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writes:Was wanting to ask sthing...Ive been messageing a woman online for a few wks, shes only after fship, which is ok, i really need new friends.We seem to get along ok online,we decided to meet for coffee, public place, have seen each others photos etc..initially i suggested this thursday in a message online, which she was ok with,she messaged back saying this and included her ph number. however..i now have to work so messaged her back last thurs saying im sorry, need to work, and suggested a few other days, i didnt include my number but thanked her for hers, casualfriendly message as they all have beenits been 3 days and ive not heard back online from her, im afraid she thinks im not genuine or that im playing games by changeing the day of our meetingim not i do have to work!i dont want to look desperate or stalker like or creepy by sending a casual message tomm to ask if this thurs meeting ok, esp as she hasnt replied to my last message.what do i do? should i text her? even if ive not heard from her in nearly 4 days online? or would me texting look weird when ive not given her my number?genuine answers plse appreciated, no hate, need advicrthanks
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (23 September 2013):
 Just text her. She probably thinks it's a bit odd meeting someone and not knowing their number.
Be nice, just apologise for having to change the date but set another and tell her you are looking foward to seeing her. People hate to be mucked around at the beginning of a new friendship, they don't like 'wobbles' cos it makes them unsure about you.
If you want to meet her, there's no reason why she shouldn't have your number.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2013): this is the posteri have only mssged her online!!havent phone text her so she doesnt have my phone number
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reader, human_male  +, writes (23 September 2013):
 If you've texted her she has your number doesn't she?
What I would do is send her a message asking her to meet. Be specific with a time and place. If you don't hear from her go anyway. If she doesn't show up or reply forget her.
I don't think it's creepy or stalkery to ask her one more time.
Good luck.
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