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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Guy not committed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I started going on dates with this guy in May, and we are still just going on dates. He doesn't call, only texts, to ask me out. In between I don't usually hear from him. But I can just expect him to text once a week. Consistently inconsistent. When we are out we act like a ... (203 words)

I am very broody but I think my boyfriend is scared!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, need some advice regarding having a baby. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now. We live together and have good jobs with decent incomes. I really really want a baby. The broodiness that I constantly feel is becoming overwhelming, just the o... (183 words)

Why do women gets so attached and men just seem to be able to completely forget about women? I just don't understand it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why are men so different to women? Why do women gets so attached and men just seem to be able to completely forget about women? I just dont understand it! I was seeing a guy from work for a few month! It was brilliant! So much chemistry, fun etc! I totally fell for him.... (311 words)

Lost my boyfriend and my best friend, I should just let go, shouldn't I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

11 September 2013 (F) age 36-40 - I had a few posts here and i appreciate the advice i got. This is my last post http://www.dearcupid.org/question/broke-up-with-ex-4-months-ago-and.htm Ive been reading a lot about how to move on. I kept myself busy too, but its extremly difficult when im alone. I think a... (115 words)

The spark is gone, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so im going out with my boyfriend just over a year we moved in a month after we started dating. I love him but it feels like the spark has gone. He gets on great with my family and i get on great with his. He is very funny and we have the same opinions on everything. He is ... (142 words)

How to tell my sister the disturbing news about her husband that he is player?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, I need your advice. I had disturbing news about my younger brother-in-law from a friend who works at the same place and I try to digest it. She says that he is a player and emotional seeker. According to her, she plays games to lead the girls on that he likes th... (344 words)

Do you think that me having a low self esteem is giving off a bad vibe to guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid I have never had a boyfriend, never had a guy ask me out, and have been rejected by every guy that I end up liking. All of my friends have had boyfriends except me, and I feel left out. To top it all off, the guy I currently like doesn't know I exist and the other on... (133 words)

Should I pay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So I am Back into the dating scene after I took some time off from my last relationship to recover so I went to online dating to try to find someone since I have a busy schedule. I connected with this guy and he asked me to go out for a drink so 1st date he drove near my house ... (439 words)

What do guys like during foreplay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a q: when in bed with a guy, during foreplay, as a woman what kind of things do you do to him (if you're not really into oral sex!), and for the guy what kind of things do you like? Being a woman, I know the kind of things to expect from a man - fondling breasts... (237 words)

I'm upset that he's started smoking weed again, how do I approach this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, My boyfriend used to be a fairly heavy drug user before I met him (according to him) but has not been using for almost 2 years now. He just told me that he's been smoking weed occasionally with friends, and this really upsets me. Because of serious drug and alcohol ... (206 words)

I've changed so much since I had an abortion!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I had an abortion last year march (please do not jugde me). It was a tough decision. As my boyfriend and I came from a strict family, besides I have just ended by diploma, I was jobless and my boyfriend was in the army serving the nation. There was no way that we can raise up a ... (198 words)

My fiancée won't set a date!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

11 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have known my girlfriend since high school, almost 15 years, and we have been together as a couple for almost 3 years, engaged around 1 year, we also live together and have no children yet. When I proposed she seemed happy, said yes and I agreed to wait a ... (1245 words)

How can you just not care if your partner had orgazm or not

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in my early thirties, met a guy in his late 30s. Went on a date several times and we had sex. It was so lousy that I am not sure that i want to see him again. I would understand if it was someone young and inexperienced, but he was married, now single for awhile, and at ... (481 words)

Funny dating story

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

11 September 2013 (?) age 51-59 - When I was in my twenties I went on quite a few dates. I had been meeting guys through the personal ads. I always tried to stay safe so I would take my own car to meet them. I met this guy in the mall and we never talked about what the other would be wearing so I thought I w... (311 words)

GF left me for another guy wants me back the NEXT DAY after having sex with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

11 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - gf of 1.5 yrs dumps me over txt saying she needs time to "think about what she wants". shows up 3 days later drunk on my doorstep crying admitting she F***ed some dude at her gym but it meant nothing and she wants me back. i tell her to F*** off. 3 months later i really s... (167 words)

I found out he has a girlfriend. Should I confront him or see if he'll admit to it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - about a month ago i met this guy who is 20 and i am 17. we got really well, having the same intrests and all that. so we saw each other a few times but then last weekend he had something to do which i know was true. but since then our texting and stuff has become distant so i ... (179 words)

Is it alright to date my ex's friend? I don't want to look like a floozy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated this guy for a month. Things were really intense and went really fast. We work together and when we thought management found out he ran. We had a very bad breakup. I was really upset he dropped me so fast. We fought for a while but have now been able to move past it all ... (171 words)

Does he like me or sees me as just a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3896 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - He's the outgoing and pretty nice type with everyone.And touchy too.We met in July in a summer camp where we stayed 2 weeks, though we go to the same school.I still don't know him that well, but I heard from others he treats girls in a pretty flirty way.During his dance classes ... (752 words)

I thought I had met a nice guy online but I think he was a liar. How do I forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

11 September 2013 (?) age 51-59 - I was corresponding with a guy online, we are around the same age which was good. When I read his profile he said that he was a widower and was left to raise his son by himself. He mentioned also that he is a very shy person but adapts well to others if the communication is ... (525 words)

Wasn't the sex good for her? Why did she have to start masturbating immediately after I had my orgasm?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

11 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - If I slept with a girl after our 2nd date and after a 10-minute intercourse where I orgasmed, she proceeded to immediately start masturbating and even asked me to do it for her the next 20 mins. Does it mean she didn't enjoy the intercourse or wasn't it long enough for her ... (66 words)

Is it possible that he still likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - We are both in committed relationships. Liked each other but now moved to different countries. We barely communicate anymore and we have been apart for 16months but am in love with him. I would never tell him this because I know he Is already taken and so am I. My problem is ... (189 words)

How can I deal with my looks? It hurts that strangers stare at me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Im an Average, if slightly odd looking person, Im female, im not "ugly" but am a little odd looking, Im slimish build,very pale and have long neck which I hate hate... and bony collarbones wich i always cover up, I wear glasses at times,( as I have VERY bad eyes) but mostly ... (518 words)

Why did my ex boyfriend block me from his social networking site?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex BLOCKED me from a social network site... and I don't know why? He's been an ex for a year. It was a rough breakup. He left me the day I found out I was actually pregnant. He broke up with me in a text message.... He was also my first. The pregnancy hit me hard, it ... (286 words)

My boyfriend's ex wife plays a huge part in his family life, whereas I'm ignored.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year, we recently moved in together, and I have a good relationship with his children from his previous marriage. He is 12 years older then me, and even though he is divorced and has children my family adore him. H... (472 words)

I need this drunken night passionate kiss to wear off my brain. How?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have known this guy for about 6 years. A girlfriend of mine visited me from Turkey and stayed with me in the states. I don't have details but I thought she was hoping to have a relationship with him. She is married with kids now. Out of the blue one day, he asked me out to ... (563 words)

Is it silly of me to be upset because he said he'd text me right back but 12 hours later he didn't but was on facebook making comments?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am feeling quite angry right now and I don't know if I am over reacting. My bf and I have been together almost 3 yrs we are both middle-aged, me divorced and him never married no kids. He is slow in terms of moving the relationship forward too quickly. With that said we have ... (495 words)

I'm trying no contact with my Gf. But she is anxious and acting up. How do I handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Need some advice. I am doing this program where I don't have any contact with my ex for 30 days. I am on my 20th day of NC; Well I would've been on my 28 but I decided to extend it longer. My ex has been sending me random ex, like Do I don't exits anymore?.. you are unbe... (562 words)

My friends and family are judging me for having a relationship with a man who is my mother's age

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

11 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in a relationship with a man that is much older than me. I just turned 18 and I recently met this guy that is 37 years old. He has a son that is 2 years older than me and he is not married. I strongly believe that age is just a number. All my friends think it's disgusti... (206 words)

What can I do to convince her I'll never cheat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

11 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hello all. i am in a relationship for 4 1/2 years now. i love my gf very much. ive never felt for someone else in my life. she has all the qualities i like in females. smart, calm, a good listener and a better advisor, supportive , loyal. with other words she is kinda perfect ... (384 words)