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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She rejected me because of the distance, but is still texting me, even after she is dating someone else, why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

20 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was wondering what people make of this. About two years ago I met someone when out at a bar. There was immediate attraction, and I thought she was too good for me. Then I found out she felt exactly the same about me. So much so we went on three dates in one weekend. ... (498 words)

Boyfriend's mother is dying and says he is letting me go.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4119 days ago

20 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - so my recent boyfriend of the last two months told me that he thinks i should move on because he has a lot going on right now with his mom's failing health. I don't mind being there for him regardless of how much he has going on. What should I do? What can I do? I love this ... (59 words)

How can a man say we will always be great friends, then he loves me in the same breath?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

20 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all! I am a 43 year old woman who, (after 2.5) years of being single, have met a 46 year old man who is a wonderful match for me. We laugh, and have a killer intimate relationship... We've been seeing each other for about 4.5 months now, however, he keeps talking ab... (152 words)

What does it mean when a girl needs a cigarette after sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

20 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - What does it mean if a girl said right after sex: "after this I definitely need a cigarette". We met last week and had sex for the 1st time last night. Does it mean she enjoyed it? The issue is that she hasn't called or responded to my text. Thanks... (54 words)

Could he be serious or is he a catfish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

20 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've signed up to a dating site, had some replies - actually 4, and one looked interesting. How do I know it's not a "catfish" though? The profile looked very natural, and had a [state].gov email address mentioned in his profile, along with photos that were natural - not ph... (171 words)

Do I pursue this girl who has a boyfriend living faraway?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

20 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So there's this girl... She's 17 about to turn 18 and I'm 21...not that this is an age related question, I just thought I'd throw that info in. We went to school together but we never really talked, she was shy then. We started talking like two weeks ago out of the blue and... (188 words)

During our break, my ex sexted with a girl. What to do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

20 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently got back together with my ex boyfriend, however I found out that he has been sexting his ex before me the whole time we were apart. What to do now? ... (32 words)

How do I act around my ex? I still love him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

20 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and I broke up after a fight and mostly because he said that I have jealousy problem and feelings are in the middle. Both of us cried during the breakup. We had minimal contact . After 2 months, we met up and ended up having sex. I haven't talked to him since, ... (79 words)

How Do I Keep the Upper Hand Whilst Trying to Reconcile With My Ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

20 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am trying to navigate the waters of reconciliation with my ex of 2.5 years. It's been really frustrating for me because he sends a lot of mixed messages and does push/pull a lot. I have a gut feeling that he still loves me but he's afraid of a serious, committed relationship ... (627 words)

I am scared to leave him after he said that he would kill himself.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

20 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - im in need of advice. i been with a guy for over 6 years and is been a roller coaster, i sometimes was happy sometimes wasnt, we dont live together but that was the plan to move in together, we met in new york but his choice of living was florida orlando to be exact, i did the ... (272 words)

Can't stop thinking about the ex even though I'm with someone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

20 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend for 5 months now and things have been going okay. However I can't stop thinking about the last man I dated. We didn't even date for long but during that short time it was really really amazing. I felt like he had a lot of qualities that I really look for in a... (366 words)

How can I marry him when his psycho mother is part of the package?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

20 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my fiancé for 3 years and we have a baby daughter together the only thing I can't stand is his mother. Mother in law watched the birth of my daughter against my wishes and tries to take over with my daughter (buys milk and nappies) cuddles her for hours and ... (286 words)

Is giving up on my crush the only choice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4119 days ago

20 September 2013 (M)

age 22-25 - I am In Love with a girl in about 3 years. I've tried to tell her my feelings but she refused. Few mouths ago, another boys is crushing on her, and it looks like giving up is my only choice, what should I Do?... (46 words)

How can we shake things up in the bedroom without him getting offended?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

20 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my partner are engaged and we have a 3 month old daughter together. We are best friends and generally very happy but I'm just not getting as hot for him in the bedroom as I used too. It's taking me an hour to climax and he can't get me wet at all so we need to have lots ... (255 words)

Burdened under high expectations.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

20 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 37 year old self made married man with wife and kid. I had a poor living and have been fulflling all responsibilities since years without any expectations and demands even from my wife. Result of this everyone including my wife and others have high volume of ... (117 words)

Moving my boyfriend into the house I own - what is the best way to split the bills?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

20 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. My boyfriend and I want to move in together. I own, he rents. If he moves in with me what is the best way to split the bills if we earn about the same but he has child maintenance for 1 child which I don't have. Thanks for the advice.... (51 words)

Was I right to block this potential scammer? What should I look out for in the future when meeting men online?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

20 September 2013 (?) age 51-59 - I had been on a site corresponding with a guy who is possibly a scammer. His messages were removed due to spam and this guy has had 3 different usernames and his story has changed. First he said he is a widower and has raised a son by himself, then he says he is looking for ... (230 words)

Is the guy I like playing hard to get?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

20 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! I really like this guy in my school. He recently found out about my depression I had before. This happened because my friends were just causally talking about it. My friend told her best guy friend which is best friends with the guy I like. I know, confusing right? ... (153 words)

Dating a wonderful guy who makes me happy. Why am I pulling away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

20 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship with a wonderful guy for 5 months.. Suffice to say he keeps me happy but that's not enough..I'm attracted to him, we can make out for hours but I don't think he's the most good looking or I find what he wears appealing! I've told him indirectly "wear... (128 words)

This guy seems to know too much about me -- could he be tracking my online activity?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

20 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I was wondering if there is anyone on here who knows enough about computers to tell me something. How easy is it for a person to track your IP address? I ask because I suspect someone of doing it to me. He doesn't know me very well yet seems to know too much about me. M... (109 words)

Should I be worried about his girl best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

20 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a little aggravated with my boyfriends girl best friend. So my boyfriend and his girl best friend has been friends way before we started dating. They hangout or see each other every other day or every day. She has told him she likes him but he told her he didn't feel the ... (359 words)

Keeping A Secret From This Guy... Not Sure What To Do...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

20 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a guy that I been talking to for over a year now. He is simply amazing: funny, sweet, caring, and easy on the eyes if I might add. *grins* We aren’t boyfriend or girlfriend but there is a definite mutual attraction there. We also live over a 1,000 miles apart. We IM each ... (797 words)

Am I asking for too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

20 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to get this out of my system. This may seem weird to some people but I would prefer a nonjudgmental point of view. I have always wanted a boyfriend that was a little clingy/jealous/possessive. Why? Because it really really really sucks feeling like I'm the only one ... (332 words)

Why does he not want to talk to me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

20 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, long story short; I had a brief relationship with a man who lived quite a way from me, we'd see eachother now and then but were crazy about eachother, it was very cute, romatic etc. We called it a day when things were getting a little difficult but remained friends. After ... (141 words)