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writes:So, right now my life is not perfect. Currently going through a very rough time and sometimes i wish something good would come out of my life just for once. Anyways i ve never really been in a relationship but for some reason i kinda feel if i did it would make my life feel better in a way especially right now. Im not sure if this is the right time to let something happen. However at the same time i feel pressured because there is someone iv e been interested in but it's almost the end of the school yea and im not sure if much will happen.He is such a nice kid, cute and really different from most guys. I have classes with some his friends and i planned to become part of their circle but i wasn't sure i would fit in and it's almost the end of the year so. Also there's been roumrs that he has a girlfriend so im not sure. I mean i like him but is this too pressured? what shall i do?
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reader, Darrell Goodliffe  +, writes (29 May 2013):
 I think how you are feeling is understandable. Your having a rough time, you feel the need for some companionship, somebody to be there with you and support you. In terms of the timing, when is ideal? I think the pressure you are feeling is that you are putting yourself under to find something you not unreasonably feel you need.
Before I go any further id find out if he does have a girlfriend because although some companionship would be good for you, getting involved in a potential emotional mess is something you most certainly do NOT need. If he hasnt got one, go for it, there is nothing stopping you, if he has then I would steer well clear. Good luck x
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