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Should I give up or approach him about hanging out again?

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Question - (23 June 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 June 2013)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This is such a stupid question....

I've known this guy a very long time. He is 29 now and I am 21. I met him when my brother dated his sister in highschool and that was a long time ago considering my brother is 28 now.

Well.... I have always had a crush on him. Butterflies and all of that good stuff and I saw him yesterday cause he picked up our niece (my brother and his sister's baby)

Anyway everytime we see each other we lock eyes and just stare into eachother eyes and I get tons of butterflies and sometimes we joke around but he never ever approaches me romantically. So, one day I asked him out to the movies as friends and all he say was maybe :/.

I just want to know should I stop wasting my time. Like seriously I stayed a virgin thinking maybe one day we would be together. But now I'm starting think maybe I'm wasting my time and imagining this chemistry between us.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (24 June 2013):

aunt honesty agony auntIt is clear that you have a crush on this guy but he may not feel the same way or else he may think it might be to complicated as your brother and his sister are together. It sounds to me like he may already know you have a crush on him. If you asked him out and he never said yes then at least you made the effort, I think now the best thing to do is move on and date other people and enjoy your life while you are young.

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