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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can an affair with a married man ever end happily for the other woman?

This question has 52 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

18 September 2013 (?) age 51-59 - Hello everyone. Before I begin, I realize I am opening myself up to a firestorm of very harsh judgment, name calling and comments from Dear Cupid's advice givers and readers. Please do not judge me. We all walk different paths in life and make different choices. You will... (1216 words)

Every time I try to talk to the boy I like he runs away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

18 September 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - so there is this boy i have liked for 5 years i think he is really cute.at school i told my best friend(girl) that i liked him she told him and now any time we walk pass each other he stops and stares at me anytime i walk by him and his friends they push him towards me or look ... (106 words)

Girlfriend's depression: Am I handling it in the wrong way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

18 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend suffers from depression. sometimes it's worse than others and right now it's really bad. I'm talking to the point where she can't fulfill her daily functions. She's sleeping through all of her classes and exams and missing work. Luckily her boss and co workers are ... (286 words)

I know he loves,me he treats me like gold but I don't know how I can ever believe that he loves my physical appearance...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

18 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together about 8 months now. We take each other seriously and are exclusive. I sent a couple of sexy pics for him here and there to make him happy while at work and he wrote responses like "wow...dont be upset if I'm not saying much babe because I'm ... (209 words)

How do you just stop caring what others think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

18 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi people of Dear Cupid, I appreciate each and every one of you who take time to read this and help me out. Its not relationship problem, but I still wanted to get your thoughts and opinions. I have an odd sense of humor. I think I inherited it from my mom, because shes the... (339 words)

Is this relationship hopeless and we are just not compatible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

18 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together 7 months. Our relationship is very complicated! But we love each other. Somedays are wonderful we get along great. Then somedays we fight for days and hate each other and wanna be done I get emotional and hes an ass. He says I nag to much ... (268 words)

I'm worried about my drunk love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

18 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My name is Ishita .i m 20 years old.i am in a relationship from last 3 years.earlier my boyfriend was alcoholic at all . But after his vacation to Bangalore with his brother he has started drinking in access.he takes in 5 beers a day.which leads to his loss in studies.he stays ... (93 words)

I'm interested in a guy, and he likes me, but he had a one night stand with my friend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

18 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, would really appreciate some advice. Around three/four months ago my relationship of three and a half years started to break down. Its slowly been starting to die for the last year but I guess we didn't want to face it. Therefore when things got really bad my fr... (730 words)

Getting mixed vibes from this guy who ended things then reappeared. Any advise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) age 36-40 - Hi all, just looking for a bit of advice. Posted not so long ago as I had just started seeing a guy who had recently got out of a relationship. We met on a night out and from then he was texting me and we met up a few times. He would message every day for roughly 3 weeks. L... (333 words)

How can I tell whether this girl likes me without directly asking her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4104 days ago

18 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to this girl for a few weeks now and we are very open with each other and we get along great. But I don't know if she likes me or not and I asked her once but it was when we had just started talking. Is there any way of know that she likes me with out asking ... (73 words)

Sisters expect me to act like their mum, but now I'm expecting a child of my own. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

18 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 29 living with my two young sisters. They are 26 and 24 respectively. We lost our mother when we were young and since then I have grown up pretty fast.. I was 16 when she died. I have been there for them through thick and thin , however I think they are beginning to ta... (277 words)

Would it be reasonable for me to ask him to limit the picture of his ex to the kid's bedroom?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

18 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I would like to know how other people feel about their husbands displaying pictures of their ex-wives in their new home with their new partner? My boyfriend and I are moving in to a new place together next month. He currently displays photographs of his wife in his ... (118 words)

He doesn't want kids because he's afraid he could pass on his Aspergers

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

18 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 30, my boyfriend is 25, and we've been together for 4 years. He has Aspergers syndrome but doesnt show many of the stereotypes (well apart from "special interest" but that's also his job - ironically, he doesn't talk much about it, shifts the focus from himself to others in ... (321 words)

My b/f of 6 years cheated on me with my friend and now I have trust issues!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

18 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i am in a relation with my boy friend for about 6 years. We met in in college .He had an affair with my friend while we were together i came to know about that and told him i was disappointed because i believed him a lot, he said that he made a mistake and it would not ... (137 words)

I don't want to nag my boyfriend and keep asking if everything is ok but something seems wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

18 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. He's there for me when he is available, I can tell him anything and we are good at being level headed and not fighting with each other. I am concerned, he seems to be pulling away lately. I ask him if everythi... (217 words)

Is it ok to be jealous when his ex-lovers call?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

18 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this sounds ridiculously stupid and the answer is obviously "YES!" But, how do you guys feel about it? And what can I do to stop it. My boyfriend's ex-sex partners keep texting him. These girls are from, like, last year, and he keeps saying how he doesn't want anything... (244 words)

My boyfriend's wandering eye

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

18 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help!!! I have been seeing someone for about 9 months now and i have a problem. I was coming out of an elevator with him and there was a girl and her mom in there. The girl and her mom got out the elevator and once we got out i started to tell him a story and he wasnt... (274 words)

Two guys. Which date to cancel? Considering the circumstances?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

18 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I seem to have gotten myself caught up in a very odd situation. So, let me start off by saying that I had my boyfriend for 4 months, then we broke up, except it wasn't a clean break up. We decided to stay friends, although I only agreed to that in hopes that we'd get back ... (396 words)

Am I being too cold about males or should I be free and wild?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

18 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently 19 years old and i am single. i am very attractive as i often attract all kinds of men. i 'put myself on pause'as a result of hurt from the past. i am afraid to love and to trust my male companions. I still talk to males but whenever i am close to them i get s... (113 words)

How do I get my ex back? Or how do I move on? It's 70 days since our break-up

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

18 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Two months ago, The love of my life walked away because of my bad attitude. It's been about 70 days since I've seen or talked to him. How do I get him back? or How do I accept what has happened and move on? Its been a hard journey. All I do is constantly think about this... (95 words)

I'm shy but I want to ask him out. How do I get the courage? And it's Two days before this semester finishes. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

18 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - We have two days left at university, and I'm too shy to ask him out.. I don't know whether we will have a chance to talk, and even limited opportunity to talk one on one.. We're not friends, but we're on friendly terms.. Please give me some advice, I'm very uncertain... (74 words)

Has he lost interest? Why is he ignoring me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

18 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im so confussed :/ theres this guy that i've been dating, and everything was going good untill last weekend. hes a bouncer and i was on a night out and went to the club were he works and one of my friends wasn't allowed in so started shouting and so on. This guy and... (230 words)

In a Long term relationship but tempted by others. How do I cope with my curiosity over this temptation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

18 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear aunts/uncles I have just started college in a different city and I moved from my rented apartment which I share with my bf of six years. I love him dearly and taking on my new course was a challenge, as I had to leave everthing I knew and was comfortable with (as most co... (511 words)