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Archived questions from: 17 September, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Did I make the right decision? Long distance relationship - decided to cut contact temporarily

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

17 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - For the last almost 2 months, my boyfriend was on a different continent for a work commitment, so there was an 8hour time difference between us. The first month or so was ok, but he was very busy, both with work and he never seemed to miss out on parties or going out. Now I ... (369 words)

No strings relationship. When is it appropriate for me to contact him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

17 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I started this relationship that is supposed to be no strings attached and we both seem to like each other more than we should. We talk everyday and he usually initiates the conversations. We have only met twice. I have heard nothing from him today. I would like to assume h... (93 words)

New Bf almost seems to want me to be Jealous. Where should this line be drawn?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

17 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm looking for opinions on where the line falls between being a jealous girlfriend and being a disrespectful boyfriend. I try really hard to be someone my new (about 2 months) boyfriend can stand to put up with. I give him space, I do nice things for him, and I try to alway... (356 words)

Do I go on doing my job without justifying? Or do I try confronting her? What's the best strategy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

17 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I started a new job and before we signed the contract, I asked my boss that I do not to wish to do particular tasks at work - which we have discussed at the interview but he forgot all about them once he handded out the tasks...I reminded him, and he agreed. One t... (291 words)

Should I tell them that I am also dating other people because at the moment I am not looking for a relationship, I am just enjoying myself as I am not sure what I am looking for?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

17 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, just some quick advice really... I have been dating 2 girls, one girl I have been on a few dates with over the past few months and another girl I have dated a couple of times. Should I tell them that I am also dating other people because at the moment I am not looking ... (130 words)

I'm having trouble coping with anxiety.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

17 September 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - This isn't really a relationship problem but my complete lack of a love life is a big part of how I feel. I suffer from depression and anxiety... depression about my lack of a love life and anxiety about my work life. I was in a pretty shitty job as a cleaner at a school for ... (548 words)

Is Ex-Girlfriend's mother using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

17 September 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 42. I was in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for 9 months but she broke up with me eighteen months ago to concentrate on a new business. Her mother contacted me a few weeks ago out of the blue. After several days of small talk and no mention of ex, I... (271 words)

His toxic ex won't respect our relationship!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

17 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - We've been together 3 yrs, we just got engaged recently and plan to be married soon. We both were married before for 18+ yrs. My ex is only I the picture due to our 4 kids, his ex is in the picture because she can't live without him in her life. She surfaces via text, email ... (220 words)

Shouldn't we get to know each other a bit more before we actually meet?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

17 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey fellow aunts and uncles, i started online dating about 6 months ago and i was a bit disappointed with it as it was always older men or creepy messages i got :( However this really cute guy messaged me, just the normal how are you?. We started talking but he wasnt much of ... (202 words)

With all my issues I'm afraid he's more into me than I am to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

17 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so im seeing this guy and everythings fine and its literally my first 'relationship' so to speak in over two or three years. my last relationship was with a guy who really was awful and forced me to have sex with him before bullying me and threatening me, and there has ... (247 words)

She's frustrated because we don't have enough together time; I'm frustrated because I don't get time with my friends.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

17 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have nearly opposite schedules at the moment and haven't had much time together. On Saturday she flipped out on me because I played a game with some friends while she napped. I was waiting for her to wake up so we could spend time, but instead of getti... (433 words)

Am I being-over cautious about moving in with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

17 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and to be honest we've had quite a few problems over the years. Things have been going better over the last 6 months or so, but we came very close to splitting up before that so I feel there is still a way to go before we are properly ... (273 words)

How Long Do You Pay For EVERYTHING When Dating?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

17 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - At what point do you start to split the bills, if you will, when dating? I'm 3 weeks or so into it with this girl, and I'm starting to really feel the burn on my wallet. I know she's not a "gold digger" and I'm almost more than certain she'd be fine paying for things too. Thing ... (287 words)

I am giving him a second chance although he lies and cheats.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4105 days ago

17 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for just over three years now, and it's my first long term relationship. We've had our ups and downs just like anyone. Recently we had a heart to heart, he went out to lunch with a girl who he had been deleting messages and didn't tell me. He ... (284 words)

Will he be hurt if I don't see him on his birthday?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

17 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 4months now,we work in 2 different cities and we are both doctors!so for us its a task meeting,whenever we find time we try to meet.. Its my boyfriends birthday in 2 weeks and I just found out I have to be on duty that day and I really d... (101 words)

Why am I fantasizing about a man I don't know?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

17 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are in a really great relationship. We met at college and since we grew up in different towns, he goes back home for his summer vacations so we don't get to spend a lot of time together. I have used the free time away from him to spend time reading, listening ... (218 words)

Is this where I draw the line, are there 'rules' for when you are told to F yourself?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

17 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has said "fuck you" to me at increasing frequency. I remember the first time being offended, he said it with anger towards me in an argument. The next time it made an impression, I remember thinking I was numb to hearing it, and mocksaid it back to him, feeling ... (343 words)

What are possible reasons for a man to distance himself when another woman is NOT involved?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

17 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'd like to know some of the main reasons a man (35) would distance himself, after 3 years together, to the point of a break up if there isn't another woman involved. Let's say said man is distancing himself, drastically, but still telling his partner he loves/misses her... (71 words)

I just want him to let me go!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

17 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy for over three months now. He has serious commitment issues, which he warned me about. He never had a long term relationship, and less than a handful of them were monogamous relationships. He agreed to be exclusive because he saw potential for ... (323 words)

As soon as we returned from a lovely trip, his whole demeanor changed. Why the 180?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

17 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for about a month now. We just got home from an amazing trip to the mountains (4 days). Everything wss petfect. No awkwardness, fights, nothing but hugging, kissing, hand holding, and love making the whole time. But as soon as we got in the car his ... (118 words)