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Archived questions from: 28 September, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Yells, screams and is needlessly hostile to me. How do I deal with my BF when he is like this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

28 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Needlessly hostile boyfriend, hard to deal with. I'm on my last nerve with my boyfriend, and I feel like I have no one else to turn to. We've been dating for over a year, and we're both 21. This weekend was supposed to be a good, fun couple of days with him, and yesterda... (288 words)

She's unhappy about it. Is it wrong to be in a casual relationship with a guy who has an open relationship with his Gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

28 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it wrong of me to be continuing a casual relationship with a guy who is in an open relationship with another girl, and the girl is beginning to be unhappy about it? It's nothing serious between us (though it is ongoing, around once or twice a week, and has been for nea... (241 words)

My Uncle's solution has upset me. What can I do? He wants to disappear as payback for his wife's adultery.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

28 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts i now find myself asking you for your advice on this family issue. My uncle and aunt have played a critical role in my up bringing for the first fifteen years of my life. My uncle confided in me that his wife my aunt confessed to him that she has been involved... (590 words)

Feeling confused and upset. Was the unsuccessful sex, with my housemate and friend, his fault, my fault, the alcohol, or none of that, and why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

28 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old, my housemate (male) is the same age. I've never really been attracted to him really, he's always been "just a friend" Anyhow, we got REALLY drunk a few nights ago and ended up chatting until gone 4am when we went to his room. He started kissing me, I responde... (166 words)

How do I approach and initiate a conversation and talk to my crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

28 September 2013 (?) age 26-29 - Ok, let's just make this short. Well at least attempt to make it short?? I have a crush, I see him at breakfast everyday but I don't talk to him at all. I have no classes with him so what's the point. I find it weird if I were to do that, just go up to him and say "hey" it... (208 words)

Why do men stop talking in mid sentence?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

28 September 2013 (F)

age - What does it mean when a man stops talking in mid-sentence? A few times he has stopped talking in the middle of his sentence.. I do not know if he was trying not to hurt my feelings or he was trying to keep from speaking his true feelings. i said. I wanted someone to care ... (111 words)

How do I cope with the breakdown of my parents marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

28 September 2013 (F) age 36-40 - Hi everyone, just hoping for a bit of advice. My mum has just started the menopause and now is saying that she wants my dad to move out. They have been together for over 30 years and while I admit they have had their ups and downs, I have never seen her so serious about wa... (212 words)

My new boyfriend's ex is pregnant. How do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

28 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 22 year old girl who has a 27 year old boyfriend of one month. It basically took us 3 months to actually become an item, we are so alike yet different, I guess that's why we connect, love each other dearly. Our worst fear is losing each other, but now the problem is his ... (92 words)

What's the difference between "real sex" and soft, vanilla-porn?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

28 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I have yet to be in a relationship or, as pathetic as it is to admit, have sex (mostly because - and it's not a low self-esteem thing - I'm unattractive; women aren't interested in me, never have and it seems like never will; I get it, and I'm okay with that). With that... (281 words)

Is it safe to go to a music festival alone?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4099 days ago

28 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Would you go to a music festival alone? I moved to a new city a few months ago, and haven't made any close friends yet. Since moving here, I have missed out on a few events that I've really wanted to go to, but have ended up just staying home as I haven't had anyone to ... (105 words)

How to overcome the lack of sex in our marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

28 September 2013 (M)

age - My spouse are both in our seventies and I still get the urge for sex, but because of her medical problems she's afraid to even try to have sex. She won't even let me touch her. We've been married for fifty years, it wouldn't make sense for me to leave now. Since we're both born ... (73 words)

Should I even bother trying to be friends with this guy again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

28 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Helloo. c8 So, turns out I was kinda thrown into a situation. This male once-friend of mine (let's call him Tim) asked me to the dance, and I said no, because I had a boyfriend. I hadn't told him beforehand that I did, because I don't really care much for telling people a... (326 words)

I think we're on a break. What do I do from here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

28 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have apparently went on a forced break by him, not me. We've been together for 3 years. He's 35 and I'm 31. We don't live together and would see each other once or twice a week and then spend the weekends together. We started getting annoyed with one another ... (374 words)

What advice should I give my friend about dating/sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

28 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Here goes nothing. I have a friend of my mine who is a girl that disclosed some stuff to me. We are close friends. Basically she "dated" this guy for about 3 weeks. I put in quotes because until the 3rd week - they really didn't go on full blown dates or anything. Well she ... (567 words)

How can I not be tight after having sex just once?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

28 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys! I wanna ask some advice from u. I have a first boyfriend now at my 28yrs of age. He's been my bf for a week. Then he was assigned to my area and s0mething happened to us. It is my first time to have sex in my entire life. I wanna ask why is it when he is trying to ... (152 words)

Why did my 30 years older than me coworker talk to me about his wife and kids?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

28 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't understand why we had this conversation?what do you think the meaning was. through work i've come across a worker who now i am involved with for some work. first time saw him he shook my hand and when leaving patted my back. Thats fine. Second time was sincere... (196 words)