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writes: What are your opinions on period sex?Especially guys...Would you have sex with a woman on her period? Would you do this only if you were in a relationship with her and care about or love her? Or would you do it with a random woman if you wanted to just have sex with her?If a guy has sex with you and you have your period, does this mean he has a connection to you...feels close to you and comfortable enough with you to do it or is he just looking to have sex?I am curious about some of your opinions and/or experiences on this subject.Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2013): It would make a big mess! You could just have oral sex until the period was over.
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reader, Stoney1215  +, writes (5 October 2013):
It definitely does not mean anything about connections or if he loves you or cares about you. Guys dont do or not do sexual things based on how much we love a woman. Exception for some guys is something he feels degrades her in his eyes. And i stress some guys.
I would not hesitate to do it in my younger years when sex wad new and i didnt know if or when i would get it. Now that im older i like my messy sex to look like messy sex not a crime scene. But it is a personal preference.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2013): As a guy, I would not have sex with a random girl I just hooked up with if she was on her period.
I would want to have some trust, familiarity and comfort level built up with her.
So I usually have sex with someone I am seeing regularly... like a girlfriend or my exclusive FWB....
BUT it would also depend on how SEXY she was. If I was turned on enough, I would throw any if's, and's or but's out the window. Lol
That's just me.
Maybe I am not your typical guy.
And all us guys do not fall under the same category. Lots of generalizations going on, mostly by girls...
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reader, happy140 +, writes (5 October 2013):
 In today’s world I would NOT have sex with a woman during her period as a one nightstand, or even girlfriend UNLESS I knew she was STD clean. With that said, one of my long-term relationships LOVED orgasms during her period. We would engage in intercourse but she loved oral. No it is not as bad as that, she would douche and clean up well and I would stimulate her clitoris only, with my tongue. I stayed away from the discharge area and concentrated on her clit. Mind-blowing orgasm was what she called them. Therefore, if I were serious about a woman in today’s world I would still do that. No quarks about it here and never a second thought about it.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 October 2013):
 yeah i've had sex on my period and while I didn't much care for it, due to mess and cramps, if the guy I was with was ok with it, that worked for me.
IT has NOTHING to do with closeness or how they feel about YOU but rather how they feel about blood.
If memory serves, the men I had sex with during my period were never serious or emotionally very connected partners.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (5 October 2013):
 I think CMMP nailed it.
It has nothing to do with a connection. But whether a guy is turned off by blood or not.
Personally, I'm not a fan of it, because mine comes with mega cramps and sex is the last thing on my mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2013): I have always found women to be more how to say it "hungry" when they are on, just make sure you strap up and it's all good, nothing a quick shower won't wash away
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (5 October 2013):
 I don't find that having sex when on your period is anything kinky or weird - I think it's normal and , luckily, my partners felt this way too.
I know though that SOME men won't be up for that, they are squeamish, or they have sexual hang ups, or they have a blood phobia..Whatever it is , that's fine , it's a choice that needs to be respected, obviously I would not insist if a man has a problem with this.
It has got absolutely nothing to do with a special closeness, IMO - just, some guys are a bit uptight, and some are not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2013): I have had the best sex of my life with my fiance, while on my period. Its not that we planned it or anything, it was like the 4th day and I had almost stopped bleeding and he couldn't wait so we decided to go for it. I think I started bleeding mid-way and he didnt want to stop so we went all the way...and it was AMAZING! A super turn on, it was the one thing that we hadn't done together and I had never thought I could do this with any guy, so it was special on may levels. It brought us even closer and was really kinky.
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reader, scrdofyou +, writes (5 October 2013):
 My ex and I had a blast when I was on my period. Sorry if I'm too blunt, but this is how I feel on the subject: if you dont mind a little mess, go for it. Its warm, and the woman is usually much more turned on during those days. Good luck :)
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (5 October 2013):
 I would not have sex while on my period unless it was with someone I trusted. And so far Ive only had sex with my current boyfriend while on my period. Because he cant keep his hands off me and doesnt care. Other boyfriends of the past didnt try to have sex with me when I told them Id rather not. Just the current bf who convinced me ge didnt care. He sees it as natural, and nothing else.
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reader, R1  +, writes (5 October 2013):
 I've had sex while on my period - women feel more horny during this time!!
It's not about closeness it's about whether the bloke thinks it's disgusting or not, periods aren't that nice!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2013): I'm a straight woman and yes, i have often had sex on my period. In fact, i think a lot less of guys who get freaked out by it - i think it shows a lack of maturity. Women are usually hornier at this time of month, so just put a towel down. It really isn't a big deal.
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reader, llifton +, writes (5 October 2013):
 i'm gay and would only sleep with a woman who was on her period if i truly loved her. the reason being because honestly, it would gross me out if it wasn't someone i was that close with. cooties, ya know? :P
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reader, desiree075  +, writes (5 October 2013):
I am a bisexual woman. No, it wouldn't bother me. But I would avoid oral sex. I would most likely stick to genital-to-genital stimulation. My boyfriend doesn't like to have sex with me when I'm on my period. I think he simply prefers not to. Maybe he would do it if we weren't in a relationship because he might think, "This is my only chance." But because we spend a lot of nights with each other, he can spare the few where I'm menstruating. it doesn't make us less close or less passionate.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (5 October 2013):
I know you want opinions from guys. But I have to agree, it doesn't have anything to do with closeness. I've had sex while on my period with almost every partner and some I was in relationships with and some it was just a friends with benefits situation. I think it depends on if they think it's "gross" or not that big of a deal...just put down a towel.
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reader, like I see it +, writes (5 October 2013):
 I may be way off the mark here, but if you are currently in a casual relationship and looking for hints that your partner feels a deeper connection with you, this wouldn't be a good indicator to use.
I've had FWBs who were totally cool with period sex and boyfriends of years who were not. From what I have experienced, it really just depends on the guy and comes down to whether seeing blood during the act is a turn-off or not. Just like some people can handle seeing injuries or needles and others can't. Hope this helps.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (5 October 2013):
I think it has nothing to do with a connection to anything, the guy just wants sex and isn't turned off by a little blood.
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reader, unknown2u +, writes (5 October 2013):
It's never bothered me. I can't speak to the outside of a relationship part because I can't remember back that far. I think it's a bigger deal for gals than guys, because it never crossed my mind about being a sign of closeness. It's just a bit messier and maybe a bit kinky.
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