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writes:my husband is way. I found he took some Viagra with him. I asked him why did he need it? He said he need it when he feel like to have a sex and he will do it by himself with out any partner? I don't believe him.To you, it is a case? And do you think he is true-full to me? If not why he hies to me?
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reader, 40somethinggal  +, writes (5 November 2018):
My husband takes viagra with me and alone. We have sex almost every day and it is magnificent. I seriously doubt he is cheating. He takes it when he masterbates. He does it in front of me sometimes too. It makes me horny and join him.I noticed that there are less pills than there should be. And Its because he does it when he is alone.(don't all men) The viagra makes him hard as a rock and intensifies his climax. So ask him to do it in front of you while you watch porn. See what happens. Masturbation is a very likely conclusion. Good luck girl.
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reader, GentleGiant  +, writes (24 September 2013):
You should know your husband better than anybody else.Does he take it before having sex with you? I bet he doesn't say diddly squat. There could be two other reasons. 1) He is really into on line porn and just beats his own monkey to death 2) He could have one of those sextexting things going on with another woman and the Viagra just boosts the pleasure even more 3) He has a physical relationship with this woman and just wants to stay charged up as long as he can. where does this put you in the equation? I believe you have been snowed and he is probably porking that woman someplace,somewhere you dont even know about. Confront him and make him tell you what is going on. If he wont do that pack your bags because he is beyond help when a man cannot share his inner feelings with his own wife. He doesn't deserve you and you deserve better. Do not be anybody's fool .Good luck......
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2013): It is suspicious, but not incriminating on its own. Lots of guys as they get older can still get an erection without ED drugs but the ED drugs do help and make things better. If he is taking an ED drug while away then he may also be taking it at home. He may have just been be embarrassed to tell you. Or he could be intending to cheat like the other people suggest. Its hard to know. It would surprise me if he was taking and ED drug while he is away but not ever taking it at home, cheating or not.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (23 September 2013):
 I don't believe him either, UNLESS you know that there is a medically diagnosed reason that he was legally prescribed Viagra. Was ED an issue between you two, and he went to a doctor's appointment and was diagnosed and then prescribed it? Is there a known underlying reason why he is unable to achieve an erection, such as a side effect from another medication or something like chemo or radiation treatment?
Other than that, the vast majority of men who use Viagra for sex because of psychological reasons actually get an easy erection while masturbating.
Does he use Viagra when you don't have sex together at home? That is the real question. If at home he only uses it when you're ready to go, and not every day, then it's a good bet he's not being straight with you.
However, if a doctor has diagnosed medical impotence, then sure, he could be using it for masturbation.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (23 September 2013):
 He may simply be having trouble getting an erection and doesn't want it known to you or others or he may just be curious as to how well it does. It doesn't sound all that suspicious to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2013): There is only one reason for taking Viagra, and that is to achieve an erection. I doubt if he will be having sex by himself.
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reader, C. Grant +, writes (23 September 2013):
 I've heard of men using Viagra as a masturbation aid, but I have no idea how common the practice is. I would think his ED has to be pretty profound before he would want to spend his money that way.
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reader, Intrigued3000 +, writes (23 September 2013):
 I would find it very suspicious. This is a red flag. Is this one of the many red flags you are getting? What does your gut tell you? Do you think he is being unfaithful? How long have you been feeling this way? If you have been suspicious of him cheating for quite a while, then that is a concern.
I know a lot of people won't agree with me, but if you strongly suspect he is cheating, and you want to get confirmation, then you should do some PI (investigative) work on your own or hire someone to do it for you. If you confront your husband, most likely he'll lie.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2013): I don't think he is being honest with you. If he didn't plan on having sex, he wouldn't need it. He's not having sex alone.
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