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writes: I need some love advice. I am a 17 year old girl who has been in one relationship and recently one of my guy friends from school has started to show signs of attraction to me; again. We have been friends for maybe about a year or two, and we met through one of my friends which she had dated him and had warned me about him, saying he can get really clingy and obnoxious but I didn't listen and my guy friend and I dated for maybe a week and I just wasn't feeling it, so I talked with him about his feelings about me and my feelings. I said I wasn't ready for a realtionship to start up in my life at that moment, so we just went our separate ways for a while and haven't talked for a year unitl about 2 days ago. He's such a sweet, kind and quiet person and I love talking with him. He has started to message me "good morning" and "hope your day is well" messages and I can tell he's starting to show signs of attraction to me after a year of going our separate ways and I am now thinking that I am ready to be in a relationship again and just see what happens. Advice on if I should just see what happens and be in a relationship or should I blow this vision of being together off and just stay single?. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for all your answers! I have decided to give this relationship a go and just see where it takes me. :) Thank you again! :)
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reader, Xearo +, writes (1 December 2014):
You haven't really given any reasons on why you should be/stay single. If he's a nice guy and you think you are ready then go for it. Life is short already, don't waste it and later regretting, wondering if you should have when you had the chance.
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reader, Online Counsellor +, writes (30 November 2014):
Hi
It sounds like you are feeling more ready to 'be in a relationship' for me the most successful relationships are the ones which just happen, if you are both open to it, then where is the problem.
Wishing you a wonderful experience, and remember even if you don't have a relationship, what a beautiful friendship to have.
Best wishes.
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