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writes: Hi everyone. Need some advice. I'm a 45 year old woman from Britain. Divorced mum of 2. Recently things in my life have been a bit upside down for me. It started about a year ago, met a lovely man, we was friends and then we started dating, when I first met him he had just come out of a messy relationship but he left the relationship just after his second son was born. Now we are dating, his ex has become a complete phsyco, she never leaves him alone and she tried to add me on facebook.This isn't my only problem,he's moving too quick for me and it feels like a rebound relationship, all the signs are there, he is absolutely showering me with gifts, gave me a set of keys for his car and his flat and just the other day he dropped the hint that he got me a ring and he's got a plan for Christmas, he started calling me wife in his texts and just recently he started talking about children (I'm too old and past that) we have only been seeing each other for 4 months. I'm starting to think I can't be with this man anymore but I also have feelings for him and I'm not sure if they are as serious as his. How can I end this or what could I do to help him see that he is moving too fast. I already hinted to him it was all too fast. Help.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (30 November 2014):
 Yeah DEFINITELY moving too fast. And I would tell him. The thing is I think he is trying to create some "perfect relationship" in his head and is forgetting that there is no such thing as a "perfect relationship".
I'd sit him down and tell him straight out that you feel he is RUSHING it. And I would do it sooner rather then later, in case he really IS considering proposing.
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