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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why would you women wear a ring on your wedding ring finger if you aren't married?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

7 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Totally confused over here right about now......... I like a woman who I thought was married because she wore what looked like a wedding ring on her wedding ring finger. At first I thought it wasn't, it looked too plain not a band type ring then I looked again and it did... (142 words)

Is it just the distance or are my instincts right that he's two-timing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy a few months ago while on vacation, he lives 6 hours away, but we exchanged numbers, and agreed on being friends, which obviously didn't last long. I feel very drawn to him, which doesn't happen very often, and never so quickly. I can deal with the fact that he is ... (128 words)

How many times is it reasonable to try making it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there ever a time to just walk away, no matter how much you want a relationship to work, no matter how much you love them? Basically, I met my on-off boyfriend nearly 8 year's ago. We dated for 3 months then we ended things as I moved away, my dad was promoted and ... (404 words)

How long do you give someone after their break up before you ask them out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, How soon would you say it is to inadvertadly hit on someone after they have broken up with their ex? I like someone who has come out of a long term relationship (no children or marriage) but I'm unsure how long to leave it before suggesting going out? Admitt... (123 words)

Slept with my best friend's brother -- do I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay I'll tell the story: My best friend of 12yrs invited me 2 stay with her while her parents where on a 'romantic break for 2'they wer cool with it and all. I have also known her older brother 12yrs aswell and I'd say we were friends. Anyway my friend metioned a few weeks ag... (183 words)

The girl that rejected me keeps contacting me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

7 September 2013 (M) age 30-35 - There's this girl I had "something" with from around early May to mid July. We kissed and stuff, we went to the movies, we hanged out a lot, she'd text me almost every day, but we didn't even have sex. I asked her to be my gf and she told me no or was pretty unsure, and her ... (599 words)

I like giving pleasure to my boyfriend but I don't like receiving and I think this hurts him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4123 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend used to get sexual fairly often, but we have not(and will not until the future) had sex with each other. I enjoy it, but for some reason i just haven't really wanted to lately. it has nothing to do with him, i find him very attractive and I love him very ... (152 words)

I feel like we're not trying as hard as we were at the start of the relationship and I'm worried things will fizzle out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4123 days ago

7 September 2013 (M) age 26-29 - You know that saying "Don't stop doing what you did to get her when you finally get her?" I feel like that's what has happened and I'm struggling to fix it. My girlfriend and I started dating at the beginning of the summer and it was great all summer. Now that school started ... (241 words)

I like the look of my friend's brother but haven't met him. How can I go about making contact?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a best friend at school.We haven't seen each other for ages, but we still keep in contact on facebook sometimes. She has a brother. I feel like I fancy him!. I recently saw a video of my friend with her brother on my friend's facebook page. I hadn't seen what her brother ... (178 words)

My LDR boyfriend doesn't like that I had lunch with male colleague and accepted chocolate from him. Am I in the wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I'm in a LDR with my boyfriend of 4.5 months..at the place I work I have been friends with this guy..we have been given the same assignement so we work together! We go out for lunch together as a group but today everyone was busy so just the 2 of us went and my b... (145 words)

Serendipity after a summer camp. Not Quite!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy at a church Summer Camp I volunteer at every year. He was coming from another state on a mission to help in the camp. We talked a lot during camp and when he left he gave me his phone number. We spoke a bit on Facebook but not too much. Suddenly, after a bit of n... (341 words)

I feel I made an inappropriate comment on a date and that it might have put the guy off

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I went on a date last week with a guy and made an inappropriate comment. I mentioned it being lady's night and the ticket would be less expensive. He said, "you're saved" and I said, "not me, you." He began to laugh but more like a damn haha laugh. I want to explain that my ... (187 words)

I'm dating my half brother's half brother. Are we related? Is this wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am dating my half brothers half brother.my half brother and I have the same mother but different fathers but now him and my boyfriend have the same father... is it wrong? are we related? please help. however, my mom will never accept it!... (44 words)

Can I assume every guy going to a gay bar is gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

7 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 26, and have recently tried to go to a gay bar alone, but don't spend too long there, because I'm not very confident going there, but I suppose it's the only real way to meet other gay people in my semi-rural area. Where I live there isn't much of a gay scene so I can't ... (289 words)

Friends with benefits, but he has a girl-friend and he doesn't care about her. Any opinion on these signs that he may like me?Thank you

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4123 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - HI, there is this guy i used to like and i told him he didn't pay attention and so on, this was like 5 years ago. And he was a major womaniser. Anyway, so i started dating this guy and he started dating this girl, and this guy who i liked his name is M, so me and M got together ... (643 words)

I've fallen for my best friend's boyfriend. She treats him horribly and he wants to leave her for me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4123 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend got her first boyfriend 5 weeks ago. And, unfortunately in that d weeks I've fallen for him.... Not on purpose though! We've been best friend for 10 years but she always made me feel worthless, she treat me like a slave and talked behind my back. I had no other ... (218 words)

Used to like this guy, and now we are great friends, does girl/boy friendship exist? Advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4123 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, There is this guy i used to like 3 year ago. We got together, as in kissed, and later on we realised there is no point and honestly i do not think he liked me enough. So, we didnt speak for few months i would say and then we started hanging out very often. And now we are ... (227 words)

How to deal with girl always staring at me at work.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4123 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - What is this girl's problem? I actually hate her.? I got a new job a few months ago and the girls I started all became really good friends and left me out and they don't speak to me at all but that's okay with me cause I love my job and the mangers like me and I ... (226 words)

I'm finding it very hard to deal with an unplanned pregnancy. Counselling service didn't help at all, and my fiancé's mother is overbearing.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4099 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out I'm pregnant and it's unplanned. My fiancé is happy. I tried to go to counseling to a major clinic. All their contacts were on holiday, except one, who had the audacity to charge me $300 to tell me he couldn't help me! Should I complain? This was quite ridiculious ... (115 words)

I need my personal space but my fiancé wants to come with me when I go out. How can I get the space I need?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I live in the city with my fiancé, in a cramped apartment with other people. There's not much personal space. Sometimes I just want space to myself. If I go out my fiancé usually wants to come too. What to do? I'm a bit of an introvert and the apartment is very cramped. ... (53 words)

My girlfriend acts more sexual than she is!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4123 days ago

7 September 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - One of my girlfriend's friends is the type of person that likes to sleep around a lot. Every weekend she usually hooks up with someone. When I hear my girlfriend talk to her about it, my gf always seems so happy/proud of her and that it is a normal thing. But when we are ... (155 words)

Will working keep him off those websites looking for random sex? Should I leave or stay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4123 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. Been with my fiancee for a lil more than nine years. We have a four year old son together and have been living together practically since we met. We have set wedding dates and changed them several times over the years. One of the reasons it was postponed is ecause he ... (260 words)

Am I just someone she wants to talk to? Does she like me? Any ideas of what is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4124 days ago

7 September 2013 (M)

age 22-25 - There is this girl who I have known for a while and we have become pretty close over the last few weeks. We have been fooling around (joking around) with each other during lunch lately. She seems to make any excuse to make some contact with me. She recently broke up with her ... (140 words)

Teenage love, I learned he's a boy whore but that doesn't seem to stop me from loving him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4123 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hi I am a 18 year old girl. I have this problem with this boy. A boy and were talking for a long time kinda on and off, I let people know I was talking to him so everybody wanted to see what he looked like. come to find out he started talking to supposed to be friends of mine. ... (174 words)

He's looking at porn on his phone instead of being in our bedroom with me dressed all nice and sexy! Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - my fiance watches porn everyday every chance he can while i am in our bedroom dressed all nice and sexy (so i thought) waiting for him.when it foednt hapen i be all sexy makin a move on him but he always says he doesnt feel like it but yet i find porn on his phone round bout ... (79 words)

My vagina is so wet I'm starting to dislike sex. Advice please!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4123 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 31 and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We have sex on the regular but I get so wet, that it's turning me off and making me NOT want to have sex with him. I'm wet, all the time, even when I'm not horny and just walking through Walmart. Right now, as I type this, my ... (362 words)

How do I tell my mother why I don't come to see her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4123 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend, Mason and I have been together for 8 months now. He's 26. I'm 22. I'm constantly at his place because I feel that it's so convenient since my college is two blocks away and so is my workplace. And I like being with him. He makes me happy. My mother's been upset ... (184 words)

She doesn't seem to like me now shes single??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4124 days ago

7 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - there is this girl that I fancied for a while but I never did anything as she had a long term boyfriend. Despite this she always seems flirty with me always gigling and smiling when she spoke to me, always touching me as she walked past. Always emailing asking me questions ... (183 words)

Did he end things because he has found someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4124 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I broke up about a week ago. He said he needed space and personal time. He asked me to take his things that he had left at my house because we lived together I took his things to him he told me that we both just needed time for our self to figure out what we ... (277 words)

Why does this man act totally different to this girl when he is alone with her?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

7 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - There is this guy and girl who have known each other for years. It seems like he embarrasses her with questions when others are there, and drawing undue attention to her. But when with her alone, he barely speaks to her. It seems he has 'stolen' her friends from her. They are ... (330 words)