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Archived questions from: 23 September, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I bring it up in a conversation to ask if he's married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

23 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - On Saturday, I went to a club and danced with a guy. Since I was there with my friends, I didn't want to come back with him but I gave him my number and told him to meet me after. He said he needed to take his buddy back so it was perfect. Long story short, we had sex and I... (514 words)

Don't want to lose my friends but I really like this guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

23 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I have been friends with this boy for ages now, and I have started to have a massive crush on him. People say he would be good for me, but they never say if he has told anyone he has a crush on me too. I have got a bad reputation with boys. I have never had a boyfri... (134 words)

Does anyone know what guys really want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

23 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Just a quick question, male and female answers welcome! It's just that there are sooo many do's/don't with dating/relationships and they all seem to contradict each other!! Mainly, I always maintain my independence with guys to 'give them space' but on the other hand, I've been ... (102 words)

He says he loves me, then says I'll be amazing for someone else ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

23 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been talking to this guy for a while now, we want to take things slow but he says things that make me feel like he doesn't want me. I'm left confused about the situation and I need some clarity. Last night he told me how much he Loved me. He said that I was the most... (262 words)

Do I ask her before I touch more intimately?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

23 September 2013 (M) age 41-50 - Dear all, I am very inexperienced with women, although I do currently have a lovely girlfriend who I love and adore so very much. We've been intimate with touching each other, but I just had to ask how touch can be taken further? I massage my girlfriend's back, run my fin... (117 words)

My boyfriend says "don't get used to me doing things for you" and then does nice things. What am I supposed to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

23 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, So I got into a tiff my boyfriend..earlier during the date he said 'don't get used to me doing things for you' and I don't know why he would say that when I don't make him do anything.. He never lets me pay when we go out infact when I do he gets offended... (166 words)

Is it against the law to save photos from facebook?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

23 September 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I have taken to saving pictures of girls in my class wearing bikinis from Facebook or Twitter. All I want to know is if it is first of all legal and secondly if its creepy to do so. I've never shown anyone this and nobody knows I do it. I am perfectly happy to delete them if I ... (62 words)

I found out husband is taking viagra. Is he lying to me about the reason?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2208 days ago

23 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband is way. I found he took some Viagra with him. I asked him why did he need it? He said he need it when he feel like to have a sex and he will do it by himself with out any partner? I don't believe him.To you, it is a case? And do you think he is true-full to me? If ... (69 words)

Wife improves behavior but I cannot love her again

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

23 September 2013 (M)

age - My wife was abusive to me and our kids for over 10 years. She did many horrendous things, including verbal abuse, lying, manipulation, and, in general, not expressing any love to me and our kids. We talked about these things over time, but she was not able to change. Our ... (564 words)

But why won't the next man suffer for my last relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

23 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - When most men that are approaching me seems to be using the same line the last one used to get me. I am a very successful young woman. A Christian, Community organizer, ambitious with awesome career since out of high school. My last relationship really have made it bad for ever... (223 words)

Everything seemed to change once we got engaged

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

23 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just gonna engaged in May.. I have known him since 2007. We have been good friends since then. I have never noticed his presence in my life. I always end up with different guys and run to him crying confiding to him my breakup stories. He has always been there for me ... (233 words)

Any tips on coping with body issues/insecurity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

23 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Any tips on coping with body issues/insecurity? In a couple months, I will be seeing a man I haven't seen in almost 20 years. We have been chatting a lot online, and I'm pretty sure his visit will be a romantic one. I'm anxious because I'm not happy with how I look. I'm v... (156 words)

Asking a guy out over facebook- urgent help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

23 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I want to send a fb message to this guy who I was studying with (our course is over, as of last week). I was intending to make a move last week, in person, but never got the chance. So now I'm resorting to facebook even though I know he doesnt use it much. But I need ... (183 words)

He didn't celebrate my birthday. Am I overreacting if I break things off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

23 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for about a month now. As far as I know, we have been seeing each other exclusively. Things have been going well this far until my birthday yesterday. I had a birthday dinner with friends scheduled for the day before my birthday (Saturday night). My ... (161 words)

My boyfriend believes I don't know how to act in social situations.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

23 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years now, and in the last few months he's been making comments that have made me think he is getting annoyed at the fact I am quite shy. I've always been that way - I was seriously shy as a child and now I can still be a l... (581 words)

Do I text her or message her online? or is this weird, help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

23 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Was wanting to ask sthing... Ive been messageing a woman online for a few wks, shes only after fship, which is ok, i really need new friends. We seem to get along ok online, we decided to meet for coffee, public place, have seen each others photos etc.. initially i ... (250 words)

I think he's gay but he has a girlfriend. I want to tell him I am gay.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

23 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello there. I have a problem. recently I've really started to like this guy at work but hes going of to uni till December. The problem is I'm gay and I and lots of other people think he is but he has a girl friend. I'm ok with that because i really do think he is ... (172 words)

How do I deal with an extremely moody boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

23 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I deal with an extremely moody boyfriend? I've been with him for 4 years (he is 25, I'm 27) and he has always been moody but it's getting harder and harder to deal with these days. For example we have just returned from a trip abroad to see his parents, and I'v... (248 words)

What's the deal with ALWAYS making dates and then not going through with them?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

23 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, so about 2 weeks ago I'm in the grocery store and this girl is checking me out. It occurs to me to hit on her, but I ultimately don't. On my walk home, the same girl pulls up beside me and starts chatting me up. She tells me I'm perfect, cute and funny, that she never ... (276 words)

Am I the only one feeling this way? Does he miss me too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

23 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with this guy for only a little over a month. We were very close and bonded very well. But he felt I was insecure and kept pushing him away when he was trying to get to know me better, therefore he decided to cut off completely. It's been two months since, and I still ... (115 words)

Normal or potential abusive boyfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

23 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Ive been dating my boyfriend lets call him ''bob'' for three years. During the time we've dated i've noticed he can be very possessive and controlling. He is this way about my best friends, what i eat, make up, decisions about our relationship, and my hobbies. When ... (315 words)

Why do I break condoms?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

23 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Why is it that I break condoms regularly. It happens about 20% of the time which is very often considering I'm very sexually active. It's very concerning to me as usual hookups that are supposed to be pleasurable end up in paranoia and fear of catching a disease. I use the magn... (82 words)

I feel like my wife settled with me and its really bothering me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

23 September 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok here is my story. I met my wife 14 years ago. She was 19 and i was 28. I met her through a friend. She had a daughter and i had 2 daughters from previous relstionships. The first time I met her I asked her what she thought of me and she said I was "ok". I was coming off a ... (702 words)

Is he cheating or just really busy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

23 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello ok I had met this guy who is younger than I am, he is 31, I am 40. He seems like a nice guy and we would talk on the phone pretty much every day. He also kept bugging me about when I would take the Greyhound to meet him. I kept putting it off because things would come up ... (173 words)

I'm seeing another side to my boyfriend after moving in together. Should I stay in this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4054 days ago

23 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, so I have been dating this guy since January and we really hit it off well, never fight, never argue, and always have a good time. We always say things like we'll spend the rest of our lives together as well, so I am extremely invested in him. We both recently started ... (519 words)

How can we become closer while not being physically together ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

23 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I were dating for a year before I moved to another city a month ago. I have never been in a long distance relationship before but he has. He and his ex use to watch tv / movies on skype multiple times a week when they were dating, and still do now sometimes. He ... (112 words)

I fantasize about my man with other woman and it turns me on but then I feel jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

23 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I sometimes when I'm alone I play with myself thinking of my man having sex with another women yet I'm a real jealous person! at the moment I'm turned on and bring it up and am really turned on then after I get hurt mad jealous! Why?... (49 words)