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Is it wrong to look at glamour models?

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Question - (18 June 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 June 2013)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *aksi567 writes:

Is it wrong to look at glamour models?

Hi guys, I am a 23 year old male, who likes to look at girls on websites such as zoo and nuts Is it wrong because I do it everyday? I try to stop it but its like having an addiction and to be honest I'm interested in meeting an everyday girl in a pub or a club, not a model.

I do have a lot of sexual urges and this may be Why I do it? I Being a virgin it make it more scary for me, not knowing what it is like to have sex or to be in a relationship. It has me thinking, do girls go for experience guys more or not? In the past, I struggled to speak to girls and communicate with them. Nowadays, I have no problem speaking to girls and can have nice social conversation and even flirtatious chat, just don't get enough opportunities. What makes it worse is being stuck in at home all the time, not socialising enough with people. I do have friends but a lot of them work and live with thier girlfriends, meaning they have no time for me. I'm trying hard to get a job as well, to make money and go out more but don't have any luck.

Resulting in another promblem and having no money. At this moment in time, I am a student at college hoping to get to University next year. Should I be patient and wait, and If successfull hope to meet a girl at University. Finally, I have hobbies to try to stop my urges such as, gym and going for walks but can't no resist looking at glamour models. Obviously, they are beautiful girls but really they are normal girls with enhanced features such ad makeup and hair extensions. Overall, I am a confident guy, who believe in his own ability. Just need some advice to help control my urges and cool my frustration. Can you guys give me any? I am a smart guy, just lost my way in life.

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A male reader, oaksi567 United Kingdom +, writes (18 June 2013):

oaksi567 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for the advice everyone, I really appreciate it.

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A male reader, oaksi567 United Kingdom +, writes (18 June 2013):

oaksi567 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for the advice, I never though about taking a dog for a walk in the park. I should try it some time. How can I take my mind away from sex and losing my virginity to not caring anymore?

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (18 June 2013):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntTo quote the (modified) famous words of Gladys Knight:

"If looking at glamourous models is wrong; I don't want to be right"!!!!!

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