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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I think this guy I've been talking to is cheating on me! How do I handle this? Should I be mad?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

16 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm talking to this guy and I'm in college. He lives an Hour away but he went back to his original home because he's on vacation. we usually talk everyday, but when I told him I was going home he told me he wont contact me this weekend, so I can spend time with my family. ... (266 words)

What went wrong? She's been distant since I told her I stop flirting with different girls on twitter.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

16 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, i am a bit confused and i would like some advice. I have noticed a change in a female i recently met at a party about 8 months ago. because she lives quite a bit from me, we have been communicating more on the phone and on line. However, i noticed that she's bee... (243 words)

Should I date this older woman?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

16 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear all, I am really torn about this and need some objective advice (besides I am too ashamed to ask any of my friends). I will start with a quick summary about myself: I am 30 years old and had only had one relationship in my whole life. It lasted 3 years but ended quit... (676 words)

How do I bring myself to ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

16 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I can't get up the courage to ask this guy out somewhere. I guess I'm just scared of rejection. He's a super nice guy and I don't think he would embarrass me or anything, I just can't bring myself to do it. I have social anxiety which I think might be part of the problem, I ... (115 words)

All I really need to know from you is do you think he can love me if he's done that? And does he want to be with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

16 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I assume you will all tell me to get rid once youve read my question but what I really want to know is can he love me if he did this? Do you think he really wants to be with me? So ive been with my boyfriend since feb, neither of us were looking for a relationship but... (426 words)

What's up with him only wanting sex with me from behind?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

16 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend wants to have sex with me only from behind… what is that all about? ... It is comming on the fift year we are together and for last couple of years it is just that one position. From behind. I am bored, I love him very much and I can imagina all kinds of stuff in ... (174 words)

He got in touch with his immediately after we split, now we're back together and this bothers me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

16 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - About 3 months ago my boyfriend and I broke up because I felt that he wasn't as affectionate anymore, more importantly that he had started initiating contact with his ex- girlfriend. I still miss him after 2 months, so I made a move and we got back together 3 weeks ago. ... (168 words)

Am I worrying too much about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

16 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been looking for a mew job for a while and my boyfriend new this. 18 months ago an aquaintance suggested I speak to her brother who wanted someone to join his small business. I met with him that same day and he offered me a job. When I called my boyfriend that night the ... (183 words)

I told him to call me when he finds himself.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

16 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me. I'm on the verge of an extreme breakdown. I posted here a weekago, but things got even crazier. It started by my boyfriend sending a pic to his ex, and calling her beautiful, etc, I did the same after I got upset about it. I eventually called him out, he tried ... (349 words)

How do we improve our sex life after 3 years and a child together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

16 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a bit of an embarrassing problem to ask but hopefully maybe one of you can help me. I have been with the bf for nearly 3 years. We have a child together who is nearly 2. Before the child, our sex life was normal and grand - no problems - no issues. After having the ... (705 words)

Should I just move on even if I still have feelings for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

16 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - OK, there's this girl with whom I had the most tortuous, hot/cold relationship possible...we'd known each other for several years and it wasn't until the last couple of years when we were starting to look like an "ítem"...what would usually happen is that there'd be this period ... (412 words)

Everytime his parents come to visit, he goes MIA!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

16 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I am dating my boyfriend for about 5 months now! Everytime his parents come to visit or stay at his place he goes MIA(missing in action)..first off we are in a long distane relationship so the only thing that keeps us together is the phone,he'l try sneak away cal... (121 words)

How do I keep this rude and obnoxious man away from my wedding, yet still have my close friend attend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

16 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear All, I am getting married next year and I'm really happy about it. We are planning a very small, intimate wedding of about 25 people. My problem is that a couple of years ago, one of my closest friends left her husband, and started living with another man. While h... (252 words)

Isn't it an actor's responsibility to keep her partner's psyche safe?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

16 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - How do actors' spouses feel about love scenes in play or Sensual Couple Dance? Recently I had this same experience as a partner to my performer girlfriend. This was first time I saw her doing this sensual piece on stage, slow routine half in water, sensual touching, liftin... (347 words)

Am I selfish because I want to move closer to my mother and take my son?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

16 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in major conflict here and feeling very guilty because I'm not sure what to do. I have an ailing mother that lives in another state. I have several siblings and relatives that are with her, and caring for her. However, I want to be with my mother the time that she might ... (317 words)

We've been dating for 10 months and its still a secret from everyone

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

16 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with a guy for 10 months now. In the beginning everything was going great. He seemed really into me and we were getting on so well. He asked me to be his girlfriend after about 4 months of dating, sex and spending nearly every day together. I was ... (253 words)

My girlfriend has contact with her ex and lies to me about it. How do I talk to her about this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

16 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont feel hurt by her actions, just disappointed that shes lieing to my face and not telling the whole truth. I told my girlfriend that if she had contact with her ex it would break us up and its not that i cant or dont trust her its how he behaves. He will obssess over her... (865 words)

I think of my friend during sex. I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

16 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend is a guy and his name is Chris. Anyway my best friend and I almost never see each other but we talk almost every day. Sometimes i feel like he is the only thing keeping me sane and he's said the same about me. It has never been sexual between us and we've known ... (194 words)

Why does he say he feels no connection ?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

16 September 2013 (F)

age - My Bf of 1 year says he feels no connection to me. he says he is not my BF. yet we go out, have sex. We started out wrong with sex. He had a cheating GF that lived with him and since then several years of not dating. Now me.. and he says no connection. he tells me he cann... (101 words)

Can a couple where the man is broke all the time can last. ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

16 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my bf for the past 2 years. He was broke when I met him but he was still able to take me to dinner and pay for this and that. He was working hard and had lots of expenses due to school so there was a reason for not having money at all. I have a good paying job ... (178 words)

Is there ever an instance when abuse and fear of your significant other is justified?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

16 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am wondering if there is ever an instance when abuse and fear of your significant other is justified. My boyfriend thinks I cheated on him even though he knows it's not true. He bases this on my ex still contacting me(my ex loves in another country) but I am in love with ... (231 words)

Girls think I'm gay because its football season and I don't want to be involved

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

16 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - all the girls at my school think im gay because they ask me out i say no because its football season theyd get in the way how do i prove im strait. or am i just to in to football and need to get girlfriend. ... (47 words)

Why is she so quiet and boring?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

16 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently met a beautiful girl that's 10 years younger. Physically, she's perfect but she is extremely quiet on dates. It's very awkward as we never engage in conversations. We can go 2-3 hours without saying much to eachother. I try to sometimes spark conversations but I ... (203 words)

Was he put off? How can I relax into this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

16 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am still a virgin at the age of 20 which I want to change. The reason is because I was with a guy from the age of 16 until recently, and he had erection problems. In short we had a complex relationship which was not really normal. I have recently been seeing a new guy... (162 words)