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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Last resort with distant boyfriend. Please help!! Need *all* the advice I can get!!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

9 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone! Let me start off by apologizing for this long post and giving many thanks to everyone who reads it. xx I really need some helpful advice to pull my boyfriend back to me. I'm 31 and my boyfriend's 35. We've been together for 3 years but don't live together. W... (914 words)

I thought I was bi, but could I be a lesbian?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

9 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ever since a young age I have always believed that I was bisexual but after having my first few sexual encounters with men, the tables were completely turned. I felt absolutely nothing, I wasn't turned on in the slighted way. I was even imagining in my head that he was a woman ... (231 words)

Broke up with ex 4 months ago and still not completely over him. How do I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

9 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I was with my ex for 5-6 months, are relationship was dysfunctional and based pretty much on lies, and even though it was absolutely terrible, i'm still ashamed to admit I am not %100 over him. We have been apart for about 4 months now, we have ... (570 words)

OCD with temper issues...is this a relationship worth saving?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

9 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - im in a new relationship with someone who has a past of abuse from an ex, she also has ocd quite bad with a short temper but refuses to get help as she says shes okay. shes now asked me to come off a social network site that i only use to contact friends im not a strong user of ... (113 words)

Body dysmorphic disorder

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

9 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So my problem is I am ugly....I have spent lots of money on therapy for BDD (Body dysmorphic disorder), but it just seems that a duck is a duck. I am ugly and that's that, but I feel like I'm gorgeous. So I'm a duck that thinks its a swan...any advice on how to deal with this ... (89 words)

I don't feel comfortable meeting my boyfriend's family because I'm bisexual

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

9 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always known I was bisexual since my early teens, and I have had two relationship with women. My parent's and I fell out due to this, so I haven't spoken to them in five year's. I'm currently seeing a really nice guy who I'm falling for heavily. It's only been a few mo... (236 words)

My baby's dad threatened to make me miscarry, yet now his family wants to see my 5-year old son!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

9 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i have a son who is nearly 5 his dad never wanted him and has paid nothing towards him now his family are hassling me asking to see him he was awful with me and i had to get police onto him as he was threatening to make me miscarry do they have any rights thank you ... (58 words)

On again off again girlfriend read texts in my phone to another girl and now she's not speaking to me! I want her back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

9 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I don't normally do this , but I'm in bits ... I'm 36 I'm seeing my GF on and off for about 6 years, we've broken up and made up numerous times, the latest event we got back together in June after a split of 8 months, everything was going well until Friday last (6th sept) ... (154 words)

Why do I still feel angry at my boyfriend for events that occurred in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

9 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I would like to know if it is normal to still be angry with my boyfriend. We have been together for 4 years, we don't live together but spend time at each other's homes. We have had a lot of problems, at one time it was him drinking to much then it was a financial ... (151 words)

I feel sort of pressured into having sex. Should I do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

9 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I've been with my boyfriend for a few months now, and we've arranged to have sex, but I'm not too sure we should just yet since I am still a virgin, I've told him that I don't think I'm ready and he's fine with that, but I sorta feel pressured into it. Any help?... (56 words)

Whirlwind romance with my Portuguese boyfriend but he's going to ruin it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

9 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm worried my boyfriends jealousy and moody behaviour around other people will destroy our relationship, which aside from this issue is the best I've ever had and I would be devastated if it all goes tits up. Sorry if this is sleep-inducingly long, but I wanted to get in the ... (742 words)

Why did my sincere love for her wind up with me in such pain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

9 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I think have posted abut my problem many times but this one is different related to my Ex American wife. I met here through internet and she came to Pakistan and we married here. She applied for spouse visa for me in the US and close to my interview . We had fight over the ... (236 words)

He's become distant, why do you think that is in my case?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

9 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and recently he asked me to move in with him. I told him I wasn't sure because he spends most of his time with his friends and I don't want to move in to basically live myself (I've posted about this before). When... (216 words)

A one-night stand resulted in a pregnancy and the entire situation has just wrecked my relationship! What do I do now?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

9 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid me and my ex have been through some hard times in the past few years and it was my fault for not putting enough into the relationship. We split in march and in june I had a one night stand as I thought I could not get her back due to my actions. I immediately ... (245 words)

Who takes off the condom after sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

9 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I've been sleeping with my boyfriend for a few months now, and we always use a condom. Thing is, it kind of gets awkward when it's time to remove the condom. After the act, I always remove the condom for him and wipe the mess off of him and clean up mys... (78 words)

Should I see this meeting as a date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

9 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - A few years back I worked closely with a girl for a couple of months and developed feelings for her. I never acted on them, as I had dated her friend previously and also happened to be her direct superior and thought making a move would be inappropriate. She ended up going to ... (304 words)

Maybe a bit of anger would help me stick up for myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2490 days ago

9 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This might sound like a weird question but I feel like I CANT get mad at my boyfriend. We will get in fights and he will have done something where I will be mad at first but then throughout the fight he somehow convinces me that I am in the wrong. I used to then stupidly ... (190 words)

I'm terrified that I'm going to come off the wrong way or say the wrong thing and someone won't like me. I know it's silly and that not everyone in the world is going to like you but I just worry.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

9 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's the thing; I'm not exactly what you would call a social butterfly. I am however more like the caterpillar in its cocoon that evolves into a butterfly. By that I mean I'm very shy, but once I am friends with someone, I can talk and talk for hours and hours. But the only ... (804 words)

Ex back in contact -- any way to tell if he's sincere?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

9 September 2013 (F) age 30-35 - Me and my ex have been separated for two years, he contacted me a year after I didn't want to know, a year later I added him on Facebook. He said he was happy to hear for me and doesn't want to break contact again, then endlessly apologised for his behaviour in the months ... (186 words)

Asexual or not, either way help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

9 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I am about to turn eighteen and have been questioning my sexuality for awhile now. I have had only 3 relationships in my life, one i am currently engaged in, and the previous two have ended because i showed no intent on a sexual relationship with them. I have found myself not ... (155 words)