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writes:Hi please help!One of my labia minora is stretched, saggy and gross! Is there anything I can do and if not is it weirdAlso my breasts have been stuck at a 32a for a year now what does this mean? (My mother is a c aunty is a d as is cousin does this influence mine?)Basically guys: is a gross weird vagina and tiny boobs a turn off?Girls: does anyone have these issues what can I do?Please answer honestly
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2013): Listen sweetheart if you got all the parts and they work don't worry i don't care about that. If your confident and friendly and can show your pearly white teeth then your a keeper in my books. I do not give a crap about what anybody else would say or do. Heck i would even date you . Do not worry, please just continue being you. Move forward...
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2013): "Please answer honestly". That's exactly what I'm going to do:
Guys are not as picky as you think And they are definitely not as judgmental as girls. Your female friends may tell you that you are unattractive because they are mean and competitive, but you won't have such problems with guys.
As long as you keep your vagina clean and healthy, nobody cares about how it looks like. There are 3 billion different female members out there and none of them are totally symmetric.
Also, as long as you have a pair of girly nipples, your size doesn't matter. Some guys prefer A, some others prefer DD, but as long as you look like a female, you will have your own group of male fans and admirers.
There is one thing that turns the guys off: a girl who is insecure and inconfident.
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reader, angel91 +, writes (5 October 2013):
You're still young and still developing. In my case, I didn't even start to wear a bra until I was 16, and was in an A cup until I was almost 19. They stopped growing at 21, and by that stage I was a C cup. Everyone is different in how and when they develop - at 22 I've also grown an extra inch in height, which is beyond the 'normal' age to stop growing.
Regardless of what size you will eventaully develop to in time, the female body is beautiful. Is Keira Kightly's body any less beautiul than Beyonce's? :)
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reader, Aunty Babbit +, writes (5 October 2013):
 You are perfectly normal in all aspects emotionally and physically.
Your breasts will continue to develop for a good many years yet. Make sure you eat a healthy well balanced diet and take regular exercise to keep your body healthy for this very important growing phase of your life.
As to what size you end up is genetic but not only from your Mum's side, your Dad's family have input too :). My Mum, her sisters and my sister are all A's and B's I am an F but then my paternal grandmother and her daughters were all large chested ladies (so thanks Dad!)
All you can do at this point is wait and see. It's also normal for one to be bigger and grow faster than the other. It does (usually) balance out in time.
As for your labia, that too is growing and developing into that of a woman now too and it's perfectly normal to have one labia larger than the other.
I have, and at your age, thought it was ugly and that I was deformed in some way.
As a midwife and sexual health nurse I've seen hundreds of women's bits and they are all different!
They come in all different shapes, sizes and colours and, you know what?, Guys don't care, they like them whatever they look like.
There is no stereotypical or socially acceptable look to a labia.
I think it's great that your getting to know your body and learn what is normal for you. Please don't worry too much, you're body is going to change much more yet, be patient :)
I hope this helps AB x
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (5 October 2013):
 You are still developing. Breast can grow from any time between 10-20 really. I didnt get my full size until I was around 21. So be patient, let things grow and then have a second rewiew at 20. If you are still worried then, go see your doctor and ask if it is normal/what can be done. But so far you sound very normal to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2013): Oh my god! It scares me that someone your age is thinking like this. All vagina's are weird. Get over it. Your boobs will grow. Even if they don't men just like boobs, all sizes, even if it's just a bit of nipple - they seriously, seriously don't care, they're just happy that a woman is willing to sleep with them. Please stop obsessing over this, and please make the most of being young will you still can.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2013): frankly looks wise, for me the most important factor in a girl is the face. if it looks good then the whole package is good.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (5 October 2013):
 First off, you are far too young to be worried what your labia will look like to a guy!
Secondly, more women have uneven labia than even ones! It's totally normal. Many are longer than the outer ones, in pink, brown, purple, or any shade in between. Some are smooth, some are wrinkled, some are "scalloped" looking. There is not "normal" labia, they are all normal so long as they aren't physically hurting you when you go about your daily activities. This website may help you get a better sense of what a "normal" vulva is (hint, there is no such thing).
http://www.channel4embarrassingillnesses.com/galleries/vulva-gallery/
You are way too young to know what size your breasts will be, they won't stop growing until your early 20s. For now embrace your small chest and know that men love breasts of all sizes so long as they are attached to a woman.
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reader, like I see it +, writes (5 October 2013):
 Breasts and vaginas come in all shapes and sizes. Asking what's normal is like asking what a "normal" person's face should look like - a wide variety of versions are possible. Some women have breasts with up to a cup-size difference between one and the other and that is perfectly normal as well :) More importantly, if you're age 13-15 like your post says, you're still growing and your body is still changing. There is nothing wrong with having small breasts or asymmetric labia but you also may not even have those characteristics when you're fully developed.As far as breast size goes, I've heard anecdotally that your father's mother is a good indicator of what size breasts you will ultimately develop. I have not done any further reading on that; it's just something that I've been told and that happens to be true in my case. My father's mother was flat as a board and here I am, still rockin' AAs at 25. For what it's worth, I never lacked for boyfriends once I started dating :)Please don't let this stuff worry you, because you're beautiful exactly how you were made. Best wishes :)
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reader, CMMP +, writes (5 October 2013):
Do you really believe that out of everyone, you're the only one who has a uneven vagina? Of course not. It's very common. I would recommend a tumblr website, but you're too young. You also have plenty of time to grow, so don't worry. Even if your body never changed you would be fine. Men are far less picky about women then women are.
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