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Archived questions from: 15 September, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have trust issues and my b/f is flirty! How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

15 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'm in a new relationship and I'm very desperate for help. My boyfriend and I have been together for only a couple of months but we were 'talking' for a long time before we got together. Everything has been perfect except for the fact that my boyfriend is sor... (371 words)

How do I give up on finding love and meeting someone.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

15 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, have you got any advice for me to give up on finding love and meeting someone because I couldn't care if I ever met anyone. I know that sounds stupid being I'm only 23 but it just upset me and destroys my confidence thinking about it. It's not like I haven't tried, ... (196 words)

Why can't I bring myself to be more flirty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

15 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear all, I am posting here because I am very confused and do not know where to turn to for some advice. After a relatively long dry spell (after a tough break-up), I have come to a point where I meet plenty of ladies. However, nothing ever happens in the end as I cannot b... (716 words)

I'm struggling to find love and I'm nearly 35

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

15 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 34 (not far off 35) and my experiences of relationships are very minimal I've been in one short term relationship over four years ago, and have been on one date since. I've been on a dating site for over five years, and I've had two messages sent to me, and one of those... (826 words)

Help me read the signs here

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

15 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I'm rubbish at reading the signs! So any advice would be great! Met a boy on holiday about 10 weeks ago, he told me he really liked me, he lived in the same area as me, and wanted to meet up! I was in a complicated relationship at the time, so completely turne... (304 words)

Does FWB want more?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

15 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok.. I'm hoping someone can help... I have a kind of fwb situation going on with a guy I work with. It was him who asked me about it, as we were both single and not looking for an intense relationship, as both of us had been hurt in the past. So this has been going on for about ... (367 words)

My mother thinks I should use birth control but I disagree

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

15 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Well my mom saw my bf just yesterday but she has frequently heard about him and i that we dating. Today on the radio they were talking about how parents should oversee how their children behave. she brought the issue of taking birth control pills. i am sexually active yes but ... (121 words)

Is it normal after first time sex to hurt when you urinate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

15 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Last night I lost my virginity to my Boyfriend. I'm not in love but I felt ready and it felt right we didn't plan for it to happen, it just did. The thing is it didn't hurt as much and I didn't bleed and it lasted for an hour until he came. We then done it another two times ... (95 words)

People think we're crazy...do you think this will work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

15 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I met someone online and talked to them for about a month. I got him a job working out of town with me (he Skyped with the HR person and was hired). Since this job is 2 hours out of the city, the staff live on site. So "Charlie" came out and we met for the first time in ... (349 words)

How can I help my girlfriend sexually without pressuring her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

15 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello! I have a beautiful girlfriend who lives 200 odd miles away, and, with that said, we only get to see each other every 2-3 months. While I feel incredibly lucky to have her, she has some rather serious intimacy and self esteem issues. She will cuddle up to me on the sof... (237 words)

Shaking and sex??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

15 September 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a girlfriend i been dating for 2 years now. Everytime i see her and we get sexual i start to shake. Is this normal? I shake as though im cold but im not. Am i nervous? I dont understand how i could be i mean i been with her for 2 years and we have been sexually intimate ... (73 words)

I think my boyfriend may have adult ADHD. Should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

15 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there. I have known my boyfriend for a year. He has a son of 7. The child was diagosed with ADHD. He told me he was very upset to hear that his ex wife, when asked about the family history, had replied yes to psychological disorders from his side of the family but he was not ... (150 words)

I went on a date and he seemed bored/tired and made little eye contact. He mentioned meeting again, but did he mean it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

15 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I went on a date last night with a man I met on a dating website. He is new to where I live and so he had his profile up to meet local people. We had been exchanging texts for a while, he stopped talking because he went train (he's in the US Coast Guard) and said he needed ... (263 words)

I have a crush on my teacher, told my friend who told her family. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

15 September 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - I can't tell my friends about anything. I told one of my friends about a crush recently.....she told her entire family. My secrets have gone viral. The trouble is, her family know who I am crushing on....they could tell him ANY MINUTE now! I am so scared. I have such a big crus... (86 words)

I'm in love with my friend, who's in an unhappy marriage. Should I tell her my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

15 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a female friend who seems to be in an unhappy marriage. Her husband constantly loses his temper for no reason whatsoever, causing her to cry. He's never hit her, just shouted at her. The other night, she phoned me in tears after he'd left for work because she... (176 words)

Am I overthinking or has the relationship run its course?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

15 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Iv been with my partner for 3 and a half years.we live together. We have got to the stage where I feel we should either get married and be ttogether long term or not be together atall... recently I have been looking at him and thinking,I don't think i want to be with you long... (154 words)

Last chance to make a move and I'm shy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

15 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - We have two more days of university and I don't know what to do. I'm quite shy, and I can't even guarantee that we'll have a chance to talk to each other. We're both in our mid-20s and have been studying together for the last year and a half. We're not friends but are friendly- ... (345 words)

Hard from seeing a naked woman?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

15 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question about erections.... My last two boyfriends could only get half boners from seeing me naked, one was heavily into porn. Is that because I look bad compared to the porn? Is it because they aren't really that interested in sex? I alway thought guys wou... (63 words)

How can I help my girlfriend feel less "broken" and regain confidence after a previously emotionally abusive relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

15 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - A little over 5 months ago I met my "dream girl", and our relationship has been going really well so far. I'm 24 and she is 22. She doesn't seem to have a whole lot of confidence in herself though. I asked her about it in the nicest way possible and she told me that her ex used ... (146 words)

Why did male friend delete and block me on social media?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

15 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I befriended a prominent political figure on social media (Twitter first, then Facebook) and we seemed to get along very well. He started a political news organization and he invited me to work with him and I accepted. He's very, very conservative and traditional old school. ... (256 words)

My boyfriend discusses our intimate details with his best friend. Should I not let this worry me so much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

15 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, my bf likes to tell his best friend (male) all the intimate details of our relationship and I need advice on how to not let this worry me. I found out from the GF of his bestfriend who is told all about what my bf says. It kinda hurts as it's not good stuff:( It used to ... (189 words)

Due to religious differences, our friendship can go no further. Do I bring it up with her or let it remain unspoken?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

15 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - OK, I am wondering if you can help me. To make it short and simple, there is this young woman at my job who I have become friends with. I like her very much, as she is very smart, reflective, and has strong values, and we have a lot in common. However, due to religious... (340 words)

My best friend and my ex are dating just 3 days after we broke up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

15 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I had a boyfriend that i was really, really in love with. He was the first in everything for my life, I thought of him before myself. We had great time, he was my first kiss actually which is weird for me because i am not attracted to how a person looks normally, but he seemed ... (717 words)

My coworker has issues with me. Is she jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

15 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been working at my job for 3 years now and I like it and I get along great with my other coworkers but there is one girl that I have been working with that has always seemed wishy washy. When I first started working there she barely talked to me and seemed kind of ... (389 words)