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writes:I sometimes when I'm alone I play with myself thinking of my man having sex with another women yet I'm a real jealous person! at the moment I'm turned on and bring it up and am really turned on then after I get hurt mad jealous! Why?
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reader, GentleGiant  +, writes (24 September 2013):
Yes fantasies are normal and if you have a close and committed relationship you sure would be jealous. It can happen. And why wouldnt you be jealous? Some strange woman doing your special man. If I had that fantasy i surely would be pissed after. Once my head clears i dont really want some strange man working over my woman or doing her. I have put a lot into my relationship and you bet i would be jealous also. But the beauty of a fantasy is that exactly what it is. I guess i can sum all this up by saying like my grandpa used to say and it goes this way. Sometimes wanting is by far better than actually getting what you want. You can look at this in many different ways. Good-luck and keep this fantasy in your brain to yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2013): Separate fantasy from reality. And keep the fantasy to yourself and for yourself. There is no harm in that and as long as you do not bring that fantasy into reality it will all be alright.
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