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writes:Hi aunts and unclesSomething really great happened to me today! The guy I've had a crush on for months Talked to me! He talked to me because my friend introduced me to him, what he said was not much but I am so happy! He said my name and looked me right into the eyes! Right now, after I've been jumping and screaming for hours in a row, I know for sure I want to talk to him again. What should I do? How do I start the conversation? Will he find it weird or awkward if I start talking to him again?Thanks you for your help!!
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (7 July 2013):
Hello again. I agree, by all means say "Hi" and give him a nice warm friendly smile.
And he will most likely respond in the very same way.
And before you know it, you will be deep in conversation.
And you will be wondering why you ever felt so nervous about it in the first place.
It is usually the way it happens.
Some taboo subjects that should never be talked about are:-
(1) Past relationships.
(2) Religion.
(3) Politics.
(4) No deep dark family secrets.
(5) No gossiping about other people.
(6) Sex.
(7) Nothing too personal about yourself.
I mean, they are all fairly obvious, but I thought it was worth mentioning to you, just the same.
Just about anything else though, using discretion of course, is probably just fine.
Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi all, thanks for your answers.
He is single indeed, he's not dating anyone.
We do go to school together so I see him in the hallway quite often. Saying hi then might be a good start, I've been wanting to do that all along but I never had the guts to.
Thanks again!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (6 July 2013):
 First question: is hr single?
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reader, Dorothy Dix +, writes (6 July 2013):
Hi there. Well at least you have met him - face to face - so that's a start.
I am assuming that this was in a social situation, meaning that you were all out somewhere.
It is probably not up to you to chase him, but he may not have your phone number as yet.
If he wanted to, he could get your number from your friend, I suppose.
And it alost depends on whre you usually see this guy.
Do you go to school together, or university or college?
Or is it only in a social environment, that you met him?
And if only in a social environment, well then you are probably not going to run into him in the street when you go shopping.
Maybe you could speak to your friend, and she might organise some group going out somewhere, and all meeting up.
And this could be an opportunity for you to see him again.
And then you could just say "Hi" and start chatting.
And see where it goes from there.
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reader, Dionee'  +, writes (5 July 2013):
 The first thing to do is start by saying hi. This helps your crush become familiar with you. Even if you don't talk right away but just greet when you see him around it would be a great start because i know how nervous he must make you.
Engage him in small talk, make a joke just to lighten the mood.
You should talk to him again because talking is the best way to get to know someone.
Get to know him and allow him to get to know you and you just might find that he thinks you're interesting or he might enjoy similar activities, music or the same stuff you do.
You'd never know unless you try so give it a shot
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