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Archived questions from: 24 September, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm not making as much money so I'm behind on my alimony! Ideas?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

24 September 2013 (M)

age - i need help, i have recently got married and had a baby with a beautiful 24 year old girl. my ex wife took me for alot of alimony, and i was ok to pay her for the first year she was awarded it for five years. im having difficulties now paying her and taking care of my family. i ... (312 words)

It feels like he blames me for finding out about this child with an ex of his!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

24 September 2013 (F)

age - I've been married for almost 17-years. When we started dating (first year) we had sex almost everyday. After 5-months into our relationship, we were informed that my husband could be a dad from a former girlfriend (she had four boyfriends at the time). We didn't stop our lives ... (196 words)

She had a breakdown when I was her advisor and now 6 years later, she's sending me very strange emails. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4105 days ago

24 September 2013 (M)

age - About six years ago I advised a graduate student from China who didn't do well in the lab and failed to complete her project. She left with a Master's degree but also went a little nuts when she was here. I had to take her to the Psych ward at the University hospital. She soon ... (438 words)

Is there any chance a handsome guy could like a fat girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

24 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Dear Aunts and Uncles So, this is gonna be a silly question but i hope you could answer anyway... Well, there is this guy i met that i really like. We are in the same group of friends (i am new to the group). The thing is i don't know if there is any chance some thing... (693 words)

I lost the love of my life and don't know what to do!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

24 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey Everyone, Where do I begin? I want to try to be as honest as I can so I'm trying to be fair to both the girl I love and myself. It's been almost a year since I lost the love of my life. And yet I simply can not move on. I have tried everything. And I mean everythi... (307 words)

I just discovered that his ex owes him a lot of money!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4105 days ago

24 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello Aunties! I have been with my bf for 3 1/2 yrs, we have lived together for the last 2yrs. He treats me like a queen...however....his ex who lives in another country and has been engaged throughout our entire relationship is a problem. They dont have any children togethe... (472 words)

I do still love him and think about him but I'm confused by his words!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4105 days ago

24 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I love this guy, and he tells me he loves me. We have been together for 6 months now. All this while we've been together,i thought we were a couple until last week wen i text him that it was better we broke up since he said i was hurting him. I loved him so much but i really ... (209 words)

Does looking at and smiling at another woman in class mean a guy is interested in her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

24 September 2013 (?) age 51-59 - Hello. Just wondering what everybody thinks. My boyfriend is a group fitness instructor at a gym. I take part in some of his classes sometimes. What I noticed is that he has looked at an attractive blonde who is at the front of his class and he has exchanged smiles w... (152 words)

Even after a nasty break-up thoughts about my ex are interfering with my new relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

24 September 2013 (F)

- Hi I am 27 femaleand I have a dilemma... I was in a relationship with Andrew until last June we were together 3 years and had some great times. But... I got into financial difficulties and lost my farm and went through some quite bad depression as I felt a failure. Now And... (231 words)

My boyfriend's best friend is a girl who likes him and it really bothers me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

24 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone so I'm not sure if I'm over reacting or what. But my boyfriend has a girl best friend I'm not used to dating guys who have girl best friends infact I absolutely hate it! But he's been friends with her way before we started dating. They talk on a daily basis like ... (308 words)

Did I lose out by not dating or having sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

24 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 27 years old virgin boy from India currently I live in Melbourne.In my Home country it is pretty common(no sex before marriage). I feel that I lost a big part of my life with out sex or relationships.Remaining virgin even after20 or 25 is common in Australia? And also I am ... (66 words)

Should I move on or give him some time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

24 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been on a few dates with this guy and he has been a gentleman, very romantic etc. He tells me that he likes me over and over again and that he wants to get to know me. We have kissed and cuddled only. Now my problem/ confusion is that he just told me today that he mi... (140 words)

I worry that men think I'm only good for sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

24 September 2013 (?) age 51-59 - Even though I have had relationships in the past, lately I think sometimes that I am only good for sex and I guess it's because of the guys I meet. I am attractive and whenever I talk to them they just see my body and not my personality so I play along and answer their q... (143 words)

What do his actions mean... friends or more than friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

24 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - A friend of mine, we'll call him Kyle, and I have been flirting quite a bit lately. I've known him for a number of years but have never acted like this with each other before. ever. Here is just one example. I want to know what his actions mean, is he into me? I feel like ... (497 words)

Does he care about me? He's so busy training!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

24 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a new relationship where we have not yet decided if we want to take it real serious yet. We have just been getting to know each other. He has decided to get back into MMA fighting which I don't mind, but his time is going to become consumed with training for it. Should ... (136 words)

I don't want to think I'm damaged but how do I get over a bad relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4105 days ago

24 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I left a very abusive relationship a couple of months ago, and in class I've met a wonderful law student who is helping me with all the legal issues involving my ex. He has been very kind and supportive and always encourages me to keep pursuing justice when I am feeling down. ... (235 words)

How can you practice kissing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4105 days ago

24 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. :) So I have a serious issue. I got a date to homecoming and everyone keeps saying the guy is gonna kiss me. Problem is, I have no idea how to kiss. I've never had my first kiss and I'm not one to like practice bc how are you supposed to practice on a non-moving object? ... (145 words)

Why do I still want to talk to him after what he did?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

24 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently having an issue getting over someone and I do not know why. I met this man about two years ago. He would come in to my place of work and talk to me quite frequently. I thought he was very sweet and charming and so when he asked for my number, I obliged. We star... (589 words)