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Archived questions from: 25 September, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why do I want to hold onto my ex when he cheated and I didn't?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

25 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi and thanks My ex boyfriend and I are still communicating and I still love him but hes distancing himself from me. We broke up about 4 weeks ago and his reason for being aloof is his son is talking back to his mom. Yrs ago we were in a relationship for 7 months. I lov... (596 words)

My ex has been on my mind alot and I want to contact him. Should I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

25 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - About 3 years ago, I met a man. I'll be completely honest, things weren't always the best and by the end, I was pretty low. He broke my heart. At the time, I was at a very tumultuous phase anyway. I was finishing my undergrad and had no idea where to go next. Here it is, a year ... (302 words)

Ideas for special person stuck in hospital?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

25 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some nice ideas to do for someone close to me who has a diagnosis of terminal cancer and stuck in hospital? ... (23 words)

Boyfriend's dad has terminal cancer and we're having trouble. Do I talk to him about things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

25 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wanting to have a serious relationship chat with my bf of 6 yrs, about whether he actually wanted to be with me because he never seems that happy and thus I am never that happy. However, we've just found out his dad has lung cancer which is not curable. He has not been ... (92 words)

Crush admitted that he kissed me only because he was drunk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

25 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok I've been in love with this guy for like 2 years but he's never gown that kind of interest in me, we're just close friends - we can talk about whatever- and sometimes we flirt a little but he flirts with everyone really, anyway we got drunk at a party a few nights ago and he ... (308 words)

My date stared at me intensely all night. I mentioned it to him and he said we were too different??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

25 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been getting along well with this guy. We went on a date a few days ago and it all went well. However, throughout the date all he did was stare. Please, I'm really not big headed. But it was so intense that I became really awkward and shy. I didn't even finish my meal. ... (169 words)

My ex and I broke up and he's moved on but I feel like I'm still at stage 1!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

25 September 2013 (F) age 41-50 - My ex dumped me four months ago. He was my first and it was a serious relationship for both of us. We had no contact for 3 months until last month he called and said he missed me and needed me. I told him to move on because it was a bad breakup and he hurt me too much and I ... (273 words)

Why do some people not have stretch marks?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

25 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question about stretch marks... How come some people don't have them? i've never seen the women in a porno have them, i know the pics are airbrushed but not the videos. Does anyone here not have them? I have them and it makes me feel like a lesser :( ... (59 words)

My "friend" wont talk to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

25 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I talked with my co worker a lot- during shifts, on breaks, and after shifts. It seemed like we were heading down friendship where I got his number and we started texting and stuff. After, it seemed like we were friends, he then suddenly quits the job. Now he won't answer me ... (122 words)

Should I tell my partner that I'm ready to marry now? Or wait?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

25 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been thinking of it for quite sometime now... ive been with my partner for 9 long years but have not decided to ger married yet... well he did ask me once 5yrs ago but i told him im not ready yet since then we havent talked about it again... our relationship is stronger ... (99 words)

My boyfriend says I don't have enough experience

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

25 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend told me last night that he is concerned that I don't have enough sexual experience for him to get more serious about our relationship. He is concerned that since I have only been in one other serious relationship that I cant be ready to get that serious with him... (112 words)

Why do girls go out with swag kids who wear skinny jeans??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

25 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, too make a long story short, i am currently a senior in high school, and i have alot of pride in myself and high standards for myself, i stick out more then alot of other students at my high school, every guy wheres skinny jeans and snapbacks, polo shirts, they are ... (278 words)

"I'll love you even if we break up": why would a guy say that?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

25 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 9 months had a few drinks on Friday and said "I love you, I'll love you even if we break up". He also said he's decided he's too "selfish" to have a child. I didn't engage the conversation because he had been drinking. He knows I want marriage and a baby. ... (122 words)

Boyfriend in the army and I miss him. Do these kind of relationships work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

25 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Well the start of this month I met my boyfriend and started dating him.. I haven't seen him for three weeks. I'm so used to seeing guys that I date a lot. But I hardly see my boyfriend I'm not sure whether to feel fine to miss him or if I am stupid because it's only been three ... (176 words)