didnt come home last night...how do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

1 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - OK so I hope someone can help me. I've been going out with my new boyfriend for about 3,months and he has treated me wonderfully up until now. As it was Halloween I had gone out with my friends while he went out with his. We went out seperatly ad he lives about half an hour ... (369 words)

Do I have a chance? In love with my friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

1 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - so my problem is this i have met a guy on a dating site we had one date he said he liked me but hes not ready for a relationship yet so we agreed to be friends (we both came off the dating site) we have met up as friends and its like we have known each other a long time, he ... (191 words)

He's broke. I'd like us to live together. But financially I'd have to carry him. Is living with him going to end in tears?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

1 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 35 and my boyfriend 33. We've been together 3 years but don't live together. He lives with his parents. I want us to live together but the problem is that he's broke and just finally got a steady job 3 months ago where he makes 3 times less than me. Just my rent is $1,6... (130 words)

Do guys go to bars and clubs only to get laid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

1 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it true that guys go to bars and clubs only to get laid? I just talked to a guy, a friend, and he said that the only reason he goes out is to get laid that night. He said, it's the cheapest way to have sex when he wants it and the fastest, because around 2 am girls drank... (218 words)

How do I stay strong and not go back to the married man I left?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

1 November 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I have ended my relationship with a married man, he said that his wife and him had stopped having sex many years ago and that he wouldn't leave her because it meant he would not be living with his kids anymore so I went.The trouble is he keeps texting me saying how he misses me ... (80 words)

I don't Identify as gay. She is not gay. I do have a major crush on her. I need help to try to understand my huge crush on this girl, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

1 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been wanting to ask this question for almost two years now. I would so appreciate any advice on this matter omfg. I'm a 17-year-old girl and have had a thing for one of my juniors - also my favourite junior - for about two years now. It's not just a "thing" any long... (549 words)

I cheated my girlfriend and she found out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

1 November 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I've been dating my girlfriend Karen for two years, I'm 24 and she is 23. But about a month ago, I did the worst possible thing I could've done, I cheated on her with her best-friend Eva (not they real names). I knew that Eva had a thing for me, and I really like her too. ... (305 words)

Is my husband bi-polar?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

1 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Does my husband have a form of bi-polar? I have been married to my husband for 12 years. We have 2 children. We've been through some rough times as my husband is very moody and has a negative and anxious outlook on life. He utters threats to me when he is mad (the reason... (592 words)

My g/f confided that she is bisexual and now I'm afraid she'll leave me for a woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

1 November 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - My girl and I have been dating for about 3 months. I have never had such great feelings for anyone before. Shes just amazing and i feel lucky to have her. But anyway, everything was going well until a few weeks ago when she came out that she was bisexual. I was the first person ... (289 words)

Was he just in it for the sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

1 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear friends I need your advice. I met a guy when I went to visit my sister cause she had a baby. He was my brother in law s friends. We didn't really talk that much at that time because we didn't really know eachother. Once he left the hospital I ask my sister if he was ... (335 words)

Guys, is this a turn-off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

1 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Sometimes my vaginal discharge is very sour, very tart, like a vitamin C pill. Anyone else ever have that? Dudes, you ever notice that? I know it changes with time, it's not usually the fluid that comes with being turned on. What's it mean and is it unpleasant for dudes? Just ... (52 words)

We both like her -- do we negotiate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

1 November 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in a love triangle. I like a girl and so does another guy. Should I speak to him about it? Do I ask if he likes her? Or does that show me as insecure. If he knows I like her then maybe he will back off or fight for her? is it worth fighting over a woman? help.... (59 words)

She's not shy, she's traumatized -- how do I tell her I know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3672 days ago

1 November 2014 (M)

age - My new girlfriend is what i thought was just plain shy towards me but my sister has found out that her ex boyfreind attacked her when she went to stay at his house and that he punched her in the back when she told him that she did not feel well to have sex with him and that ... (140 words)

He's never said he loves me -- does he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

1 November 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is married and said to me that i am more than just fun to him and that if he was not married that we would be a couple and has told me that he would not know what to do if i was not in his life, my sister told me to get rid of him as she thinks that its just lies ... (116 words)

How many tears have to fall before my husband gives me a hug?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

1 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been feeling really bummed out about the way my husband responds to...well me being bummed out. Sorry to be confusing. For example today I took a big hit as I realized I missed the deadline for papers for a sizable sum of money...I had lots of dreams attached to that money ... (265 words)

I'd like to make new friends who share my values, but how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

1 November 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Aunts, So I will try to keep it short. About a year and a half ago I moved out of state. After a few months in this city (is kinda like a metro area), I met a guy(A), who I considered one of my bffs, through a dating site. Things we good until we starting meeting m... (575 words)

Does he truly love me or am I being taken for a mug?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3666 days ago

1 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for two years he moved into my place about 2 months of us being together, I told him it wasn't a good idea because it was too soon. He pretty much begged me and told me that everything would be perfect such as sharing bills, house work and told me he ... (709 words)

I've made the first move. Is he interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

1 November 2014 (F) age 41-50 - Just a little background info: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/hes-5-years-younger-do-i-make-the.html So I made the first move and started a conversation asking if he's going to dress up for Halloween. He told me about a party he went and asked me what I would do on Hall... (89 words)