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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I like the friend of my ex but am afraid he might think I'm a psycho!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

22 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - dear cupid i have this crush on a guy had it for a while and thought it would go but now he is invading my dreams i really like him and i know one kiss from him would be a dream but here's the problem: he is friends with my ex who dumped me 3 yrs ago for another women a... (206 words)

I don't think the time is right to tell my parents I'm seeing a boy from another faith

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

22 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - im a 21 year old catholic girl in love with a hindu boy of the same age. sweet n short.. the problem is religion. although we have been in this relationship for 1yr and his folks knew about it they were cool. they even accepted. but my parents don yet know a thing. they know we ... (159 words)

He opened up to me, And now hes avoiding the subject!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Please bare with me. IM so confused and really need advice from everyone and anyone. I have been talking to this guy for about 3 months. We talked a few years ago as well but we lost contact due to an ex trying to sabotage us. Anyway, back to the subject. we been talking ... (647 words)

She asked him to cheat but I don't know what to think!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Im going out with a boy who'd ex is also one of my friends. He dumped her after a huge arguement and she recently told me that she still has feelings for him. Just a week ago she wanted to break up with her current boyfriend. She didnt want to do it herself so she asked me if ... (168 words)

Date help needed: how do I ask a guy out via text?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4057 days ago

22 September 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi. I really need help. I want to ask a guy out (via text, I am too shy to ask him out properly) and I want something cute to say. How can I ask him?... (36 words)

Contraception -- condoms and what else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - When having sex should i use one or two forms of contraception just to be on the safe side?? I know i should ask him to use a condom but what other contraception should i use???... (36 words)

She doesn't want to lose our relationship but she doesn't want to fully commit either

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

22 September 2013 (M)

age - My girlfriend and I have been together for about three years. She is 19 years younger than me. I am a young 65. During this time she has lived with me at my flat although she has her own cottage in a nearby town. Recently she has talked about, 'Getting her "old self" back'. I... (276 words)

I ended it because I was afraid of how strongly I felt about him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am trying so hard to forget about this man i am very much attracted to. But the more I deny I have feelings for him, the more I keep thinking about him. I think I am in love with him but I am not so sure. The last time I have spoken to him was 3 months ago and the reason why ... (221 words)

Can't stop cheating on my boyfriend -- why?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

22 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 and have been with my boyfriend for 9 years, but I can't stop cheating on him. Our relationship is really good and we love each other so much, he isn't romantic but he is such an affectionate guy. I've been looking on line to try and understand why I do it and all the ... (123 words)

I am not lubricated enough and my boyfriend couldn't care less.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hii..i have a problem with my boyfriends way of having sex with me the first day we could engage in foreplay first then then when am ready we get into the exact thing..just after that only one encounter he has turned to just wearing a condom and just stating to do it he doesnt ... (117 words)

My boyfriend only calls me to spend the night then pretends he's busy for work the day after.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

22 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hii am a totally confused lady..i have dated my boyfriend for two months now heading three.and i like him alot hs everything av ever wanted in a man but the problem is i think either he is seing another person or he is just using me for sex...he stoped calling and texting me ... (198 words)

How can someone just give up on someone you claim you have great love for

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I of 3 years broke up offically about 3 months ago. We were on and off for the last year of our relationship. I heard rumors of him dating someone new but I didn't know or really want to know because it was so devastating to think he could have a new girlfriend ... (242 words)

What should I do with this guy when I move to university which is 4 hours away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

22 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - recently I've started talking to a guy who I have a bit of history with - we've both admitted that we still have feelings for eachother but I've just moved to uni and he's about 4 hours away from me.. we've been trying to discuss what we're gonna do but the distance, history ... (62 words)

Should I break it off because he will not let go of his best female friend that he's too close to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

22 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner of 5 years is now losing me as I can no longer deal with his best friend. Shortly after I lost my virginity to him, i found out i was not the only girl in his life, but that he was mingling with others, one of which was this best friend. At the time, I didn't know it ... (424 words)

Fiancé antsy about marriage worried about step kids

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

22 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Engaged to be married but my fiancé reqlly would prefer we live together first but (1) I don't want to - i don't think it guarantees you anything and (2) n my state you can't with minor children (your ex can take your kids away). This saddens me because I know his concern... (181 words)

I don't want to be a third wheel but I don't want to tear their relationship apart either.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 September 2013 (?) age 26-29 - So he rejected mean while back. He has a girlfriend now but their relationship is based on possessiveness. They have a strong rope around each others necks. He gives her so much but she doesnt do anything in return. Plus hes been having some personal issues. At least that's ... (171 words)

My body issues are holding me back from losing my virginity.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

22 September 2013 (M) age 30-35 - Hi all, I'm in a bit of a difficult spot. I want to lose my virginity with my girlfriend but I also have intimacy issues (I am embarrassed about the way my chest looks) which is making this hard. She has mentioned making love before, but I sort of skirted around the subje... (98 words)

Why do guys pretend like they are looking for a great personality when it's really just physical attraction they are looking for? Why don't people just admit the shallow truth?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

22 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - From experience and observation, I know for a fact that a huge majority men do NOT give a crap about a woman's personality. They just instantly know whether they are going to put up with a woman's crap or not. If you find someone physically attractive and you think you have... (228 words)

He hasn't called after a fight

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

22 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend (5months) and I had a fight the other night. The exact details I can't even remember. Basically we were suppose to meet up on Thursday because we haven't seen each other for a few days so I was waiting to hear from him when he got home from work. What's been ... (264 words)