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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I love him, but he hardly pays any attention to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a long distance relationship with someone who I've known for years. And for about a year he'd been begging to get to know me more and often told me how much he admired me. I've been hesitant because he lives in a totally different country but I was always attracted to ... (403 words)

Will it cause problems with my fellow lifeguards if I ask him out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

29 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I work as a life guard in a indoor pool and I'm very attracted to one guy who started swimming there. He is tall dark and handsome and very sociable. There is one issue though, whenever I talk to him I find myself glancing down at his body and checking him out. Oh and yes he ... (111 words)

I just want to tell him I have a crush on him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, so i've had a crush on this guy at school (im also a guy and i am gay) but the problem is i've never had an actual conversation with him. Im also pretty sure hes straight even though he hasn't had a girlfriend. My problem is that im sure he doesn' like me back but i ... (107 words)

I'm confused as to what he wants from me. I love him so much but why wont he ask me out if he claims to have these feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm confused as to what he wants from me. I love him so much but why wont he ask me out if he claims to have these feelings for me. We met a few years ago, we fell in love, he disappeared we moved on. 5 years later we met up again, and feelings came back. we have been... (631 words)

How can I contact again my ex-friend and crush and should I? I regret losing him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

29 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - It's a bit long but that's because i'm gonna try to explain things well so that hopefully you can answer accuraletly... if you could give me your opinion on it i'd be VERY grateful ! So here is the story This guy got interested in me right after we met, he chased me but i... (1210 words)

Is it normal to be scared of losing your virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't really know why i'm scared of loosing my virginity. Is it normal for someone to be scared of loosing their virginity?. Or is it just me actin in accordance to my body's tone? I just need advice. Any comment will be appreciated. Thanks.... (45 words)

How much should I dress up or make up for my FWB?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello aunts and uncles. I have a fwb with this guy who I really fancy! He knows How much I fancy him, but we both know it will not become anything more. I'm just wondering how much effort should I or shouldn't I be putting in into our sexy time? I'm terms of what I'm wearing... (187 words)

My boyfriend cheated, on top of that we are of different religions.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

29 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 23 years old and am a doctor. I am in india. I am in love with my boyfriend for 5years our relationship has been fine except for a few ups and downs . During the first year of our college my bf was dating a classmate of ours they then stopped talking i know about this. 1 ... (255 words)

He has so little time for me I feel it might be time to break it off

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - There are a couple of similar posts up here today which is what brought me to this site, but none really sum up my situation properly which is why I am posting too. I am 28 and have been with my 25 year old boyfriend for 3.5 years. He is a music teacher so works unsociable... (357 words)

I did everything for him and he wants to break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I got together this january after he constantly pestered me to get with him despite all our mutual friends advising me against it. I told him I am not looking for sex in the relationship due to my religious beliefs and family values and that it might not work ... (512 words)

Travelling helped me realize what kind of rut I was in at home

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - This has built up over the years. I am not the confident person I want to become and deserve to be; this has involved caring too much about what people think, not believing in my ability to achieve things at times, letting some things and some people get me down too easily, ... (421 words)

Going to meet my online girl and would really like to lose my virgnity with her

This question has 65 answers - newest was posted 4067 days ago

29 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - hello. i'd really like your opinions and advice on my current situation... this is going to be a bit long, but PLEASE bare with me. i am 24 years old and STILL a virgin and it's frustrating. i'm not a bad looking guy by any means. i've been told i could be a model ... (548 words)

Should I stay in contact with him after such a rocky start?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

29 September 2013 (?) age 51-59 - Okay I just recently joined another dating site. It is a little different from the ones I have been on. It is a site for people who are spiritual and are into healing. I tried it out for free for about a week and then I get a message from a guy who is around my age range. He ... (548 words)

Together for over 5 years and yet we hardly see each other. Is moving in together the best way to improve the relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I move in with my boyfriend even though we hardly see each other? We have been together for over 5 years, but due to his work schedule and social commitments, we see each other once a week at the most. I don't feel we are 'serious' enough to take this step, but he sees ... (69 words)

Vibrators - are they all penetrative?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, We've discussed vibrators and wanted to know if vibrators have to be inserted? my wife always has clitoral orgasms and is not comfortable with anything being inserted into her. Having a brief look, it looks like they need to be penetrative which my wife would not be com... (63 words)

Sex buddies forever or could there be more? I've fallen for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay... So here goes, I am current having sex ( we have done it once) with a guy.... We decided we were going to meet with each other around 14 months ago and thats how it was going to be... Since then we have texted like crazy (flirty messages and that) and we have actually ... (339 words)

Does he really take Viagra just to masturbate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

29 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in Married 15 years. I love him very much. However, I found two times he took Viagra with him when he is a way for a long trip. First time I found he took about 2 pill, this time was half of the bill. Both times, I talked to him. I asked him why does he need it when ... (184 words)

My boyfriend is flipping out because my family is here helping with our new baby!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

29 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years and just had a baby a month ago he goes to school and works and I stay home on leave, my family and him dont get along and lately my family has been up to help me out with the baby because were around 6 hours away so they ... (266 words)

I'm not sure how to tell my girlfriend I'd like to have time to spend with my friends.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure how to tell my girlfriend I'd like to have time to spend with my friends. We have opposite schedules at the moment for the most part, so she thinks I have all this free time when she isn't around when I really don't. In fact it makes me even more lonely beca... (217 words)

I am afraid that our "relationship" is more physical than emotional for him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this man for about 2 months now and am concerned where our "relationship" is going. When we first started talking I told him I was not interested in any type of relationship or fling or anything in between. Despite that we began hanging out. He is really nice, ... (657 words)

Does a person show the "real" side of him or herself when drunk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Just curious does anyone think that when a person is drunk they turn into the 'real' them?? not in a sense of sober they're nice and drunk they fight but in a sense where sober they're one way and drunk they flirt ALOT and say things that would be hurtful or disrespectful to... (130 words)