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Archived questions from: 2 September, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He told me I shouldn't try to wear a bikini again! Yet he looks at porn when I'm out of the house! Am I wrong to take this to heart?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

2 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My stomach was severely covered in stretch marks after having our first baby. Its been 3 years and I've worked really hard to get back down to my college weight. So I said something to my husband about trying to get back into a bikini. He told me that my stretch marks look bad ... (135 words)

Rhetorical question: is this true love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

2 September 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Imagine a situation: An average-looking guy meets a girl that suffers from some light physical handicap (that also includes some dis-figuration like a scar on her face). Supposedly, the girl does not get any attention from other guys because of her handicap. She fee... (386 words)

Was my relationship abusive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

2 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple years ago, I had a boyfriend who I was really attached to. He was nice to me at first but everything went bad relatively fast. When we became "official", lots of people warned me about him and told me that he was not a good guy but I ignored them because I was blinded ... (680 words)

Are my friends right and I'm in denial?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

2 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear agony aunts, I'm usually giving advice on this site, but some of the posts here had me rethink my dating behavior and my good friends recently hint that I might be in denial of something, so here's my story. Throughout my youth, I felt like I might be bisexual, then o... (515 words)

How do I stay strong when I tell him to get out?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

2 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend doesn't work, contribute to bills, rent, groceries and he is destructive. How do I stay strong when I tell him to get out? I met him in January of 2012 and he my first impression was not to feel like he was a very nice person. You know that feeling like the... (780 words)

He's my one and only, and I feel like I missed playing the field

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

2 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I have been with my husband for 5 years we were 17 when we got together, a year later we had a son and got married. My problem is that he's the only person I've dated or had sex with ever! I find my self wondering wat It would be like to date around have fun just ... (134 words)

My boyfriend is my father's slave! What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

2 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hay everyone, my boyfriend of 5 months is a very good person (too good perhaps) and a bit workaholic, who would always help if he could. Otherwise he feels guilty about himself. On the other hand, my father is very egocentrical, quite egoisti and he lacks empathy. I ... (549 words)

Is it a red flag when a 55 year old man has lots of female friends young enough to be his daughters?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

2 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I am 35yrs female (single). I am dating a guy who is 55yrs old (divorced). I like him very much and we are taking our time knowing each other. There is not intimacy between us yet and I like the way he respect it and we share quality time and space. We started to share... (261 words)

Torn between the girl leaving for university, and the local one.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

2 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure what to do, I'm in a boat I've never been before. I've been getting close to a friend of mine all summer, we both knew she was moving away to university 200 miles away and I gave her the option of either making things a proper relationship and going long dista... (406 words)

If he loves me, shouldn't he want to be intimate more often?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

2 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I are celebrating our second wedding anniversary in October. We have been together for 6 years and have two beautiful but trying daughters. This weekend we had a huge fight and when I confronted him about the fact that he doesn't try at all in our marriage he ... (221 words)

I think I am straight but hate that I am emotionally attracted to men also.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

2 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I wrote in originally at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-a-male-and-hate-that-i.html but I'll clear up a few things for you to make it more specific: I'm emotionally and sexually attracted to women - normally, anyway, have dated women always, never men - but, as for me... (167 words)

Are my friends up to no good? Should I stay away from them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

2 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - On a night out with some friends I met a friend of a friend at a bar, he said that I was welcome to go along with them back to his house, to make things clear lets call my friend s and the accuaintance a, we'll we got to a,s house and we had a bit of a party, my friend s got ... (378 words)

How do I get over the resentment I feel for my partner/baby's father of nearly 3 years who has never offered to marry me to this day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

2 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am with my bf nearly 3 years now and I am upset that he has never to this day offered me marriage. I hate to sound demanding by writing that and I really don't know why this starts to bother me so much as it never bothered me this much before!! I guess its old age starting to ... (1683 words)

Boyfriend spends so much time with his friends that I feel we are missing quality time together.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

2 September 2013 (F) - I am in a relationship with someone for a year. He is the love of my life..we are both in our late twenties. I know we love each other very much. He puts me first in so many ways and I do the same as well. I know I want to spend my life with him and there isn't anyone I would ... (749 words)

I am a male and hate that I get emotionally (but not sexually) attracted to other men. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

2 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 23, and I've started finding myself getting emotionally attracted to men and I HATE it. I don't feel sexually attracted to them, only emotionally, sure there are some physically attractive men, but it only goes as far as looks and emotional attraction, not sexual ... (162 words)

Should I cut ties with my friend so her brother (my ex) will accept her again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

2 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I never really got over my ex boyfriend when he broke up with me. It's been 5 years since we split and he is marrying the woman he started dating right after we broke up. We had dated for almost 4 years and planned on marriage. About 6 months before the end, he was sent away to ... (707 words)

I get cold feet as soon as I get a date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

2 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all! So I've joined a dating website and have been approached by many people. I like the attention and getting dates is not the problem. Its going on them. I get cold feet a day before a date or when a guy fixes a date. I stop talking and just cut out. I really want to g... (138 words)

I like her, but she is going through a divorce and I'm confused

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

2 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I'll try to make this quick. I'm 33, I met this girl(mid 30's) who I would see occasionally at her work when I stopped by there. I'm kinda shy and she was always busy so we didn't talk much. I got her number, texted her but her responses seemed slow. I mentioned calling her ... (337 words)

He used me but I still can't get over him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

2 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I'll cut to the chase as quickly as possible, and i'm not trying to sound desperate if it comes off that way. This boy I've liked for almost a year is just absolutely amazing. But i found out some things about last year that is too much to explain, but the way i found ou... (287 words)

How do you get over the one that first broke your heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

2 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been asking this question to myself, over and over for a long time now. When I think I found an answer, something else comes up and places me back where I do not want to be. We were together for 10 years. We were going to be married. That never happened. When it ended... (313 words)

Should I accompany my boyfriend, who will leave for another country for 13 months?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

2 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Not sure if you can help me but I need some advice. I was married for 5 years and then divorced (married a bad man) anyway didn't think I would find someone so soon after but I did. I met my current BF 1 year after my divorce was final. Anyway I have a great job and gr... (255 words)

My mother and I won't get along. How can I get her to listen to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

2 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I need advice involving my relationship with my mum. I find it hard to respect someone when they dont respect me. For example, last night while watching tv, we were having a casual conversation about my degree when out of the blue my mum says "why couldn't your bo... (268 words)

Why would a married man flirt with an employee if his marriage is secure?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

2 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all. I really need some advice so here goes..one of my managers at work constantly plays and jokes around with me unlike with any other employee..for example.. he makes sexual comments..he has given me a tight side hug..he gives me compliments on my hair..nails, ... (224 words)

Where does her money go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

2 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - For about 1 month now, I have started dating a stripper that I met in my neighborhood (she's my neighbor's niece). The relationship so far has been going great, her line of work hasn't interfered with our relationship. So far she has been very honest and open. The question t... (242 words)

My boyfriend acts like I am a stranger in public.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

2 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there i just want to put a situation out there about my friend and see what people think, so.. Over the past few years I have noticed whenever my friend invites me to places and to meet people his actions/mood towards me change, such as he will become silent and dista... (346 words)