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anonymous
writes:My ex of 5 years dumped me without any explanation. We were in a long distance relationship. He still said he loved me and missed me a month before he broke up with me. I have no idea why he would change so st. He never contacted me after the breakup. I kinda accept the fact that he won't come back, but it really does bother me why he broke up with me. Does anyone suggest that I initiate the contact and ask him why?
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reader, DV1 +, writes (12 July 2013):
 I did an LDR. It was killer hard. I don't recommend it.
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (6 July 2013):
 He probably met someone else and was too chicken to tell you. I'm so sorry he hurt you and left you like this.
If you really want to know the true reason why he broke up with you, then go ahead and contact him, but I agree with So Very Confused, in that he may not respond.
If he is brave enough to answer your questions honestly then you'll be lucky, but most likely you will have to seek closure on your own without his help.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (6 July 2013):
The problem wasn't with you, it was with your "relationship". LDR's should be considered a temporary necessity, not a permanent thing.
He probably just got sick of it before you did.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 July 2013):
 i don't think you should. He probably will not have an answer
at your age after 2 years if the relationship has not progressed to NON-LDR it probably never will
you wasted 5 years of your life on a non-relationship. some folks use LDRs as a way to hide from having real life... it's possible that was his plan here....
I did an LDR for a year... then we could not bear to be apart and he moved to be with me.
we have friends who are LDR and have been from day one... they got married last september and are still LDR but only a 90 minute train ride so he comes to visit most weekends for 3 nights...
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